Someone asks you if you want to go skydiving. You reply quickly ‘I can’t imagine doing that’.
Or, do you want to expand into a bigger or nicer home. “I can’t imagine that.”
Someone describes their life of abundance. You think to yourself “I can’t imagine that for me’.
It is a good practice to start noticing your automatic replies to things. Wonder if maybe it’s just not for you or maybe it’s an unconscious limit showing itself to be re-looked at to see if that stills applies to who you are now.
These are declarative statements we sometimes make when something seems too big, too outside the box, too much abundance or too (whatever). And sometimes we just do not have interest or curiosity. That’s valid when it truly applies.
The truth is people say these things without conscious thought. Wherever they were adopted from, they are showing you and others your limits. Recognize that some limits are necessary and some just stop us from growing. If you don’t catch your self or have a friend notice what you say, then you may be giving clues as to why you are not able to change, be who you choose to be or not achieve your goals.
Is it time to challenge your old ways?
What are those automatic thoughts that stop you from who you want to be?
We are so much more powerful than we ever give ourselves credit for. There is a way to use our brain, as it is designed, to make changes within ourselves and in our experiences of life.
Cognitive therapists talk about how our brain is designed to use both cognitive and intuitive functioning. The approaches I have learned activate the mostly unknown truth that we can also use our intuitive functioning just as easily as we use our logic. It provides immeasurable benefits.
It just takes the right training.
I first learned how to use Left/Right Brain Integration Skills at age 24. It has empowered me in ways that my students now experience; below. The fantastic news is that once we use these skills our life opens up and we can continue to expand out of any small life box in which we find ourselves.
Here is a progression of personal development reported to me by a student this year
My dreams for my future have expanded.
I am more grounded now
Doesn’t get pulled off center as easily as before
Manage my emotions better
Has set better boundaries with others
Picks up on other people’s feelings
Does not get drained by others
Someone close to me is changing in good ways
From my own experience and reports from others, these are natural progressions which occur for everyone who learns and uses it.
These skills can be learned in class and in private sessions. The private sessions allow you to learn the ones that apply to your immediate life needs.
What bothers me about you, belongs to me. From a German saying.
That translates into what bothers you about someone else, belongs to you.
This is an axiom for personal empowerment; a fundamental law for human interaction.
Leaking Personal Energy
This is not just words. This speaks to the amount of energy you have for your life. You have more power when you heal your leaks thus altering your awareness of your self. Continue reading below… The Gift
The Gift is that each problem you judge in someone else is life giving you a signal to do a little healing within yourself. Why walk around with your open wounds so easily push-able? These are your buttons. Own them. Do a little self-healing and self-realizing, so that no one can push those buttons to cause you pain anymore.
A Masterful Teacher I had in my twenties, Frank Natale said: No one can reject anything about you, unless you have already rejected that within yourself.
Thus these friends, people, coworkers are actually acting as your GPS system for you to find your energy leaks, aka the buttons that cause you pain. Once healed, you gain more personal energy through personal empowerment. Give thanks for them playing their role in your life.
Own It to Be Present in Your Life
In situations where you may judge and condemn others, you are leaking personal energy. Most people think their problems are because of someone else or something outside of themselves. This level of consciousness leaks your personal energy out of you, losing what you could use for fun, loved ones and achieving your goals.
And you wonder why you are tired! You’re like a leaky water hose, losing power and pressure while spraying everyone else.
Just like real estate being all about location, location, location…
…Life is about consciousness, consciousness, consciousness.
Invest time and resources in bettering you. It pays a lifelong dividend.
Do something today to make your life better for you and those around you. Consider a coaching session. A trained person can see things for you that aid you in permanently patching the leaks in the flow of your life.
Embed goals within your inner being to make for achieving your goal become a powerful process from within. From within you is where all your true power for long lasting change emanates.
Once comlete, your life will begin to move in that direction. And you will find it unfolds in your awareness, in new ideas, in things to release and things to embrace.. You will begin to have synchronous events and opportunities that show you the way forward.
First, identify the goal’s phrasing using your body’s feedback mechanisms clarifying the precise wording to make it perfect for you. Usually the right goal is a balance of challenging yet very doable. Select a goal either slightly beyond where you are or greatly beyond your current life experiences. You could dare to choose the one that brings major leaps forward in life.
This becomes your Desired Result in life. Once this is clear, the integration process begins.
You will be guided in a series of movements while you say your Desired Result either aloud or silently. This integrates and syncs your left and right brain. And each phase embeds it deeper into your Visual, Auditory and Kinesthetic layers of who you are, referred to as your unseen bodies.
Powerful energy is unleashed.
You will leave with the written goal, a sense of accomplishment and instructions to back it up. I will continue to support you if you need a brief phone call or email.
I did this earlier this year for two major desired results of mine and all kinds of changes are happening in my life. UPDATE: Life has changed dramatically as I align to these.
Are you ready? Is it time yet to rise above your own resistance to what you want in life?
What is it costing you to suppress your true desires for the life you came here to live?
Is it time to unleash your dreams and the powerful self that has been dormant within?
Call me. Let’s schedule this life change. This can be done via Skype.
You are just One New Thought away from what you want in life!
Are your thoughts worrisome or optimistic?
,,,Supportive or self-sabotaging?
……Loving or Fearful?
The thoughts you have lead to the life you live. This is the way life works. The old thoughts of worry and pains of the past can be replaced with new thoughts of abundance, ease and joy. Then life will start heading in that direction.
Most people do not realize that their thoughts can be changed. Weed out the bad thoughts like you pull weeds from your garden. Plant seeds of thoughts of how you want life to be. Nurture them and your life will begin to change to match your thoughts.
Experience a guided mindfulness journey of finding your current mental garden of thoughts. Then create a new current mental garden by weeding the old one, turning the soil and planting the seeds of new thought.
In the emailed Cultivate Your Mental Garden Guidebook:
Before the class, you will receive a “Cultivate Your Mental Garden Guidebook” via email.
Work with this brief guidebook, contemplating and making choices to help you choose the thoughts to work with.
Agenda in the class
Open with a short guided meditation to get centered and connected to the othes
Discussion of thoughts and choosing your thoughts
I will lead you in mindfully creating, weeding and planting your mental garden
Discussion and Q&A
You can purchase the guided meditation as an MP3 file, at a reduced rate, to use on your own.
BIO: One thing people often say I excel at doing is leading these sort of focused mindfulness processes and meditations. Sample my meditations and talks at SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology; there is a 40-day series that enhances abundance.
I am an electrical engineer who has lived and worked globally. While in the Far East I took a class in Malaysia that taught me precision thinking at age 24. That mixed with an inner voice I’ve heard in my life to spark a lifelong passion to learn how to utilize a world of skills that lies within each of us to make life all about peace, love and fulfilling achievement.
Your deliberate thoughts create deliberate life experiences. Practice choosing your thoughts and watch your life change. Doing this teaches you that you can direct your life.
July: Freedom from Within Guided MeditationSpiritual Living Circle You Hold the Key
Power Up with a powerful spiritual healing treatment
Sunday 1-2:30 pm
A Syntheses of 3 Uniquely Powerful Approaches to Empowerment
In this world, we are educated and socialized to use our left brain, which has to do with the logical thinking. However, the ability to alter something in our life exists in accessing the right brain as well, the intuitive mind.
In this class, we will learn to access whole brain thinking, based on applied brain science. This trains us that we can maximize the use of our right, intuitive brain as much as our left, logical brain, becoming more deliberate about our lives, directing our thoughts for internal and external change, and achieving our goals, whether they be career, health, wellness, mental or physical.
When you manage your mind while you discover powerful inner skills you can write your life’s script.
There are multiple perspectives to someone changing from being reactive to life to being able to generate their life.
From an applied science perspective, this is simply a way for you to use your brain as it is designed to cause your life through deliberate choice. This is using left/right brain integration skills.
A quantum perspective enables us to work with the unseen creative forces that cause life so that we direct our own life and achievements.
From an energetic perspective, we learn to directly alter our energies thus directly changing our life and internal state.
Click the picture to go to a series of 40 days of intuitively guided meditations based on The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price. These are at my SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. Click Playlist: The Abundance Program – Daily Meditations. Listen daily for 40 days and your consciousness will evolve into the Truths about Abundance and where it comes from.
Effective Communication Between Folks is Difficult When People are Busy Filling in the gaps of information with their own past stories from life.
This is a sliver of Brene Brown’s social research mixed with my invaluable training from The Natale Institute about this subject.
When someone is telling you something, a story or something about them self a phenomena happens if the listener does not practice effective listening. The listener will hear one or two points then their brain will take from one of their own stories from life and fill in the missing pieces. It then becomes familiar and understandable that way. That can easily lead to inaccurate judgments and decisions being made.
That moment is what causes so many difficulties. When people do not have facts straight they then share with others a lie that can be the seed that hurts others. If those added pieces were from an unhealed part of the listener’s past then that unhealthiness will be introduced into this relationship thus exacerbating problems. Everything is energy.
I am a licensed spiritual practitioner with the Centers for Spiritual Living, csl.org. In the 1990s the organization had non-accredited classes. One of them was about communication. I taught it and when I led this exercise it was eye opening. I whispered an event with some names and details into one person’s ear. Then that was whispered from one person to another until the final person said out loud what he or she heard. There was barely any semblance of truth to what the original story was. Each person had heard what was not there and added to the story from their own thinking process.
This also happens when someone is operating at a higher than healthy level of stress. Stress distorts thoughts and perceptions and does not allow us to be present to hear accurately.
This is why I like talking with people and being in communities where there is a willingness to verify what they think they heard and there is a freedom to clarify what was heard. But most people just hear what they hear, judge what they judge and move on thinking that they have accurately perceived the truth. Thus problems are propagated and the Universal Value of Unity is not upheld becoming, instead, an ego-driven value of separation.
What to do
When an atmosphere of effective communication has been established then defenses are dropped and hearts connect. Verify and clarify are important qualities to have in healthy effective communication between people. And, all it takes is an intent to connect with someone underneath the facade of life. There are specific skills that can be utilized and styles of communication that promote healthy and effective communication thus healthy and effective relationships.
Effective communication is a necessary topic that leads to an effective atmosphere to get things done in groups, businesses and communities.
There is a plethora of detail that I could write about this subject. And that is beyond the scope of one blogpost. I am attempting to present bites at a time so that the blogpost does not become a dry research paper 🙂
As a part of a class, I began doing daily meditations about abundance principles. I completed the 40th and final one today; each one lasts about 15 minutes. These are based on The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price.
I uploaded each one daily to my audio site at www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology so that the people in the world has the option to increase their abundance in life through evolving one’s own consciousness. There is a companion journal available in pdf format.
This is a great program for a couple, a group of friends, a group of seekers or a spiritual community or… Instructions are simple: Start with day 1 and listen to one each day without any distractions. Watch your own evolution and life abundance grow.
The bottom line is your level of abundance in any area of life individually and collectively, is directly because of your current consciousness about where you believe abundance comes from. And through proper identification and evolved consciousness you find that true abundance comes from a relaxed use of the abundance principles.
And true abundance in your life can be as expansive and lavish as your consciousness develops to allow.
I offer this to the world as a part of my mission to uplift the consciousness on the planet. I ask to hear insights and testimonials. And when you find value click a donate button (on the right) and show some love this way…in the form of money. That will enable me to do more programs to spread the word of a fundamental truth about life:
Life is all about 3 things: Consciousness, Consciousness and Consciousness.
THAT is what makes your life be what it is…and what it will be.
The Grand Design For Success & Holistic Wellness
by Lamar Irwin
Holistic wellness leads to an empowered life and a real sense of well-being inside and out. It occurs when the matrix that makes up a person’s life causes he or she to feel fulfilled by living a desired life. A person subjectively measures well-being in many aspects – career, friends, partner/spouse, money, love, play, emotional/mental, spiritual and other aspects that are important.
There are those that recognize room for improvement and are ready to make some adjustments to increase a sense of well-being. The greatest wellness develops by deliberately choosing one’s desired results in life while deepening the understanding of working with life. People are designed with all the inner skills necessary to maintain, establish and increase holistic wellness. With the right knowledge these inner unseen skills are utilized to change life externally and internally.
Permanent change for the better in a person’s life begins from within. The grand design for people is that everyone is born with skills to make the life they desire. It is simply a matter of the right education. The good news is it works for every person.
“Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy.”
by 20th-century sociologist Robert K. Merton
Meditation is the most well known tool for making life changes, and is continuously being confirmed by new scientific technologies. Meditation is when a person is focusing thought, and heart, on a single thought, or feeling. Sometimes it is staring at a single point or flame. For the advanced meditator it is to be without thought. A meditative state focuses one’s whole being in a single direction. This is what causes deliberate life changes.
A meditative state occurs when the brain’s operating frequency range is about 7 to 14 hertz (cycles per second). In daily life, people’s brains are operating above 14 hertz. This is when eyes are open and the physical senses are engaged. Every person has a built-in switch to change the brain from outer reality activity mode to inner reality creative mode.
The switch involves mental focus, intent and controlled breathing. To go within begins with an intent to disconnect from the stimuli of the physical world. Relax and do some deep breathing focusing on the air movement and how it feels. Deep breathing is enough to get the process started. In a short while the brain frequency adjusts to the right frequency range, and one feels relaxed. From this point there are a multitude of activities that will benefit in different ways.
Once a person is at this level of peace and relaxation the intelligence expands to include the intuitive and creative mind. At this point there are a multitude of options.
Some of the known uses of being in a meditative state
Find and Establish Peace Within = Most people are introduced to meditation where the goal is to relax and clear the mind. This is new to people living a busy life in a busy world.
Dynamic Meditation = Cause deliberate changes in life. Visualization is a much validated and scientifically measured skill that directly alters our being. Proper visualization techniques are known to alter the neural programming in the brain and heart real time. Brain difficulties have been overcome using these techniques. There are other trained uses of the imagination that will cause change at different levels in a person’s life.
Oneness Meditation = Allow the release of attachment to what the eyes see as separation between people, things and other so the person establishes a strong sense of connectedness to all things.
Visioning = Ask questions of a higher knowing, universal love or other name. Receive direct answers in some form. Establish a strong sense of love within one self fully connected to the Universal Love
Sports Performance and Task Improvement = Some studies show that when a person effectively imagine their sports performance beforehand, it can significantly improve his or her performance. This has been also applied to desktop or other work tasks to improve the quality and performance.
Open One’s Heart Center and Fill Up with Healing Unconditional Love = To those who have had their hearts awakened they know this energy can be drawn in, received, magnified and sent. This is a good heart healing process. The more a person opens their heart, the more their heart will heal and stay open for more love.
[Author: I would have included the following had there been more space for the article]
Change stress level = Integrate a simple countdown method, based on brain science, into your life that instantly relaxes your mind and body, on cue. This is also the key to health and health.
Eliminate headache/pain through Precise Thinking = Every person who uses this gets off pain medications and one man had a spinal implant; he turned it off after the first session. Precise Thinking is incredibly powerful.
Access Logical & Intuitive/Creative thoughts to Build a Magnificent Project = The brain’s logical thoughts are accessed always when the eyes are open and we are engaged in our physical life. With intent and breathing with eyes closed the mind can be shifted to access intuitive/creative thoughts. Best practice: When you are creating a project: First, write down all that is in your mind with your eyes open. These are the logical thoughts based on what has been learned, experienced and absorbed in this life. When you want a new idea, think of the question that will bring you the answer. Close your eyes, breathe deeply several times and imagine walking down some stairs to go within yourself. Then pose the question in your quieter mind. Pause and listen for new thoughts, ideas, colors, images, smells, sounds. It will come to you however it can reach your awareness.
Develop Your Mind to Focus Thoughts, Logical & Intuitive, for Evolving Personal Benefits = When a person uses this precise process to relax the mind and body there is a wealth of inner skills that begin to unfold in a person’s consciousness. There is a predictable progression for the inspired person who practices it regularly. It begins with the ability to de-stress and relax mind and body on cue making this process shorter and more usable. Intuitive, creative and new thoughts begin to bubble in then they flow more so. Much more…
Basis for Being a Medical Intuitive & Sending Focused Corrective Energies = With a mind that is being mastered and directed by its owner it can be trained to enter different assigned dimensions for a particular purpose. One is the ability to remotely scan an imaginary image of a person – given name, age, gender, location – and detect what is not working correctly and where it is. This is precise and everyone experiences this.
The mind is an incredible place. Mastery is a lifelong pursuit with Life Mastery as a great side effect.
Choose a practice ~ Learn it ~ Practice it ~ And witness life unfolding in much grace and ease.
Lamar Irwin is an electrical engineer, licensed spiritual coach, life empowerment coach and brain trainer. For more information, visit Curious Mind News blog at CuriousMindNews.com.
“If you want to know what you have been thinking then take stock of what, who, etc is around you in your life.”
One of Frank Natale’s to-the-point sayings.
Thought Creates Your Reality
Great thoughts yield a great life
Clear thoughts produce clear life results. Confusion does otherwise.
Deliberate thoughts yield a life of one’s choosing and loving
Reality is the Result of a process begun by the thoughts a person is choosing to imagine, feel and focus on in their mind and heart. It gestates in the Creative Mind where the unseen Creative Forces begin arranging for it. It is nurtured through one’s regular relaxed imaginative focus upon their life as they see it, as if it is already done.
If you are new to these empowering concepts or if you are an old hat at it… Study this previous paragraph and implement it. Practice it regularly and watch how new opportunities and ideas show up, how you synchronistically run into the right person or overhear the right conversation and other opportunities come to you. You simply begin to magnetize what is needed to accomplish what you are imagining into your sphere of life. Many other events occur in your life and in your mind and heart that are different signs. This is simply working with the Creative Mind as it is always providing you what your life choices have brought you to. Each of those choices made in your mind hopefully with great input from the heart-mind.
What are your thoughts when it comes to:
Are you in charge of your life or is it in charge of you?
Take charge and learn how to refocus it deliberately
Love of and for friends and family
Career success and happiness
Material world: house, car, other desires
Heart Care as in forgiving, healing and expanding your inner sacred heart
Mind care as in learning, challenging yourself
Spiritual growth and care as in learning, practicing
Emotional care is different from Heart Care although they are connected. More…
Consider a different perspective on emotions. They can be seen as e-motions = energies in motion. The e-motions you feel are your programmed inner interpretation of how the energies feel that are running throughout your body system and all around you. You can sense that in your head, your chest or other locations by quieting yourself and focusing your attention in the different areas within.
If anything, take some personal care time, grab a pen and pad, find a comfy place, play some music that brings you peace and focus. Then lose yourself in an hour of daydreaming, contemplating and expanding the thought box in which your life is being lived.
Contemplate what you desire in life from today to next month to the end of the year and bigger longer-term goals. Write them down. Play with them until they feel good; i.e. they are stirring up good energies within you that you interpret as feeling good.
Yes, it is a tedious process in what was just written. To parse and discern one’s thoughts, emotions and inner workings is to gain more and more dominion over your inner self…thus your experiences of life.
Ready to Integrate Some Change?
I enjoy helping people expand beyond what they ever conceived of doing. Or for the person who has held in a quiet dream or desire. Or for the professional seeking the next level up.
The resulting combination of the diversity of systems I have learned, practiced, licensed, etc to unleash the human potential studies assist through focusing on the thoughts, emotions, energies, sensations, life circumstances.
In this process the beginning steps will become clear. This is your journey so all of my focus is how to fine tune you like tuning an instrument. And to bring answers from within your own self to your life questions.
We live within a Law of Mind that reacts to our thinking.
“We are all immersed in an aura of our own thinking. This aura is the direct result of all that we have ever said, thought or done; it decides what is to take place in our life; it attracts what is like itself and repels what is unlike itself. [sic]
We have this law in our hands to do with as we will. We can draw what we want only as we let go of the old order and take up the new; and this we must do to the exclusion of all else. This is no weak man’s job but an undertaking for a strong, self-reliant soul; and the end is worth the effort. The person who can hold his thought one-pointed is the one who will obtain the best results.”
~ Creative Mind and Success by Dr. Ernest Holmes [p 18]
I recently had a direct experience of choosing to walk through this process for my own life. Thanks to a friend I had 3 days at a lake house where I let go like dumping the contents of a household into the trash. I dumped the trash and debris of life from within my inner household. The changes in my life are still happening two weeks later. A change into a better sleep pattern. There’s now room for new ideas and they are abundant. There’s now room for good feelings within me and they are abundant. There’s now room for greater results to occur in my life and they are becoming abundant. There is a noticeable increase in clarity and focus in my life endeavors. And weight is starting to fall off with my natural appetite at about one-third of what it was.
Affirmation: I am grateful that I have the free will and courage to let go of life’s debris thus open to life’s gifts, guidance and miracles.
Come join us this Sunday for a talk, discussion and meditation concerning this.
Kay came to see me last April. She is someone I knew years ago and she found herself with multiple dire medical diagnoses, multiple pharmaceutical prescriptions, pain, stiffening, loss of her creativity she’s always had and more. The thing about Kay is she came willing to learn, willing to do something different and a strong desire to have her life back. Ingredients for success.
In the first session I do what I do, listening for what is going on within her. I also am sensing for the thoughts, feelings, energies that are underlying her, at this time in life. I am listening and sensing for those components within her that have taken her wellbeing offtrack from its natural state And am receiving ideas of how best to approach it. Some of these must be out of sync within her causing these problems because her natural state is health and wellbeing. That is true for all of us. If we do not have wellbeing then there is an internal blockage of some kind; all blockages can be removed and overcome.
Much more happened in that session and I recorded live a customized audio of a healing modality specific for her in the session. These will alter the thoughts, feelings and energies in her body continuously aligning them to wellbeing. I emailed it and she listens to this daily.
In later sessions she received two other customized audio MP3 files that approach healing from different perspectives.
These custom recordings work within her, in the inner workings and systems that operate a human being. It is altering these inner energies that run her life from within her. It is reprogramming the neurons in the brain and heart to have what she wants. It also calms and focuses her mind and energies. It continues to foster the healing from within her. And it subtly trains her that she can have a lot of control over her body workings and life. She can use those skills for the rest of her life.
Maybe halfway through the process, she came in for her session and she could not stop giggling. She had released enough old to let the good bubbles of giggles to come up in her life. That is a great sign of progress and continues more than a month later.
There is a lot more to the story and here is a list she gave me in June titled “Points of Improvement, Kay Roberts”
Clear thinking again
Lower back pain is gone
Inflammation has retreated/subsided
Sleeping better, longer periods, well rested. She’s not tired while driving to work an hour each way
Coworkers and friends are noticing the change and asking her what she’s doing
Taking 2/3 less medications than before
Creativity has returned in various forms: quilting, sewing, guitar playing, non-profit stuff, others
Skin is clearing up from Lupus lesions
Skin is thickening
Can do pilates/yoga without pain or discomfort
Can stand long periods of time again
Can see and talk to her guides again
Can see auras again
Built protection from unwanted ‘visitors’. (She has natural ability to be a medium although it’s not her profession. We designed inner controls so their visits were under her control instead of the bombardment she used to have.)
She feels the presence of her dad again, who has passed over
Her positive attitude is back and is being felt by others
Becoming a better partner to her husband
More caring, loving, compassionate
She is in her mid-fifties. She has done this for herself. I am the teacher guide in this.
The reason she is having great success is why I wrote above: The thing about Kay is she came willing to learn, willing to do something different and a strong desire to have her life back. Ingredients for success.
These results and more are possible in my role as the teacher guide since I have studied, practiced, apprenticed for decades in learning how to work with thoughts, e-motions, behaviors, inner senses, visualization for change, healing, energies, and more. Everything in our life begins as some energy within us.
That energy can be directly altered which then starts letting the inherent power of the human body heal itself to be used just for that. My job is to listen for how to align your thoughts, e-motions, behaviors, etc as listed above. Then I provide skills for you to change that for yourself. These skills are usable throughout your life.
As I work with those people who want to get their lives back from the existence level they find themselves in, I always see a glimmer of Light in their eyes and feel a reborn sense of possibility in their heart.
That is an infinite reward from the Presence of Life I get to witness 🙂