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Change through better use of your brain

Channels for Intelligence in the Brain: Logic & Intuition/Creativity

Have you ever wondered if the thoughts in your head are just the way life is?

The brain is an actively changing organ in the head that weighs about 3 pounds. It has electrical impulses that we call thoughts. Neurons, neural pathways, and neural density hold the software in your brain. This is like the software on your computer and smart devices.

Just like changing the software on your computer, you can change the ‘software’ in your brain.

To answer the above question: You are in charge of your thoughts. If you do not like what they do to you, then change them. Gain Mind Mastery.

Scientifically validated. Brain Neural Programming, BNP, is the only alternative empowerment method that has passed rigorous scientific standards for its effectiveness.

The way you think, talk, re-act, act, behave, choose life, handle or not handle stress, walk, etc: ALL of that is a result of early childhood brain neural programming, BNP, by family in early childhoow.

The way you lift your arm, the way you think about everything, the way you lift a pen, if you are sure or demonstrative, the way you put on your clothes… every single aspect of the movement of your body is a mental program.

Now, how many of you went ‘oh shit’ to that? Many people grew up in great families where these childhood learned programs work. Great. Don’t change those.

And some of us grew up in varying degrees of dysfunctions and worse. Change that!

I definitely did not want to be like my family’s severe dysfunctions and abuses. So, my spirit led me to start learning how to do life better as soon as I left home for college.

Identify the thought patterns and behaviors you want to change. Then, change them. What are the mental processes you want to improve? Manage stress to make wiser decisions? Get rid of pain without medicine? Visualize what you want working with the way your brain is designed to work.

How many years did you go to school as you grew up into young adulthood? You learned some useful skills in english, science, math, arts, etc. What did this do?

Schools trained you to have the skills to do tasks in life.

That is what I am doing for you in class or sessions so that you learn inner management skills that are useful in life. You learn to use your thoughts and that when you do this, you gain more direction over yourself, thus the life you choose.

First, we go over the skill you are about to learn and how it will benefit you. This is done as in all the classes you have taken: eyes open. Next, you close your eyes to shuts out 80% of stimulation. I guide you to turn your attention from outside of you to within yourself; your internal workings. Through a script and audio, we change the software in your brain for you to gain a multitude of useful skills.

A skill I wish I would have had in college is the A+ Student Skills. These train your brain how to study less and have more playtime…all while increasing your grades. Those who use these mostly graduate with honors.

What is your motivation for change? Internal and external?

When I guide you to make these changes using a script and a sound, your brain begins to rewire its neural programming, right then and there. These skills are immediately useful. Audio files of these skills help you continue them on your own. Continued use does something I never thought possible…your brain begins to develop in new and beneficial ways. And the techniques become useful in mere moments.

Synopsis of how and why it works.

The brain operates at various frequencies for different modes of operation. In general, the higher the frequency the more you are eyes open doing life. As the frequency lowers the advanced use of the brain gets stronger. The higher the frequency the more you are living in just the material world as measured by your five physical senses. The lower the frequency the more you are living in the infinite potential of Quantum Energy and Quantum Intelligence. At the lower frequencies, the body’s innate self-healing is activated.

Frequency (hz) range        Brain Mode Type of Thought

Above 14 hz Beta Logical – Deductive thinking
14 to 7 hz Alpha Intuitive/Creative & Logical – Deductive & Inductive
7 to 4 hz Theta Intuitive/Creative & Logical – Inductive only
Below 5 hz Delta Coma healing. “Doorway to the other side”

Beta Brain Mode is for the Outer Action Brain Mode – Interface with the physical world. This is when your eyes are open and you are doing life.

Lower frequencies are optimal for the Inner Creative Brain Mode – Interface with the Infinite world to improve the way you manage your inner self and influence how your life becomes.

The most optimal mindset to have is to be relaxed and focused. Learn how to get there as needed.

The alpha brain mode range is the most effective range for creating the life and internal states of being that you desire to create. This is the brain frequency where you are usually sleeping. It just takes some re-training so that you learn to stay alert and focused while you are this relaxed mentally, physically, and energetically. Healing occurs below 14 Hz, especially below 7 Hz.

An interesting aspect of the way we are designed is that we have controls and switches to operate our body and mind. You will learn more of these throughout classes and/or sessions. The first one is that when you want to go to the alpha level (the change mode) to do something it is a matter of controlled breathing and mental direction. There are additional things that can be done to relax.

Benefits of using your alpha brain functioning, Your Inner Power Center:

  • reprogram your brain to achieve what you desire
  • relax mind, body, and energy…on cue
  • develop your intuition/creative thoughts to be…on cue
  • visualize to initiate the Laws and Principles of Life to bring you what you want
  • gain creative thoughts
  • receive intuitive thoughts
  • get better ideas for a project or solution 
  • become forward thinking
  • think for the long term
  • get out of the surface mind yo-yo
  • increase your intelligence with ongoing practice
  • detect things remotely
  • go to your past or future
  • increase your whole brain functioning
  • increased mental focus
  • Impress upon and Invoke the Intelligent Reciprocal Quantum Field with your Desires

What do you want to change? Internally? Externally?

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Gift of Renewal – 14 min to shift within

Guided meditation. Renewal: In Sync with Your Divine Rhythm 14 Minutes

Give yourself 14 minutes to release built-up stress, connect with your inner rhythm for life, and feel peace.

We are living in a historic time having to seclude and protect ourselves and others. Take a few minutes to relax and feel connected. It helps

Uses:

  • Had a bad day?
    • Release and renew before you take it home with you.
  • Nervous about a performance or a meeting?
    • There is nothing like relaxing and connecting to your center. Doing so has always worked for me before giving a talk or presentation.
  • Feeling tired?
    • Listen and renew
  • Was your morning too much to handle?
    • Take a 14-minute break to let it go, get refocused, and have a better afternoon.

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Renewal: In Sync with Your Divine Rhythm

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Your Imagination is Your Way Out…for Change #ImagineIt

Your Imagination is Your Way Out of a Limited Life Box

Everyone goes through phases where something in life is too rote or not working anymore or it is just time for that change. The more a person evolves in this lifetime, the more a person has to grow out of limiting life boxes.

The challenge is that people tend to linger on what is not working. Neuroscientists say that the brain is designed to learn a habit and stick with it. It is in our brain’s wiring, i.e. neural programming. One loud NO registers immediately and the brain changes. It takes several strong YES’s to register in the brain.

Focus into the field of limitless possibilities.
Focus the Hubble Telescope into darkness for a long time yields an abundance of, at first, unseen celestial bodies. This is how we use our mental and heart focus to see into our own darkness to reveal what is truly there for us: an abundant and fulfilling life.

The great news is that consciousness supersedes habitual programming. It just takes knowing how.

Proper use of consciousness leads us out of stuck-ness

Every single thing we have done in life involves imagining it first. It is such an automatic process that we may not be aware of it. And it is our saving grace in life. The imagination creates the life framework to change and, done at the right brain frequency, reprograms the heart and brain neurons so that we can accomplish a desired change in life.

So, have your pity party 🙂 It is a part of the process…and oh my, I have had mine for way too long. At some point we are recreating the same thing over and over. When we only use our logical mind it is so focused on the past that it is recreating it for the future, over and over. Life becomes a continuous groundhog day, as in the movie.

Until we declare STOP the madness!

Make the shift:

  • Pause your normal thoughts.
  • Focus on deep breathing for a few moments. Breathe in through your nose being mindful of the air flow coming in. Hold it to the count of three. Exhale through the mouth noticing the flow of air coming up from your lungs, out your mouth. Do this a few times.
  • The more you focus on this flow of air, the more you remove the energy from those incessant thoughts and shift into your inner center where all real power comes forth.
  • That begins the shift.
  • Focus your attention onto what you desire, as if you have it, and let the energy that was fueling the old thoughts bring life to what you desire.
  • This shifts you onto your new chosen path.

Rinse and repeat. Do this process daily or even multiple times each day. This tells yourself that ‘I am making this change’. And you are telling Life, the Universe, what you desire instead. Stick with it to observe new ideas, opportunities and more come to you.

I hope this helps begin your process of change. Have patience and be willing to do something new to see the results you have in life.

With blessings,

   Lamar

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A Progression of Personal Development that seems unbelievable, if it was not reported so often

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We are so much more powerful than we ever give ourselves credit for. There is a way to use our brain, as it is designed, to make changes within ourselves and in our experiences of life.

Cognitive therapists talk about how our brain is designed to use both cognitive and intuitive functioning. The approaches I have learned activate the mostly unknown truth that we can also use our intuitive functioning just as easily as we use our logic. It provides immeasurable benefits.

It just takes the right training.

I first learned how to use Left/Right Brain Integration Skills at age 24. It has empowered me in ways that my students now experience; below. The fantastic news is that once we use these skills our life opens up and we can continue to expand out of any small life box in which we find ourselves.

Here is a progression of personal development reported to me by a student this year

  • My dreams for my future have expanded.
  • I am more grounded now
  • Doesn’t get pulled off center as easily as before
  • Manage my emotions better
  • Has set better boundaries with others
  • Picks up on other people’s feelings
  • Does not get drained by others
  • Someone close to me is changing in good ways

From my own experience and reports from others, these are natural progressions which occur for everyone who learns and uses it.

These skills can be learned in class and in private sessions. The private sessions allow you to learn the ones that apply to your immediate life needs.

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Are you like a leaky water hose, losing personal energy?

What bothers me about you, belongs to me. From a German saying.

That translates into what bothers you about someone else, belongs to you.

This is an axiom for personal empowerment; a fundamental law for human interaction.

Leaking Personal Energy

This is not just words. This speaks to the amount of energy you have for your life. You have more power when you heal your leaks thus altering your awareness of your self. Continue reading below… The Gift

 

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The Gift is that each problem you judge in someone else is life giving you a signal to do a little healing within yourself. Why walk around with your open wounds so easily push-able? These are your buttons. Own them. Do a little self-healing and self-realizing, so that no one can push those buttons to cause you pain anymore.

A Masterful Teacher I had in my twenties, Frank Natale said: No one can reject anything about you, unless you have already rejected that within yourself.

Thus these friends, people, coworkers are actually acting as your GPS system for you to find your energy leaks, aka the buttons that cause you pain. Once healed, you gain more personal energy through personal empowerment. Give thanks for them playing their role in your life.

Own It to Be Present in Your Life

In situations where you may judge and condemn others, you are leaking personal energy. Most people think their problems are because of someone else or something outside of themselves. This level of consciousness leaks your personal energy out of you, losing what you could use for fun, loved ones and achieving your goals.

Quite often, people then engage others in their outrage, spewing their self-identifying way of doing life, to all others who operate the same way. This is their Tribe. All the while losing more and more energy. This is called gossip and is a horrible meme, a virus, in mankind’s consciousness. And they are then the source of it.

And you wonder why you are tired! You’re like a leaky water hose, losing power and pressure while spraying everyone else.

Just like real estate being all about location, location, location…

   …Life is about consciousness, consciousness, consciousness.

Invest time and resources in bettering you. It pays a lifelong dividend.

Do something today to make your life better for you and those around you. Consider a coaching session. A trained person can see things for you that aid you in permanently patching the leaks in the flow of your life.

Lamar, Life Empowerment Engineer

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Lamar’s Empowerment Channel on YouTube

We have an incredible amount of power within us. This chapter of my life is to do my part to empower humanity. Empowered people live healthier, happier and fulfilling lives becoming who they choose to become in life.

You are designed for success & You live in a proactively supportive universe.

Actually you are designed to receive a new idea in your creative mind, process it within all the resources within you and output it into your life. Incredible! And true…

I am beginning to video topics and post them to YouTube along with some talks I’ve given.

I could use your help to reach 100 subscribers. Then I can claim an easy to remember URL.

Thank you

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Achieving Greatly class: Rare Skills to Utilize Your Brain’s Design, Improve Life, Boost Personal Power and

…and Increase Self-Esteem

Achieving Greatly through Mind Integration

Welcome to a new way to do life.

A Syntheses of 3 Uniquely Powerful Approaches to Empowerment

Most people do their lives using the logical mind. This operates often through stress, struggle, will power, etc. When you begin to use the other half of your brain’s design you begin to have life operate more with ease, focus and synchronicities in life. The more you use it the more your mind develops to be able to operate in different and very beneficial ways.

Imagine having the following sort of skill set for you to do life in a more focused way with greater ease, choice and direction, where you achieve what you focus upon with results coming to you sometimes in surprisingly effortless ways.

Introducing the Wisdom Method
Stress Management, Relax Mind, Body and Energy… on Cue
You have news that stresses you out and would normally divert your attention for days with your thoughts spinning over and over. But in this case you have a way to release the stress, choose your thoughts and directly reverse that negative tailspin.

Some study results of effectiveness of these Precision Inner Thinking Skills
World Health Organization: at least 90% of all illness is from stress
“The ability to enter levels of deep relaxation is critical to the reduction of potentially damaging physical tension and psychological stress.”
~ Correlates of Attention in Humans, Drs. Frederick J. Bremner, V. Benignus, and F. Moritz from Trinity University, San Antonio, Texas
Don’t carry around a bad start to the day. Shift it to be uplifting.
You wake up in the morning feeling completely out of sorts and down. You don’t want to do anything but it’s a full day you have to do. Imagine a simple thought process you do that shifts all those out-of-sorts feelings into becoming how you choose you want to feel. Shift your down and out of sync feelings into joy, happy and gratitude. The day will go so much better from that platform.

Be more effective
You look at your to-do list and feel this overwhelm and fear you cannot get everything done. Imagine a simple thought process to shift yourself into being effective at handling it all, one by one. You align your inner thoughts and sensations to the alignment of what you are about to do. Then things flow with effectiveness and ease.

Claiming Your Good in a seeming negative occurrence in life
Declare a life event to be Good so that it leads to something better. Gain the skills and awareness of how to do this. We have to do things differently if we want life to be different.

Headache Relief and Pain Management
Suddenly, you have a headache. Find somewhere to sit and close your eyes for just a few minutes. Do this focused thought process to eliminate it by the time you open your eyes again. You are in charge.

Introducing Sensualization Model for bettering life
Sensualize Your Life into Being
Advanced Visualization – Presenting a much needed upgrade to visualization, what I coined as Sensualization. This is an expansive approach working with the quantum laws of life to cause and direct your life. Sensualizing your life is using all of your senses and your heart energy laser focused on the same desires in life.

Your inner senses are how you steer your life. And you have equivalent inner senses to each of your physical senses. Sensualization is used to achieve a particular result in life; internal and external. This one-of-a-kind process of using these inner senses to reprogram your brain and heart’s neurons, to line up the path ahead, to direct your inner thoughts, feelings, energies, behaviors to your life’s desires.

Performance/Task Improvement through Precision Inner Thinking

Studies show that precision mental focus improves any performance in life, sports, job task or any area. Learn how to do this. Coaching helps. And this will teach you how to do a lot of it on your own.

Mind’s Eye for Change Manifestation Method
An innovative technique bringing all you learned in class in to a laser focus of your mind, heart and energy towards what you desire in life. Sensualizing your life reprograms the brain and heart, leverages the creative quantum forces that cause life and sends out a clear and concise order to Life in way that Life rises up to meet you supporting you in achieving what you desire in life as you become the person you desire to be in life.

Introducing Whole Mind Results Achievement Model for Goals
All goal setting techniques I learned in business are designed to work with the logical mind’s modus operandi. There’s a different thought and feeling process to achieve your goals that utilizes the advantages of your intuitive mind. Synthesize the benefits of the logical and intuitive minds results in a way to energize your desired results that helps them come easier and sometimes quicker while causing Life to bring you opportunities and open doors.

Additional skills learned include Making Wise Decisions, Developing more Holistic Projects and Goals, Energize yourself, Shift yourself…

Learn some of the Quantum Laws of Life, meaning ways to focus your thoughts that works with the awareness of how to leverage and focus those creative quantum forces for your desired results.

Improve life, Increase self-esteem and boost your personal power
Using these methods develops a greater sense to be able to handle life, have new ideas and access to your incredible personal power. Studies show: 83% increased creativity and intuition, out of 1000 people 49% report improved health, increased self-image, compassion and cheerfulness.

Nothing is as life-affirming and exhilarating as discovering what your personal power feels like coursing through you, and having a sense that Life supports you and your success. Invest in yourself that will bring increasing dividends in making the rest of your life the best of your life.

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Achieve using your brain’s design. Increase focus and ease. Decrease struggle and stress.

Achieving Greatly through Mind Integration

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In this world, we are educated and socialized to use our left brain, which has to do with the logical thinking. However, the ability to alter something in our life exists in accessing the right brain as well, the intuitive mind.

In this class, we will learn to access whole brain thinking, based on applied brain science. This trains us that we can maximize the use of our right, intuitive brain as much as our left, logical brain, becoming more deliberate about our lives, directing our thoughts for internal and external change, and achieving our goals, whether they be career, health, wellness, mental or physical.

When you manage your mind while you discover powerful inner skills you can write your life’s script.

There are multiple perspectives to someone changing from being reactive to life to being able to generate their life.

From an applied science perspective, this is simply a way for you to use your brain as it is designed to cause your life through deliberate choice. This is using left/right brain integration skills.

A quantum perspective enables us to work with the unseen creative forces that cause life so that we direct our own life and achievements.

From an energetic perspective, we learn to directly alter our energies thus directly changing our life and internal state.


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What if you could bend the matrix of reality to have the life of your dreams?

We do live in a multidimensional reality

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Bend the Fabric/Matrix of Life

+ We have free will and choice of what we think

+ Our thoughts lead to our life

+ We have within us the skills, once learned, that lighten up life while improving it and allowing for a more fulfilling life of achievement, self-direction and self-management.

To the question at hand… Bending the matrix of reality 

Yes, you can bend reality and you are doing this yet are simply unaware  that your thoughts cause the results in life.

Thus my favorite topic… How do we tap into our inner potential to alter life?

I first learned precise thinking and visualization to cause a change within me or externally in life, in Malaysia as a young engineer living and working in Indonesia. These skills directly empowered me to improve my job performance significantly. And management started noticing my achievements and performance under those stressful and sometimes dangerous situations.

It truly is nice to be able to choose your desired behavior, task performance or pain release through lining up your thoughts in a precise manner leading to achieving with greater ease, less struggle.

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Find a better path through reality to what you want in life

When we make choices about what we want in life and practice living them within our own trained imagination we are literally programming our brain neurons to be able to recognize and act upon ‘the goal’ when opportunities start coming to us. It also sends out energy from your body’s energetic system to move the matrix of reality creating a path leading towards the desired result.

This may sound fanciful or too science fiction and it happens to be true.

As an affirmed geek I just luv this stuff. And it is practical, repeatable, follows laws and principle of the unseen forces that cause life, and leads us to becoming who we want to become.and to achieving what we are impelled to achieve.

Procedure to bend reality to be a path to achieve your results:

  • Select a relaxed atmosphere inside or outside
  • Find that ‘just right’ position to sit and get relaxed
  • Close your eyes
  • Place you attention on the airflow going in and out of your nostrils and mouth as you breathe in through your mouth
  • Hold it for a few seconds at the top then exhale deeply
  • Continue breathing in and out as your body and mind relax
  • Tell unwanted thoughts to float on like a cloud in the sky
  • Create in your imagination, using your senses, of having the result you are choosing to create in your life
  • Be sure to generate the emotions of having it. This fuels it
  • Enjoy

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Snoopy flying his doghouse. So can you with great ease.

Spend a few minutes in the morning, midday and evening doing this.

Watch what life starts bringing you as new ideas and opportunities.

Click on Snoopy to the right or here to review my upcoming class that teaches these skills. Achieving Greatly, April 29-30 in Austin, Texas.

This is a one-of-a-kind class that synthesizes 3 independently effective methods to bring forth that inner power you hear about but don’t understand until you experience it.

Lamar Irwin    #amomentswisdom

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As Easily As I Breathe I Receive Abundance…in All Forms

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You Are Born AS Abundance

The link in the picture Facebook.com/SpirituallyAwaken is my Spiritually Awaken Circle.

Click the picture to go to a series of 40 days of intuitively guided meditations based on The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price. These are at my SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. Click Playlist: The Abundance Program – Daily Meditations. Listen daily for 40 days and your consciousness will evolve into the Truths about Abundance and where it comes from.

Let me know the results 🙂

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Effective Communication Between Folks is Difficult When People are Busy Filling in…

Effective Communication Between Folks is Difficult When People are Busy Filling in the gaps of information with their own past stories from life.

What?

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                                What is Effective Communication and How is it Done?

This is a sliver of Brene Brown’s social research mixed with my invaluable training from The Natale Institute about this subject.

When someone is telling you something, a story or something about them self a phenomena happens if the listener does not practice effective listening. The listener will hear one or two points then their brain will take from one of their own stories from life and fill in the missing pieces. It then becomes familiar and understandable that way. That can easily lead to inaccurate judgments and decisions being made.

That moment is what causes so many difficulties. When people do not have facts straight they then share with others a lie that can be the seed that hurts others. If those added pieces were from an unhealed part of the listener’s past then that unhealthiness will be introduced into this relationship thus exacerbating problems. Everything is energy.

I am a licensed spiritual practitioner with the Centers for Spiritual Living, csl.org. In the 1990s the organization had non-accredited classes. One of them was about communication. I taught it and when I led this exercise it was eye opening. I whispered an event with some names and details into one person’s ear. Then that was whispered from one person to another until the final person said out loud what he or she heard. There was barely any semblance of truth to what the original story was. Each person had heard what was not there and added to the story from their own thinking process.

This also happens when someone is operating at a higher than healthy level of stress. Stress distorts thoughts and perceptions and does not allow us to be present to hear accurately.

This is why I like talking with people and being in communities where there is a willingness to verify what they think they heard and there is a freedom to clarify what was heard. But most people just hear what they hear, judge what they judge and move on thinking that they have accurately perceived the truth. Thus problems are propagated and the Universal Value of Unity is not upheld becoming, instead, an ego-driven value of separation.

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What to do

When an atmosphere of effective communication has been established then defenses are dropped and hearts connect. Verify and clarify are important qualities to have in healthy effective communication between people. And, all it takes is an intent to connect with someone underneath the facade of life. There are specific skills that can be utilized and styles of communication that promote healthy and effective communication thus healthy and effective relationships.

Effective communication is a necessary topic that leads to an effective atmosphere to get things done in groups, businesses and communities.

There is a plethora of detail that I could write about this subject. And that is beyond the scope of one blogpost. I am attempting to present bites at a time so that the blogpost does not become a dry research paper 🙂

Some other blogposts about this topic:

Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication

Gossip & Effective Communication

Withholds, Those little things that remain unsaid or unasked between you and someone

“I don’t want to talk about it.” He or She says, arms folded…

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The Dimensional Expansion of the Mind. A personal journey. Published

Austin All Natural June 2008
Article: The Dimensional Expansion of the Mind

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