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Handle Your Ego's Resistance to Change

Ugly tree face

                                   The face of your ego when you are making a change in life

What is this resistance you experience when you go to make a change?

How many times have you had to stare down the ugly face of your ego?

How many times have you given into your ego’s ugly face?

How many times have your attempted changes failed? …Succeeded?

The ego presents its ugly face when you choose to make a change in life. This ugly face is a reflection of the old thoughts and feelings that kept you where you were.

This article is about shifting your perspective so that you make your chosen change despite the ugly face of your old tree-self.

It seems scary at times. It is scary.

Your brain’s design

Your left brain hemisphere hosts the logical brain functions while your right brain hemisphere hosts the intuitive/creative brain functions.

The logical brain is simply a huge database of everything learned while on this planet. Your awareness from this is called your ego. Your logical thoughts work their way through that database to reach logical conclusions; step by step. A well-trained logical function is of great value in life as we can relate to the physical dimension of life with greater ease and effectiveness.

The intuitive brain is the gateway to the consciousness of ALL ONE. Intuitive and creative thoughts just appear in your mind as if you made them up. They always feel made up because they come through your imagination. A purposely trained imagination is good for relating to the expansive consciousness and availability of intuitive and creative thoughts.

I am an electrical engineer and my logic has served me well. Then I began to develop my intuitive brain function through applied brain science. I had to wrestle my ugly tree face. It took a commitment on my part and a powerful mentor.

Your logical mind has never met a new idea it did not resist…
until it is tamed by you

The prime directive of your ego is to NOT CHANGE…until you tame it

Your ego knows how to handle all of your current successes, failures, loves, heartaches, pains, freedoms, fears, joys and sadnesses. When your ego notices you are going to change, it throws out the thoughts and feelings that will stop you from making a change. That is the source of the resistance you feel when you begin to change. Your ego knows you well and will initiate whatever thought, fear, belief, limitation, parental voice, etc that will STOP YOUR CHANGE.

It can be tough to hang in there in the face of the attack of these thought weapons.

Shift your perspective

How do you stay focused on the change you have chosen to make?

Recognize that the ego is throwing these ‘thought weapons’ at you because it does not know how to handle change. It weaponizes your old and well-practiced fears, limits, negative thoughts and expectations to use against you.

Your path is to realize these are actually presenting themselves for you to look at briefly while they are ON THEIR WAY OUT of your consciousness to make way for the new supportive thoughts, beliefs, faith, and expansiveness!

Stay with this perception and say “Adios my old friends. Thank you for getting me to this point in life.”

This sounds simple and it is not easy until you have developed this as a life skill.

These old thoughts, beliefs, and limitations are your old perspective. They served you in your past way of doing life. They no longer serve your new life choices. Let them go. They are trying to come up and out of you. Then replace them with supportive thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and a new paradigm.

Stop trying to kill your ego!

The previous way of looking at all of this is to conclude that your ego is causing these problems. It is said you should ‘kill your ego’, ‘let your ego die’, ‘the ego is your enemy’…and you wonder why it is such a struggle? You are adding to the resistance because you do not understand what is happening. With that perspective, of you against a foreign ego, of course, it will be a struggle to change.

An acronym for ego is edging god out. That is so self-defeating and does not make logical sense. If god created each of us, then the ego comes with the deal. That is like hating your left pinkie toe and considering smashing it with a hammer to get rid of it. Ouch. Not a good idea.

Your ego is necessary for you to relate to life, to stay protected and to develop and keep good and supportive habits, paradigms and beliefs.

Why would you want to kill it? Opposing any part of your self adds to your own struggles with change and with life.

All of you is designed for success in this lifetime

The ONEness field of life is the source of your intuitive and creative thoughts. It has a greater perspective from the Infinite Loving Field which contains all answers, guidance, unconditional love, and direction for you to live your best life.

The ONEness perspective knows all that is seen and unseen is from god, the universe, spirit, quantum field.

How can we declare the ego is not of god? It has its purpose. Tame it. Use it as it designed. It is a necessary part of your design.

All of you is designed for you to achieve what you came to this planet to do!

You are actually designed to receive a new intuitive thought, process it through all of the intelligences that are within you to then output it into your physical experience of life.

Awesome stuff, isn’t it?

Learn your design for greater ease, effectiveness and coming from love.

Reach out for help and live your best life.

I know how to guide, train and support people who want to develop Self-Mastery and use their brain and consciousness according to the grand design.

Inner Empowerment Engineer

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