When someone says this to you take the cue and back off.
Usually with arms folded someone says “I don’t want to talk about it.”
I’ve heard that before…and, just maybe, I have felt it and said it before. LOL
Referring to the definition of Effective Communication as when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication this is a sign of not wanting to change. This is the cue to you that they do not want to hear any new information and they do not want to change… at least in that moment.
Send them love and seek another opportunity to communicate.
It is all about the frequencies
Remember what Einstein said. “Problems cannot be solved with the same mind set that created them.” or “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” It seems there are so many variants no one knows the original quote or maybe he said in many different ways.
How this applies: Our mental frequency tunes us into a matching stream of thoughts we receive and play with in our heads. When we are upset we receive a matching stream of thoughts. And when we are in joy and happiness we receive a different stream of thoughts that matches our frequencies. We can tune our mind to the frequency of thoughts we want to play in.
Therefore the person who says “I don’t want to talk about” is in that level of thoughts. Nothing wrong with it. We have all been there.
What we can do is hold peace in the space that they can move into. We don’t say anything; just find peace and love in our heart about the person and the situation. If we hold the upset that energy stays and keeps everyone stuck. Someone has to move out of it to break the spell.
Do something different to get something different in life…
I just watched an interview with Tom Bergeron on Good Morning America. He says that he began meditating in his twenties to handle an anger problem. Now he says that before he hosts Dancing with the Stars he meditates while everyone else is frantic and bothered with glitches and problems. He said that he opens up to the possibilities of what might happen in the show (this is being Present In the NOW) and is his most relaxed of his day while he is actually hosting the show. Others consider him the fastest-thinking TV show host. I can understand this. This is the way we are designed to operate.
Hmmm… This an abject lesson in what I talk about in the Silva Method classes. When we meditate we are opening up and accessing our right hemisphere, the Creative Mind. This is the Mind that has no limits including time and space. It is plugged into the Infinite Potential. To be scientific, this is when we tap into the Quantum Intelligence of which we are a droplet of the whole ocean, so to speak.
In the Relax Your Way to Success class I’m teaching on April 25th I am teaching people to go enter this Dimension of the Mind. In three hours learn the detrimental effects of stress and learn how to de-stress the mind and body on cue. Doing this is entering a meditation state of mind.
Spend some time in a meditative state of mind. It’s good for you.
Here’s a great talk about the hemispheres of your brain by a doctor in brain science:
This is one of the best things that makes me grateful to be an instructor for the Silva Method. I get phone calls like this every once in a while and it always makes my heart smile.
This lady just called from San Antonio. She and her husband first took the Silva Method class decades ago. They value the impact it has had on their lives from using the Silva Method techniques so much that they are coming to this next class and bringing their grandson who is 19 years old and heading off to college. She told me that she will do anything to provide her grandson advantages in life. Great grandmother.
He will have mind skills that will help him study better by increasing retention, recall and comprehension. Plus he will have the unparalleled Silva Test-Taking Method that allows someone to get the answer to a question even when it is apparently forgotten. Those will help him to excel in college. As his life develops he will have the option to retake the class to deepen his use of the mind skills so as to better adapt to life’s changing situations and to create his life.
Recently I had a call from an older gentleman who sounded like one of the Texas ranchers I grew up around. He said that he had taken the Silva Method class decades ago and how it had impacted his life over these years. He wants to put his granddaughter through the class so that she can have a leg up in life. Note: I need a few more parents who want this for their children, ages 7 to 11 or so, to make this class happen.
Another woman I met here in Austin said her parents took her to take the class when she was 16 years old. I asked her to tell me how it had impacted her life. She said, as a result of these skills, that her self confidence was always strong when she embarked on any new venture. She also said that her sense of knowing herself was deeper so that she feels like she made better life decisions.
I, personally, am grateful that my older half-brother introduced this to me when I was in high school. I was able to finally take it once I had my first job out of college. I was living in Indonesia and took the class in Malaysia. Immediately it made me stand out as an engineer working in the jungles of Borneo in Indonesia; management noticed my improvements. As a field engineer I was able to diagnose and solve problems quicker than before because my creative mind had been awakened and trained to be useful to me as a logically-trained engineer. I was able to stay awake, alert and functioning in days of working without sleep… and… more.
These are great classes that immediately have an impact, sometimes subtle and sometimes obvious. Then with continued practice of the skills and occasionally retaking the classes a person’s depth of awareness is enhanced, mental skills and agility markedly improves and life gets better and better.
I encourage you to consider this class for you and your loved ones. Call with any questions.
When we were children growing up our parents, teachers and other authorities gave us permissions to do some things and restrictions to not do some things. As adults we may not be aware that we still have these rules for life, sometimes living within parameters that no longer serve us and, in fact, hold us back from living our greatest life of service. We are having thoughts that we were given years ago.
I lay out this foundation as a way to present this concept:
You have the right to challenge each and every one of your thoughts.
Does this matter? What does this mean? Why bother?
Bottom line: your predominant thought pattern about a particular area of life brings about the matching results in your life. For anyone who saw the movie The Secret this is how the Law of Attraction works. i.e. If there is an area of life that is persistently not working for us then if we are honest with ourself and pay attention to the predominant thoughts and the resulting feelings we will see that we are allowing negative thoughts to rule our day, predominantly.
I mention ‘resulting feelings’ because our thoughts precede us having matching emotions. Our thoughts are our navigation for where we are heading and our emotions are the fuel that propel us there.
Now that all of that is said, back to the topic at hand. Since your thoughts are leading to your life and your thoughts may be simply repeating those life parameters from your parents and other authorities from childhood… maybe, just maybe, some of those thoughts are not leading your life in the best direction for what you most deeply desire to do. Maybe they are not in alignment with who you are.
As a result, I officially give you permission 😉 to challenge your thoughts.
Begin by observing your thoughts. When you notice a thought ask yourself:
Does this thought lift up my energy? Do I feel empowered?
Is this in the direction that I want to go in my life?
If the answer is no, then choose another thought. Choose a thought that does reflect what you want in life. And entertain that thought. Doing this process of replacing unsupportive thoughts with supportive thoughts will end up altering your predominant thought pattern. This in turn will end up altering your predominant emotional pattern. This all leads to you having your life as you most desire it to be.
It is just The Way It Works.
Give it a shot and let me know how it works for you. Leave a comment and let’s talk about it.
Remember: Thoughts become things so choose the good ones.
Curiosity is the key to making a change; it is a mental energy/state that opens your mind to hear something new.
These are some items from John Mooney sent to me; a friend, and the Silva Method instructor in Corpus Christi, Texas. He’s been teaching for decades and is an exceptionally insightful person.
A master’s awareness of spiritual laws directs him or her to manifest major life changes by working with their thoughts, not by working harder.
Which isn’t to say they don’t sometimes work very long hours, because they do; they just don’t think of it as work. Which also isn’t to say that they all have cool jobs that anyone would love, because they don’t; they just see every task before them, no matter where they work, as a gift to unwrap.
True brilliance is not a function of understanding one’s view of the world and finding order, logic, and spirituality in it. True brilliance is understanding that your view of order, logic, and spirituality is what created your world.
And therefore being forever capable of changing everything.
One day all the employees reached the office and they saw a big notice on the door on which it was written: “Yesterday the person who has been hindering your growth in this company passed away. We invite you to join the funeral in the room that has been prepared in the gym”.
In the beginning, they all got sad for the death of one of their colleagues, but after a while they started getting curious to know who was that man who hindered the growth of his colleagues and the company itself.
The excitement in the gym was such that security agents were ordered to control the crowd within the room. The more people reached the coffin, the more the excitement heated up. Everyone thought: “Who is this guy who was hindering my progress? Well, at least he died!”.
One by one the thrilled employees got closer to the coffin, and when they looked inside it they suddenly became speechless. They stood nearby the coffin, shocked and in silence, as if someone had touched the deepest part of their soul.
There was a mirror inside the coffin: everyone who looked inside it could see himself. There was also a sign next to the mirror that said: “There is only one person who is capable to set limits to your growth: it is YOU. You are the only person who can revolutionize your life. You are the only person who can influence your happiness, your realization and your success. You are the only person who can help yourself.
Your life does not change when your boss changes, when your friends change, when your parents change, when your partner changes, when your company changes. Your life changes when YOU change, when you go beyond your limiting beliefs, when you realize that you are the only one responsible for your life.”
“The most important relationship you can have, is the one you have with yourself”
Examine yourself, watch yourself. Don’t be afraid of difficulties, impossibilities and losses: be a winner, build yourself and your reality.
The world is like a mirror: it gives back to anyone the reflection of the thoughts in which one has strongly believed. The world and your reality are like mirrors lying in a coffin, which show to any individual the death of his divine capability to imagine and create his happiness and his success. It’s the way you face Life that makes the difference.
It’s kind of like you live in a Wizard of Oz world, and you’re Dorothy, off to see the Wizard, the most wonderful Wizard of all, who can grant your wishes, and then some too. With a twist.
You see, this Wizard is no Wizard at all, but “mere mortal” just pretending to have power that he doesn’t really have. But that’s not the twist.
Of course, it turns out that when put to the test, when it really matters, when he really, really cares, the Wizard actually does have supernatural powers. That’s not the twist either.
The twist, is that you’re also the Wizard, the most wonderful Wizard of all.
Right, this ain’t Kansas, Toto, but it is Monday, and you totally rock –
Study: Experiences make us happier than possessions
Study looks at 154 people in San Francisco
Experiences also make other people happy, not just the individual
Psychologist: Communities should invest in bike trails, parks to create experiences
By Elizabeth Landau
(CNN) — Even in tough economic times, you may find yourself with a bit of cash to spare. You’ve been working hard, and you want to treat yourself. Should you spend it on an experience, such as a baseball game or concert, or a material object?
Psychological research suggests that, in the long run, experiences make people happier than possessions.
That’s in part because the initial joy of acquiring a new object, such as a new car, fades over time as people become accustomed to seeing it every day, experts said. Experiences, on the other hand, continue to provide happiness through memories long after the event occurred.
Ryan Howell, assistant professor of psychology at San Francisco State University, presented his findings this week at the Society for Personality and Social Psychology annual meeting. Watch for more on the study »
The study looked at 154 people enrolled at San Francisco State University, with an average age of about 25. Participants answered questions about a recent purchase — either material or experiential — they personally made in the last three months with the intention of making themselves happy.
While most people were generally happy with the purchase regardless of what it was, those who wrote about experiences tended to show a higher satisfaction at the time and after the experience had passed.
The most striking difference was in how participants said others around them reacted to either the purchased object or experience. Experiences led to more happiness in others than purchases did. A sense of relatedness to others — getting closer to friends and family — may be one of the reasons why experiences generate more happiness.
“When people spend money on life experiences, whether they also take someone with them or buy an extra ticket or whatever, most of our life experiences involve other individuals,” Howell said. People were fulfilling their need for social bonding while having these experiences, he said. Visit CNNhealth.com, your connection for better living
Another reason for increased happiness in experiences, the researchers found, was that people felt a greater sense of vitality or “being alive” during the experience and in reflection, Howell said.
“As nice as your new computer is, it’s not going to make you feel alive,” he said.
Most psychologists who study the phenomenon say people adapt to a new purchase in six to eight weeks, up to a maximum of three months, Howell said. That means the initial pleasure we get from a new possession generally fades in a matter of months.
Howell’s study builds on earlier work by Thomas Gilovich, professor and chairman of the psychology department at Cornell University. Gilovich and colleague Leaf Van Boven’s seminal 2003 paper “To do or to have: That is the question” found similar results about possessions bringing less happiness than experiences.
Experts also point out that people are less self-conscious when comparing experiences than they are about possessions. It will probably bother you more that your friend’s home theater is better than yours than if your friend saw more sights on her South Seas vacation, Gilovich said.
Experiences form “powerful and important memories that I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world,” Gilovich said.
It’s not just individuals who should be thinking about investing in experiences when making purchasing choices — policy makers should also keep this reasoning in mind for their communities, he said.
“If you create municipalities with more parks, bike trails, more hiking trails that make experiences easier, then I think you’re going to have a happier population,” he said.
With Valentine’s Day coming up, does this research mean you should give your honey a nice dinner or weekend getaway rather than a material present, such as a necklace or watch?
The issue of happiness conferred to others has been studied less, so the answer is unclear, experts said.
While Howell would expect this principle of experiences over possessions to still apply, Gilovich agreed that it may, but also points out that the act of giving or receiving an object as a gift is an experience in itself.
“Gifts of material possessions often become keepsakes and have sentimental value that increase with time, instead of diminishing like most material goods,” Gilovich said.
Oprah talked a lot to her audience about keeping a gratitude journal where morning and night you write down what you are grateful for. Spiritually, giving thanks is blessing what you have. When you give thanks for what you have, they say, you receive more of what you want. Jose Silva talked about energy channels and that we have the ability to tune our minds to the ‘channel’ for what we want. Tuning our minds is our job. Consider that giving thanks by speaking it or writing it is the very act of tuning your mind to the ‘receiving channel’… and then just enjoy having the life you want and more so…
Bask in the love of being surrounded by those you love.
I was polishing up my Statement of BEing and thought of the great writing by Marianne Williamson that Nelson Mandela used in his inauguration speech… “Our Deepest Fear”. I reworded it to make it a powerful affirmation. Or actually it is a powerful statement of our truth.
The original is so impactful:
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Rewording it to be a statement of our truth:
My deepest knowing is that I am more than adequate. My deepest knowing is that I am powerful beyond measure. It is my light, not my darkness, that inspires my life. I claim God’s Truth for my life: I am brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous. How can I not be as a child of God? Playing small in the past has never worked. I now play large to serve the world. My expansive consciousness allows those around me to feel secure and powerful. I am meant to shine as all God’s children do. I am born to manifest the glory of God that is within me. It’s in me; it’s in everyone. As I let my light shine I have given other people permission to do the same. As I am liberated from fear and embrace personal freedom my presence automatically liberates others.
[Note: This is written by a local new thought minister.]
October 10, 2008 – “It’s not what they take away from you that counts. It’s what you do with what you have left.” – Hubert Humphrey
With all the news of late it’s easy to fall into the morass of gloom and doom. When you look at your most recent investment statement, you may be tempted to focus on all that you’ve lost. It’s the topic of the day.
We’ve been in such a booming market that people seem to forget there is risk involved in any investment, even the ‘safest’ ones. Risk and reward are equal components and possibilities in any investment, whether that investment is financial or whether it is an investment of the heart.
We don’t control the world, we don’t control the financial markets, but we do participate in creating the world and the financial markets by how we react, what we feed into them and what we really expect to happen next.
Right now the biggest expectation is that things will continue to get worse before they get better. Guess what? When most people believe that, feed that idea with fear and fixate upon every move up and down in the market, that expectation becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
If we believe that things will eventually get better, why do we believe that they have to continue to get worse first? Just to see what we can take, test new territories, set new records? Why not skip that experience and get moving onward to the recovery?
This is no different from what we each go through individually any time we have a challenge or a disruption. We choose how to react, what to focus on, what to give our energy and attention, what to expect and then what to do with what we have.
The difference is that we are all experiencing this together. We are watching the power of collective consciousness create our collective experience. What a great lesson in the Law! What a great opportunity to grow beyond our current level of thinking that created this experience! Let’s learn from this and point out to people how we can use this very same process to affect change for the better.
What the world needs now is a committed group of individuals who will stand in the midst of this ‘crisis’ and know something better. I invite you to join me in doing that. Do that right in the face of the ubiquitous stock ticker that seems to be everywhere all of the sudden. Do this right in the face of the bleating newscasts. Do this (with love) in the face of those yelling about how the sky is falling.
We will get through and beyond this; the only question is what will be the quality of our journey through it and how lovingly we treat each other along the way.
I choose love, I choose brighter ideas, I choose to absolutely know that good is right here and now available to all. That’s what I can do, and so can you.
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Your Built-In Powers
Do you remember the first time you found out that you could close your eyes, take a deep breath, relax your thought and your stress was transformed into relaxation?
Do you realize what a momentous event that was?
This showed you the ultimate answer to all of life’s woes: You have the controls and they exist within you.
No matter what the circumstances swirling around you, you can always make a choice to close your eyes, take a deep breath, relax your thought and cause relaxation. Then you are in the driver’s seat for life. From here you can focus on your goals and receive creative ideas.
Remember this as you listen to the horrible news about the economy. You have the controls. Always. You may not have had anything to do with causing this situation but you do have absolute control over your perception of it. The way you perceive it sets up your behaviors and actions… which leads to your life results. This is the beauty and the foundation of any of my private sessions and classes: to teach you how to master these controls.
Begin your change now
A friend reminded me of a 40-Day Prosperity Program that I want to pass along. It is free and you can begin right now.
I first bought the little green Abundance Book while living in Denver in the late 80’s. Then I had the opportunity to be at a retreat in New Braunfels several years ago where the author and his wife led classes. When I first did this, the words didn’t make sense but my abundance started increasing. Over the years I did this program so often my little green book fell apart. I am so grateful for Glenda for reminding me about this program. I began it that day and am currently doing it. John Randolph Price has now posted this online for free.
Follow his instructions. I also have written each day’s contemplation onto an index card that fits in my shirt pocket. That way, throughout the day, at a red light, or having just caught my negative thoughts, I will pull this out so that my attention gets focused in the right direction.
I also carry my top goals written on an index card so that I can refer to them throughout the day. Again, this serves to refocus my mind on my immediate life direction.
More resources to remind you the truth
I am posting this on my new blog Creative Mind News at www.CuriousMindNews.com. I welcome you to post comments there as you have questions, comments and experiences.
I will be posting other items and resources on my Creative Mind News blog as I find them. So check there for continuing information.
Be a part of a dynamic experiment while learning how to generate the life you desire to have.
Rev. Dr. Michael Beckwith, The Secret, talks about how we are designed to be the generators of our lives. We are here to generate our thoughts, our emotions and our actions thus generating our goals. He says that if you are learning in a system that has caused you to become so sensitive that you retreat from the world then change teachers.
I say, learn the mechanics of how your Mind System works so that you know how to generate thoughts, emotions and congruent actions. The technology exists. The steering controls for your life are simply a matter of education. As an engineer I have always leaned towards application. As a personal growth teacher, coach and counselor I believe the main reason to learn something new is how it can be applied to better your life. Otherwise it all remains an elusive dream.
Also, as an engineer, I love the repeatability of a system that always produces the desired results. That’s called science. That is why I have created this class: Mastering Mind – Mastering Life. In it you will learn the importance of desire, imagination and belief while learning how to apply your mental prowess to make your own path in life. Everyone who attends the six-hour class agrees to then do a simple practice each day for a minimum of 10 minutes for 28 days. You will stay connected during these 28 days to keep you engaged in the process. Then we will meet again to anchor the results and make this new life-proactive behavior normal for your life.
In this class/experiment you will learn many valuable life skills. This process will teach you the mechanics of how to operate the controls you have over your thoughts, emotions and actions. Remember how you learned to steer and drive a car? That is the intent of this process. Once you know these controls you can steer your life in the direction of your choosing.
In addition you will learn an important not-so-secret skill: how to access a level of your mind that causes these controls to be easily maneuvered. I always loved Stuart Wilde’s short book titled Life was never meant to be a struggle. He is right. You are designed for this. It’s just that we’ve been taught the wrong way to steer our lives. Learning to steer your mind the right way causes your dreams to come true.
Come join us.
The 28 days to a Better Life Challenge begins Saturday, September 20th with a six-hour class. There will be a follow-up scheduled. $75 for the class. Donations are accepted for the follow-up. Payments accepted: VISA, MasterCard, Discover, PayPal, Check, Cash
Read the new post titled: Take the 28 days to a Better Life Challenge for more detailed information.
In this class you will learn specific steps to take and by practicing it in 30 days you will alter your life. The path is clear. The steps to take are layed out. Now, just ask yourself if you are ready.
What is your desire for your life?
Desire is your chosen destiny. It is your internal fuel for achievement.
Do you spend a majority of your thinking time visualizing the problem or imagining the solution?
Living in the mind ‘energy channel’ of problem or solution is your choice to make.
Are you curious enough to learn to and then do something different?
Curiosity guides an open Mind to attract incredible new ideas to achieve your Desires.
Is your imagination trained well enough to show you the path to your dreams?
Through a trained imagination you lay out a mold into which your desires are created.
Did anyone ever tell you that you get to choose your thoughts and emotions? And did they say that this is the very power to change your life? Your power to change are the very faculties of mind over which only you have dominion and control.
Rev. Dr. Michael Beckwith, The Secret, talks about the fact that everyone is designed to be a generator of his/her own life. You are not here to become so sensitized that you retreat from life. No. If that is what you are learning then find a new teacher. You are the generator of your life. Spend your time finding out how to generate your desires, thoughts, emotions and actions so that they are congruent to lead you where YOU desire to go in life.
I see this as the incredible fact that each person is a full and complete system in this life existing within the Quantum Intelligence that makes up life. Your system is guided by your continuous selection of thoughts, emotions and actions. The path unfolds following your effective use of imagination. You get to choose the thoughts you focus on. This leads to the feelings you experience. This helps you to build up enough energy through this mental focus to take action.
These are the steps to creating what you desire. This class will teach you the steps and how to’s for directing your life to go in the direction that makes you happy, fulfilled and rich.
In this 6 hours you will explore the definitive components that lie within you and the powerful attunements you can make in your own life so that you live a life of your own desires.
Sept 20 9 am to 3 pm
Contact Lamar L. Irwin, RScP, CSMI by email firstname.lastname@example.org or 512-340-0530
I have some trepidation posting my first truly vulnerable blog post. I am the teacher. My life is supposed to be perfect… My mind begins to drone on and on. I have to stop and remind myself that I do not want a teacher who is not real and does not share, reasonably, their own struggles, doubts, successes and journey. And I want to work with those who undestand the power inherent in this approach. So here goes…
This summer has been a tough one for learning to smarten my heart, experience some heart hits and how absolutely true that it is a MUST that we focus our minds on what we want and stop looking at what we do not want to have. Because where my mind goes, my life flows.
It is the biggest trap created by the ego to get me to ever so slowly fall back into my rut of thinking that has me defined as not enough, it’s not up to me, I can’t do that, other people are doing it to me, etc. That’s the mental drone of living a life of powerless-ness. It begins with one thought from that well-trained aspect of my mind, the ego. The aspect that wants to think that life happens to me. It does not like the idea that life flows through me at my direction. It does not have the self-awareness enough to observe that its own paradigm plays out as itself, the ego; a self-fulfilling prophecy.
As we are fueled with a desire to continue to grow and live better and better lives being more and more of service it is important to observe our thoughts and the patterns that they get stuck in. Are the thought patterns ones that make us feel better and do more or are they patterns that make us feel small and retreat more? Our dominant thought pattern causes a vibration in our energy field which then attracts to us a ‘matching’ life. That is the Law of Attraction in Action.
This summer I had a relationship problem that was hard to understand, difficulties in where I am living on many levels, faced with moving homes without a clue about details, and grief from someone passing on. This mixed with my own lingering doubts about what I am doing to serve others by building a business had me in a negatively-spiralling thought pattern. So I saw my resources dwindle to a scary point which, of course, was a thought that matched perfectly wtih a negative thought pattern. Hmmm… It will just keep going and getting worse if I don’t stop it.
At one point I had to talk to myself consistently for an hour while doing errands, walking through HEB and going to the post office. I was telling myself thoughts like you are always supported by life, life always support you and provides, life conspires on my behalf to bring me my highest good,I deserve it, etc. I had the idea that I would drown out the negative thoughts. Writing an affirmation and reading it a few times a day takes too long for change. I needed/wanted it done with the pressure of a firehose and drown the old thought pattern that was leading me in the wrong direction. It is interesting that this worked incredibly well to completely squelch the negative self-identity. I was not just thinking it. I was saying it out loud, softly in businesses and at a strong level while driving.
At that point I started getting more calls for my upcoming classes and some computer work. I decided to set clear specific goals, listen to positive thought tapes, spend a lot of time relaxing and focusing on what I want using the tools in my classes. It seemed unrealistic from my old-self. Fake it till you make it. I kept telling myself that it works for everyone and the stronger my desire, the more persistent my action, the more intense my feelings that I will feel when it actually happens, and the clearer the directions I am giving to my mind, the sooner it will unfold for me NO MATTER WHAT THE APPEARANCE IN LIFE MAY CURRENTLY BE.
I took it on as an experiment in faith. I keep going back to when I first heard Rev. Dr. Michael Beckwith say that we are not here to be sensitive and to react to things but that we are hear to be generators of our own thoughts, feelings and actions. I see that this is the common paradigm shift that allows each of us to accomplish our mission while here. To even consider this is powerful. Much less to act on it.
We are so much more than even those of us who have been searching and learning for more than 25 years may believe. There is always another level of self-attunement available for us to move into… once we are willing to actually perceive it as that doorway which is open right in front of us. We just have to step into the looking glass a little bit further.
The result is that we have found a great environment to move into with a big deck and other amenities where we can only see friends’ houses, trees, grass and hills. I am looking forward to being in a comfortable environment next to our friends who live there and to being surrounded by nature which I find is so inspiring and grounding. I had the best business results in the past two weeks as compared to the past few months. I had the absolute best match of students in the last 2 classes with people coming in from all over the country. This past Sunday in UltraMind ESP we had the most enlightening and inspiring discussion of any class so far. What a jolt of joy that is. Then to hear from one of those today, just two days later, that he had already solved a pestering relationship problem using the mental video technique to communicate with the other side. All of this change happened in less than 2 weeks! That’s all.
I know my current mantra of thought is doing more of this that supports my unfolding journey or service. I wonder how much more can I direct my life while allowing source to flow through me and as a result become more effective in life? I know the answer is.. as much as I am willing to accept.
It’s an interesting journey to discover that we have always held the key to our own greater life. It’s within waiting for us to command it to be so. With this new belief in myself I wonder what more I will undertake. Spirit, guide the way.
I support you, too, in setting yourself up for success by doing the things I’ve mentioned here and by being persistent in your desire to be, do and have more in life.
Gaining mastery in life is a lifelong pursuit taken up by those who have that deep inner drive to do more and BE more.
The only thing my mind was focused on was this race… said Michael Phelps, our amazing American swimmer at the Olympics aiming to break his second all-time Olympic record as he continues to break world records.
The more effectively focused your mind is on the task at hand the better you can manage it to create a desired outcome. Life can be seen, simplistically, as a series of tasks that you manage. There is a task to go to sleep: get ready for bed, lie down, close your eyes, quiet your mind and drift off into healthy and natural sleep. Each duty you have for your job is a task that can be handled well or poorly. Going out for your regular exercise is a task. If you have a headache and want to get rid of it naturally then you have identified a task. If you have an undesirable reaction in certain situations then identify the response you would rather have. The task is now to replace the reaction with your desired response. All of this is accomplished by programming your mind in the right frequency, using the right eye angle and giving clear precise commands.
What we know is that the mind is essentially a biological computer. When given instructions, whether vague or clear, whether uncertain or confident, accompanied by a good or bad feeling, the mind responds accordingly and says ‘yes, I’ll do that’. This is the beauty of learning specific instructions to provide your mind to better manage tasks. The Silva Method has been researching and providing these mind skills to millions of people for decades.
Note that there are many nuances to gaining mastery as there is no end line. There is always something more to learn… as long as the desire is strong enough. It is a process of getting better and better.
A beginning point to gaining mastery is to tame your mind, learn the skills to direct it. If you are curious about delving into this for your own life then contemplate these questions.
Remember: When you ask the right question you get the right answer.
What are your thoughts before you undertake a task?
Are they thoughts that lead you to a successful and desire outcome?
Are you aware of any thoughts that you have before a task?
They are happening. Sometimes we do things on autopilot and are no longer aware of these thoughts.
Do you consciously choose a desired outcome or do you let life dictate outcomes?
Did anyone tell you that you can choose your thoughts OR make them up if they are not success oriented?
The exciting news is: You can!
Consider someone who you think handles this type of task very well.
Then ask yourself: What must that person be thinking?
Adopt these thoughts as your own. Choose to think them for your own life.
What emotions are you feeling about the upcoming task?
Did you know that your emotions are your internal guidance system that tell you whether your thoughts are in alignment with your desires?
What your mind thinks as you build up to doing a task lays the path for that task to unfold.
The life-changing opportunity is to take back control and direct your own mind.
I feel like I had a decently successful launch of The Empower Austin Project. I held 3 classes in three different public libraries in town. Both classes on Saturday in south and north Austin were about delivering study and test-taking skills along with energizing goals. Monday’s class at the Austin History Center focused on developing good decision-making skills and energizing goals. What a beautiful building that is.
There’s already been some results. One person said that for the first time her back pain went completely away… until she had a doubtful thought then it came back. She now has a tool to continue finding moments of painlessness. Another person had an ear become unstopped for the first time in days. It stopped back up a few hours later.
When I started planning to do two-hour classes mainly focused on experience I wondered how effective it would be at providing the environment for someone to have a positive and affirming experience of themselves. It seems like there’s some good results. AND it just proves the fact that each of us has an incredible power that lies dormant within just waiting for us to access it. By simply having three direct training experiences within two hours people experienced unleashing their potential. That tells me how easy it is for us to find our power.
I have such humility. I give reverence to Jose Silva, the man with the genius of passion driving him to create a complete educational system that specifically educates people with the tools to actually live life using more of their mind’s potential utilizing both hemispheres. Maybe we are approaching breaking the ten-percent estimation of how much potential humans generally use. Why wouldn’t anyone not want to be somewhat better than they are now; better as in effective, enriched, fulfilled.
Give your Mind clear and precise directions and it says ‘yes, master’. Well, maybe it just does what you command it to do. As an engineer I have done different computer programming along the way. This is how it appears to that happy engineer aspect.
Our Minds are biological and intelligent computers. The Mind always follows our instruction. We deliver our instructions to our Minds using visualization and imagination at a relaxed state of mind. That is The Key to unleashing your potential. The trick is to practice, hone and develop the use of visualization and imagination. That is what the Silva Method does. It becomes more expansive as the classes go along but in the beginning it is all about directing your own Mind. That then directs your life as you desire it to go.
If you are new to this concept then do this. Even if you are not new, do it and see if it works for you…
Find a relaxing place to sit, preferably not lie down.
If you find a sound helps you relax without distracting you then put some on.
Close your eyes.
Take a few deep breaths in, hold it for a second then exhale.
Pay attention to the sensations of the air passing through as you breath.
Start counting down from 50 to 1 and every few numbers think to yourself that you’re going deeper.
Stay alert yet very relaxed simultaneously. This is relaxed focus.
Visualize out in space, in front of your eyes, an outcome you want in life. See yourself in the scene as if it is happening right now. Feel the feelings that go along with having this.
You can do this for a just a few minutes a day and you will begin to notice some changes.
Here’s an example. A friend’s daughter wanted to make more tips at her night job as a waitress on a weeknight. She said that normally she gets about $20 tips on a weeknight and she wanted to make $40. I told her to go find a place to relax and daydream. See herself actually receiving it and to feel it happening now. She did this for just a few minutes before work. She called me after her shift and she got $50. That probably took 3 minutes or so. I know in high school I would have loved to all of the sudden have another $30. That’s motivation, isn’t it?
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