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A Progression of Personal Development that seems unbelievable, if it was not reported so often

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We are so much more powerful than we ever give ourselves credit for. There is a way to use our brain, as it is designed, to make changes within ourselves and in our experiences of life.

Cognitive therapists talk about how our brain is designed to use both cognitive and intuitive functioning. The approaches I have learned activate the mostly unknown truth that we can also use our intuitive functioning just as easily as we use our logic. It provides immeasurable benefits.

It just takes the right training.

I first learned how to use Left/Right Brain Integration Skills at age 24. It has empowered me in ways that my students now experience; below. The fantastic news is that once we use these skills our life opens up and we can continue to expand out of any small life box in which we find ourselves.

Here is a progression of personal development reported to me by a student this year

  • My dreams for my future have expanded.
  • I am more grounded now
  • Doesn’t get pulled off center as easily as before
  • Manage my emotions better
  • Has set better boundaries with others
  • Picks up on other people’s feelings
  • Does not get drained by others
  • Someone close to me is changing in good ways

From my own experience and reports from others, these are natural progressions which occur for everyone who learns and uses it.

These skills can be learned in class and in private sessions. The private sessions allow you to learn the ones that apply to your immediate life needs.

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Awareness Exercise ~ Deep Meditation Tuesday ~ VAK Your Goals

Learn More ~ Know More ~ Be More

Awareness  Mindfulness  Meditation  Masterfulness

Suggested exercise to develop more dominion over life.

Gain awareness of how your thoughts drive your actions, behavior and interactions.

Start noticing the thoughts you have as you take actions and interact with others.

Thoughts create reality

Conscious + Unconscious thoughts lead to your experience of reality. Generally, a person’s conscious thoughts are up to 10% and unconscious thoughts up to 90%. Yikes! Thus it is good to gain awareness of those unconscious thoughts. This exercise helps.

Having the awareness of the thoughts that drive you activates your innate ability to change.

Schedule a reminder or put a rubber band on your wrist to remind you to do this throughout your day.

Invest in yourself and bettering your life. It pays lifelong dividends

A Sound Cocoon for Deep Relaxation & Meditation with Singing Quartz Crystal Bowls

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“I’ve had trouble meditating because of pain in my body and was feeling that, but when we finished my body cracked in about 6 places and I felt lighter. Thank you!” ~ Gail M-G

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A primary reason to relax and meditate is to release life’s stressors, disharmonies and imbalances. THEN you can experience the deep connection to your Inner Center that aligns you to your good and your guidance. These sounds create a meditative cocoon in which you can go deeply within to find your Center & connect with your Good.

Join us for a deep relaxation in a cocoon of sound created by 3 quartz crystal bowls.

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Use your body’s intelligence to determine the exact right wording of your goal.

Then through a series of movements and words imprint this in your Visual, Auditory and Kinesthetic bodies. Once imprinted you will naturally be guided to achieve it.

Identifying and Imprinting your Goal + Follow-Up and support $150

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Achieving Greatly class: Rare Skills to Utilize Your Brain’s Design, Improve Life, Boost Personal Power and

…and Increase Self-Esteem

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Achieve using your brain’s design. Increase ease. Decrease struggle.

Achieving Greatly through Mind Integration

Welcome to a new way to do life.

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Most people do their lives using the logical mind. This operates often through stress, struggle, will power, etc. When you begin to use the other half of your brain’s design you begin to have life operate more with ease, focus and synchronicities in life. The more you use it the more your mind develops to be able to operate in different and very beneficial ways.

Imagine having the following sort of skill set for you to do life in a more focused way with greater ease, choice and direction, where you achieve what you focus upon with results coming to you sometimes in surprisingly effortless ways.

Introducing the Wisdom Method
Stress Management, Relax Mind, Body and Energy… on Cue
You have news that stresses you out and would normally divert your attention for days with your thoughts spinning over and over. But in this case you have a way to release the stress, choose your thoughts and directly reverse that negative tailspin.

Some study results of effectiveness of these Precision Inner Thinking Skills
World Health Organization: at least 90% of all illness is from stress
“The ability to enter levels of deep relaxation is critical to the reduction of potentially damaging physical tension and psychological stress.”
~ Correlates of Attention in Humans, Drs. Frederick J. Bremner, V. Benignus, and F. Moritz from Trinity University, San Antonio, Texas
Don’t carry around a bad start to the day. Shift it to be uplifting.
You wake up in the morning feeling completely out of sorts and down. You don’t want to do anything but it’s a full day you have to do. Imagine a simple thought process you do that shifts all those out-of-sorts feelings into becoming how you choose you want to feel. Shift your down and out of sync feelings into joy, happy and gratitude. The day will go so much better from that platform.

Be more effective
You look at your to-do list and feel this overwhelm and fear you cannot get everything done. Imagine a simple thought process to shift yourself into being effective at handling it all, one by one. You align your inner thoughts and sensations to the alignment of what you are about to do. Then things flow with effectiveness and ease.

Claiming Your Good in a seeming negative occurrence in life
Declare a life event to be Good so that it leads to something better. Gain the skills and awareness of how to do this. We have to do things differently if we want life to be different.

Headache Relief and Pain Management
Suddenly, you have a headache. Find somewhere to sit and close your eyes for just a few minutes. Do this focused thought process to eliminate it by the time you open your eyes again. You are in charge.

Introducing Sensualization Model for bettering life
Sensualize Your Life into Being
Advanced Visualization – Presenting a much needed upgrade to visualization, what I coined as Sensualization. This is an expansive approach working with the quantum laws of life to cause and direct your life. Sensualizing your life is using all of your senses and your heart energy laser focused on the same desires in life.

Your inner senses are how you steer your life. And you have equivalent inner senses to each of your physical senses. Sensualization is used to achieve a particular result in life; internal and external. This one-of-a-kind process of using these inner senses to reprogram your brain and heart’s neurons, to line up the path ahead, to direct your inner thoughts, feelings, energies, behaviors to your life’s desires.

Performance/Task Improvement through Precision Inner Thinking

Studies show that precision mental focus improves any performance in life, sports, job task or any area. Learn how to do this. Coaching helps. And this will teach you how to do a lot of it on your own.

Mind’s Eye for Change Manifestation Method
An innovative technique bringing all you learned in class in to a laser focus of your mind, heart and energy towards what you desire in life. Sensualizing your life reprograms the brain and heart, leverages the creative quantum forces that cause life and sends out a clear and concise order to Life in way that Life rises up to meet you supporting you in achieving what you desire in life as you become the person you desire to be in life.

Introducing Whole Mind Results Achievement Model for Goals
All goal setting techniques I learned in business are designed to work with the logical mind’s modus operandi. There’s a different thought and feeling process to achieve your goals that utilizes the advantages of your intuitive mind. Synthesize the benefits of the logical and intuitive minds results in a way to energize your desired results that helps them come easier and sometimes quicker while causing Life to bring you opportunities and open doors.

Additional skills learned include Making Wise Decisions, Developing more Holistic Projects and Goals, Energize yourself, Shift yourself…

Learn some of the Quantum Laws of Life, meaning ways to focus your thoughts that works with the awareness of how to leverage and focus those creative quantum forces for your desired results.

Improve life, Increase self-esteem and boost your personal power
Using these methods develops a greater sense to be able to handle life, have new ideas and access to your incredible personal power. Studies show: 83% increased creativity and intuition, out of 1000 people 49% report improved health, increased self-image, compassion and cheerfulness.

Nothing is as life-affirming and exhilarating as discovering what your personal power feels like coursing through you, and having a sense that Life supports you and your success. Invest in yourself that will bring increasing dividends in making the rest of your life the best of your life.

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What if you could bend the matrix of reality to have the life of your dreams?

We do live in a multidimensional reality

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Bend the Fabric/Matrix of Life

+ We have free will and choice of what we think

+ Our thoughts lead to our life

+ We have within us the skills, once learned, that lighten up life while improving it and allowing for a more fulfilling life of achievement, self-direction and self-management.

To the question at hand… Bending the matrix of reality 

Yes, you can bend reality and you are doing this yet are simply unaware  that your thoughts cause the results in life.

Thus my favorite topic… How do we tap into our inner potential to alter life?

I first learned precise thinking and visualization to cause a change within me or externally in life, in Malaysia as a young engineer living and working in Indonesia. These skills directly empowered me to improve my job performance significantly. And management started noticing my achievements and performance under those stressful and sometimes dangerous situations.

It truly is nice to be able to choose your desired behavior, task performance or pain release through lining up your thoughts in a precise manner leading to achieving with greater ease, less struggle.

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Find a better path through reality to what you want in life

When we make choices about what we want in life and practice living them within our own trained imagination we are literally programming our brain neurons to be able to recognize and act upon ‘the goal’ when opportunities start coming to us. It also sends out energy from your body’s energetic system to move the matrix of reality creating a path leading towards the desired result.

This may sound fanciful or too science fiction and it happens to be true.

As an affirmed geek I just luv this stuff. And it is practical, repeatable, follows laws and principle of the unseen forces that cause life, and leads us to becoming who we want to become.and to achieving what we are impelled to achieve.

Procedure to bend reality to be a path to achieve your results:

  • Select a relaxed atmosphere inside or outside
  • Find that ‘just right’ position to sit and get relaxed
  • Close your eyes
  • Place you attention on the airflow going in and out of your nostrils and mouth as you breathe in through your mouth
  • Hold it for a few seconds at the top then exhale deeply
  • Continue breathing in and out as your body and mind relax
  • Tell unwanted thoughts to float on like a cloud in the sky
  • Create in your imagination, using your senses, of having the result you are choosing to create in your life
  • Be sure to generate the emotions of having it. This fuels it
  • Enjoy
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Snoopy flying his doghouse. So can you with great ease.

Spend a few minutes in the morning, midday and evening doing this.

Watch what life starts bringing you as new ideas and opportunities.

Click on Snoopy to the right or here to review my upcoming class that teaches these skills. Achieving Greatly, April 29-30 in Austin, Texas.

This is a one-of-a-kind class that synthesizes 3 independently effective methods to bring forth that inner power you hear about but don’t understand until you experience it.

Lamar Irwin    #amomentswisdom

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As Easily As I Breathe I Receive Abundance…in All Forms

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You Are Born AS Abundance

The link in the picture Facebook.com/SpirituallyAwaken is my Spiritually Awaken Circle.

Click the picture to go to a series of 40 days of intuitively guided meditations based on The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price. These are at my SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. Click Playlist: The Abundance Program – Daily Meditations. Listen daily for 40 days and your consciousness will evolve into the Truths about Abundance and where it comes from.

Let me know the results 🙂

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40 Days of Abundance Meditations Now Complete. Online. Live with Lavish Abundance!

As a part of a class, I began doing daily meditations about abundance principles. I completed the 40th and final one today; each one lasts about 15 minutes. These are based on The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price.

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I AM Abundance

I uploaded each one daily to my audio site at www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology so that the people in the world has the option to increase their abundance in life through evolving one’s own consciousness. There is a companion journal available in pdf format.

This is a great program for a couple, a group of friends, a group of seekers or a spiritual community or… Instructions are simple: Start with day 1 and listen to one each day without any distractions. Watch your own evolution and life abundance grow.

The bottom line is your level of abundance in any area of life individually and collectively, is directly because of your current consciousness about where you believe abundance comes from. And through proper identification and evolved consciousness you find that true abundance comes from a relaxed use of the abundance principles. 

And true abundance in your life can be as expansive and lavish as your consciousness develops to allow.

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The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price

I offer this to the world as a part of my mission to uplift the consciousness on the planet. I ask to hear insights and testimonials. And when you find value click a donate button (on the right) and show some love this way…in the form of money. That will enable me to do more programs to spread the word of a fundamental truth about life:

Life is all about 3 things: Consciousness, Consciousness and Consciousness.

THAT is what makes your life be what it is…and what it will be.

Much Love,

 Lamar Irwin, RScP

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Start each day with a high spirit that refuses to be encumbered by yesterday’s doubts and foibles

Finish each day and be done with it. Ralph Waldo Emerson
Finish each day and be done with it. Ralph Waldo Emerson

Wisdom to train ourselves to do:

Finish each day and be done with it.
You have done what you could.
Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can.
Tomorrow is a new day.
You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.

                                                  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

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40 Days of Intuitively-Guided Abundance Meditations… Directly Increase Abundance thru Consciousness

Abundance in All Areas of Life
To Align your Consciousness to the True Source that is Inherently Abundant is to have any level of abundance you want, desire and dream of. Do you believe that is possible? Why not give it a shot?

An Opportunity to Directly Enhance Your Life through Your Consciousness

             And directly change your abundance in any area of life.

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I began doing 40 days of 15 minute intuitively-guided abundance meditations on January 17, 2017. The final one will be on February 25, 2017. These occur at 8am CST via teleconference. Then the better quality audio is uploaded to my site for my audio (meditations, talks, podcasts, contemplations) at www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology

Listen to them daily from whenever you start. It is best to hold yourself accountable to be persistent and do day 1 through day 40 in 40 days not missing a single day. If you do then it is best to restart at day 1. This is a gentle lesson to develop an ability to trust yourself that you will do what you say to yourself that you will do. “Be impeccable with your word.” The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price ~ an excerpt from the beginning of the book

Read it on a Kindle. I like using mine.

Abundance in this book is defined as an all-sufficiency of supply, a full measure of infinite good. In the invisible, it’s the creative energy of God, also called Substance. In the visible world, it’s that energy made manifest as money and every other good thing required for a free and harmonious life in this third-dimensional world.”

“There are certain principles of abundance, specific fundamentals for Truth, which, when realized, will free an individual from lack and limitation. Since there are spiritual precepts, a program for prosperity based on Truth can’t be implemented by those with greed, avarice, or selfishness in consciousness.”

“… You must think of money and any other material desire or possession simply as an outer symbol of the inner supply. [sic] The Idea is an all-sufficiency of supply to meet every need with a Divine surplus in your individual life. [sic] But the money isn’t the supply. Rather, it’s your consciousness of God as your abundance that constitutes your supply.”

Contact me for the Companion Prosperity Journal.

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Today is Day 1 of 40 Days of Abundance Meditations… Create More Abundance in all areas of life

The Abundance Book
The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price

Today, I began day 1 of 40 days of 15 minute meditations based on this classic abundance program. This is a way to find freedom and abundance from completely different concepts about where abundance comes from. Abundance in all areas of life, love, relationships. success, dollars, material possessions and more.

This is part of a 6-week empowerment class that a team of 4, including me, began January 16, 2017: Say YES To Your Heart’s Desire in 2017 – Facebook Page. This class will break into 3 Groups to help people focus on their goal area outside of class: Career/Business Action Team, Calling In The One Relationships, and Health and Well-Being. If you are in the Austin area contact me to join us. 

If you want to simply listen to each day’s meditations they will be posted on www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. If you want the dial-in information to listen by phone contact me through this page.

There is a companion Prosperity Journal. If you want to participate at that level contact me through this page and indicate so.

Share results, insights and questions to comprehend this even better.

“Live long and prosper.” Spock

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Set your intent & Choose your life deliberately to stay focused…

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Take the first step into that scary idea.

Someone who has come to some events shared with me that his intention is to HAVE intention. He shared more that he wants to improve his approach to life to do other things that will help him to deliberately focus his life.

First off, I can relate. We all can relate.

We are all born with a resource full of incredible inherent skills that let us choose and focus our life as precisely and deliberately as we dare to and to stretch as far as we are willing to stretch in this life.

Plus we all feel that internal universal nudge within to make a change here and there…until we successfully squelch it.

To have the desire to set your intent and live more deliberately is a transition step for the people who choose to live life at a different level, authentically and deliberately. You use a different set of inner empowerment skills (intent, choice, clarity, focus, listen, ease, to name a few) to drive life from within rather than the external modus operandi such as stress, over-pushing, force, make it happen, etc. Using the inner skills stirs things up and opportunities will begin to appear while clarity is received. That is when you take external action. Be prepared and ready for the right opportunity.

Second, thank you for trusting me. I appreciate when someone shares with me. I believe what we hold within us is more valuable than anything external to us. Thus when someone shares from within I value their truth.

I will know for him his higher truth while he is finding his inner inspiration (Spirit Within) to embrace this next step towards personal freedom and expression.

I find that I feel best about my life and move forward when I do this:

  1. Read my written list of life results and imagine them to be already true, daily or more often.
  2. I take my personal time: Several minutes to do inner focusing, finding calm within me, pose questions, get in sync, and imagine my day.
  3. Deep breathe hourly to flush out the stale energies and bring in refreshing energies.

So, let’s take a cue from this man and set an intent for the week or month or maybe for your life or for this phase of it. It does not have to be elaborate. Make it a clear focus that resonates within you. Write it down next to your list of goals.

Take some time, right now, and write out an intent for your life. What comes to you? Craft some results you desire to have in life written as if you already have them. Write what you would like to experience in life.

And in case this seems too much consider: Why not try something different? One small inner change results in noticeable changes in life.

Thanks Friend

Lamar Irwin

Life Empowerment Engineer

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Focus Your Journey
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Withholds, Those little things that remain unsaid or unasked between you and someone cause…

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You have a friendship, a working relationship, a bromance or a romance with someone and suddenly you feel a little less heart from him or her. Slowly or quickly that person closes off to you. You do not understand or know what happened. And most people do not ask difficult questions to clarify things and many people will not tell the truth in difficult conversations. That seems to be the societal norm.

What happens between people in all kinds of relationships that slowly separates them? Of course there could be other specific reasons for that. I want to cover a phenomenon that some people may not be aware of yet. An impact on relationships that stems from the societal norm of being nice or the fear of being authentic. Maybe it is the lack of trained skills to develop and deepen relationships.

Foundation for this approach to communication

Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. More details on this at this blogpost

We create these blocks that can be called ‘withholds’ between people and we do not realize the impact on our closeness.

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Every time you judge someone for something you lay a brick between you and them.

Each time you do not clarify a misunderstanding with someone you lay more bricks between you and them.

When you hear something contrary about someone and spread that to others you lay more bricks in a wall of separation.

When you say something about them behind their back you continue building a wall of separation.

You are putting up a brick in an eventual wall of separation if you keep judging that person without communicating with them.

This wall within you then distorts any perspective on that person. It affects your ability to see him or her accurately. The wall begins to fully separate as all past clarity gets obfuscated and covered up.

Then consider the fact that inter-human communication is at least 90% nonverbal and we realize that person has nonverbally picked up on our thoughts that separate us, also.

And we wonder why we have a hard time connecting with people in general. Our perspectives, walls and other foibles distort the clarity of who they are within our mind and who we are in their mind.

Walls that separate. Walls of our own doing.
Walls that separate

Any brick we do not reexamine to see if it can be dissolved will maintain separation.

Do yourself a favor – seek clarity – because there is an additional truth about these thoughts of separation. They exist within your mind and each of them is a block holding you from your own good. Even if the person is to move out of your life it is best done clean. Heal then do conscious separation.

Why am I writing more about interrelation communication?

It is easy to say you want to be more spiritual or be a better person. In the beginning good and new things are happening as your heart and mind open up. As you deepen that way of being in life you will have some periods where things are rocky, the shadow journey that brings such great rewards for those courageous enough to proceed through it. Find those people who will be empowered and empowering throughout life or the lifetime of a project.

Ideas for practicing this

Take a breath and relax. Hold the desire to be clear with this person in your heart. Ask the person if you could talk privately.

When you do meet: Preferably sit across from each other knees to knees almost touching. No barriers. If it’s true for you, then say how difficult it is to ask this or say this. Then ask it in a non-accusatory way; be curious with it.

And listen with your ears, brain and heart. Respond from clear thinking not defenses.

When you hear something derogatory about someone, do you and them a favor. Do this especially if this information conflicts with your previous experiences with that person. Take a breath and say something like hey, I heard something about you that I wanted to tell you (or to ask you about).

Some of us have so many breaks within us including me. This was a big relief and I am grateful that I learned authentic life skills like these in my twenties. I have been practicing as much as I could as I find people or rarely groups who resonate with this level of authenticity and are willing to do it. This authentic approach sometimes does not work for some people.

My training with The Natale Institute has kept me away from gossip which means ultimately you become the subject of gossip. Some people have to throw shade at others. Watch this truth: If you are listening to someone gossip then you can rest assured that the person who was talking gossip about someone else to you will now turn and gossip about you to that someone else. It is not up to you. It is that person’s behavior. Make a choice as to what you want to be around.

[Watch for a future post about the intent and impact of gossiping.]

©2016 by Lamar Irwin, Mind Technology

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Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication

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What is Effective Communication and How is it Done?

As Frank Natale, The Natale Institute, defined it: Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. This can be expanded to include ‘all the people’ involved.

Qualities of Environment and People

Safe environment with some absolute rules:

  • All hats, positions of power, are removed and we are all one
  • Communicate at an authentic level to get clear

Benefits to teams and groups of people and individuals

Create an avenue for self expression.

Create an atmosphere of trust.

Then foster deep inner creativity which I also train enhancing it and accessing creativity on cue.

You can potentially create an environment that fosters an effective team or group of people or a humanity project. Teams who want to be a self expressive collective force to reckon with would benefit.

Commitment

A commitment to Unity with another person. They have let go of the intent to separate.

Effective Speaking and Listening

The person speaking uses ‘I’ statements owning the impact with him or her of what was said or some event happened to the other person

The person listening is fully present feeling and hearing what is being communicated verbally and nonverbally.

[I will add to this post with more detail as I write other topics from this concept.]

This is sort of a post to define Effective Communication. I will refer to this post as I introduce some guidelines and methods to practice this.

I offer these empowering classes that deal directly with this including in an experiential learning manner. I was well-trained by them and I apprenticed with Wilbert Alex. I now comprehend broader applied sciences to human consciousness, spiritual empowering approaches and the matrix of energies in which we exist and can thrive as much as we seek.

Who would benefit from this sort of training?

Teams that want to be tight with each other, trusting in and empowering each other. Could be emergency crews, boardrooms, business teams, nonprofit, spiritual, medical teams, educational teams and others.

It is deeply empowering for those spiritual communities who seek to build a tight bond and trust amongst members.

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Idea: What do you do when something in life is not to your liking?

Life works well sometimes and sometimes…well, it doesn’t seem that way.joy-snoopy

As humans we are living and breathing the experiences of life. In one moment we can feel so joyful and one event, or even one wrong thought, later we can feel misery. It can be neutral or our feelings can cycle some in the day from happy to rejecting yourself to sadness to feeling successful to joy… It is not that every person has any kind of emotional disorder. It is life especially at times when we are pushing our limits.

One teacher said if you live life in neutral and seek life to always be peace and calm without moments of life being disruptive then you have flatlined.

Michael Beckwith talked about going out of this life in pristine condition or a little bruised, cuts, pains, scratches from having stretched your limits. I am in the latter category with periods of sedentary personal movement.

Life can be seen as a journey of bringing more of our Inner Light into our external life. This involves some journeys of healing through our shadow journey. Oftentimes people stop here because it looks frightening. I am fortunate to have been pushed and guided to do this work. I still resist yet I know the other side will be much more expansive and freeing. So I end up taking a deep breath in while taking the first step to a new me and an expanded life.

a-inner-lightAnd remember that is where you are along your life’s journey. Don’t let yourself get stuck in this phase. Respect it. Hire a guide like me 🙂 Learn from it and reveal more Light into your life.

Once we learn to direct our inner self and utilize and manage our inner reactions, feelings and thoughts then we can become less reactive to all the different stimuli and events in life. With practice we begin to direct our inner resources to cause deliberate changes in life externally and within ourselves.

Life became more fun once I began to find out how to use the inner tools that are inherent within everyone. We can design, create and empower a chosen inner reality that develops into our external experiences we call life.

Whatever is not going the way you want in life, take a few moments and relax your body, your mind, your energy. Are you ready to let this ‘problem’ go? When you feel and hear ‘YES’ then take that full cleansing breath of life in deeply. Hold it at the top and internally choose to Let this go – all thoughts, energies, concerns, judgments and whatever else about it that darkens your Light.

Pause and feel the new air and space to create something new. Immerse yourself for a few moments into your favorite vacation spot ever. This helps to relax.

Create your life. Now imagine what you want it to be instead. Imagine, visualize, sense, hear, taste, touch, smell and feel it changing. Play in this new reality feeling it as if it is true. Do this regularly and make it feel familiar. Your life will start taking you there to follow your true reality which is

Breathe peace into it. Keep your focus on this chosen reality instead of the way it appears. And allow it to change gently and gracefully.

And do what you can to remain in a state of joy and gratitude.

This is a simple way to begin to receive what you want in life with ease and grace instead of stress and uncertainty.

#ShareYourLight

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