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Are you like a leaky water hose, losing personal energy?

What bothers me about you, belongs to me. From a German saying.

That translates into what bothers you about someone else, belongs to you.

This is an axiom for personal empowerment; a fundamental law for human interaction.

Leaking Personal Energy

This is not just words. This speaks to the amount of energy you have for your life. You have more power when you heal your leaks thus altering your awareness of your self. Continue reading below… The Gift

 

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The Gift is that each problem you judge in someone else is life giving you a signal to do a little healing within yourself. Why walk around with your open wounds so easily push-able? These are your buttons. Own them. Do a little self-healing and self-realizing, so that no one can push those buttons to cause you pain anymore.

A Masterful Teacher I had in my twenties, Frank Natale said: No one can reject anything about you, unless you have already rejected that within yourself.

Thus these friends, people, coworkers are actually acting as your GPS system for you to find your energy leaks, aka the buttons that cause you pain. Once healed, you gain more personal energy through personal empowerment. Give thanks for them playing their role in your life.

Own It to Be Present in Your Life

In situations where you may judge and condemn others, you are leaking personal energy. Most people think their problems are because of someone else or something outside of themselves. This level of consciousness leaks your personal energy out of you, losing what you could use for fun, loved ones and achieving your goals.

Quite often, people then engage others in their outrage, spewing their self-identifying way of doing life, to all others who operate the same way. This is their Tribe. All the while losing more and more energy. This is called gossip and is a horrible meme, a virus, in mankind’s consciousness. And they are then the source of it.

And you wonder why you are tired! You’re like a leaky water hose, losing power and pressure while spraying everyone else.

Just like real estate being all about location, location, location…

   …Life is about consciousness, consciousness, consciousness.

Invest time and resources in bettering you. It pays a lifelong dividend.

Do something today to make your life better for you and those around you. Consider a coaching session. A trained person can see things for you that aid you in permanently patching the leaks in the flow of your life.

Lamar, Life Empowerment Engineer

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Inner alignment with brain integration skills empower us to achieve with ease…

Inner alignment with brain integration skills empower us to achieve with ease and synchronicity, eventually rooting out the extreme struggle and difficulties… Once you are on the right path.

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Several methods used to align you from within

 

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Embed Challenging Goals within Your Inner Being for Achievement!

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Embed goals within your inner being to make for achieving your goal become a powerful process from within. From within you is where all your true power for long lasting change emanates.

Once comlete, your life will begin to move in that direction. And you will find it unfolds in your awareness, in new ideas, in things to release and things to embrace.. You will begin to have synchronous events and opportunities that show you the way forward.

Process:

First, identify the goal’s phrasing using your body’s feedback mechanisms clarifying the precise wording to make it perfect for you. Usually the right goal is a balance of challenging yet very doable. Select a goal either slightly beyond where you are or greatly beyond your current life experiences. You could dare to choose the one that brings major leaps forward in life.

This becomes your Desired Result in life. Once this is clear, the integration process begins.

You will be guided in a series of movements while you say your Desired Result either aloud or silently. This integrates and syncs your left and right brain. And each phase embeds it deeper into your Visual, Auditory and Kinesthetic layers of who you are, referred to as your unseen bodies.

Powerful energy is unleashed.

You will leave with the written goal, a sense of accomplishment and instructions to back it up. I will continue to support you if you need a brief phone call or email.

I did this earlier this year for two major desired results of mine and all kinds of changes are happening in my life. UPDATE: Life has changed dramatically as I align to these.

Are you ready? Is it time yet to rise above your own resistance to what you want in life?

  What is it costing you to suppress your true desires for the life you came here to live?

    Is it time to unleash your dreams and the powerful self that has been dormant within?

Call me. Let’s schedule this life change. This can be done via Skype.

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 Lamar, Life Empowerment Engineer

© 2017 by Lamar Irwin, Mind Technology

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What if you could bend the matrix of reality to have the life of your dreams?

We do live in a multidimensional reality

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Bend the Fabric/Matrix of Life

+ We have free will and choice of what we think

+ Our thoughts lead to our life

+ We have within us the skills, once learned, that lighten up life while improving it and allowing for a more fulfilling life of achievement, self-direction and self-management.

To the question at hand… Bending the matrix of reality 

Yes, you can bend reality and you are doing this yet are simply unaware  that your thoughts cause the results in life.

Thus my favorite topic… How do we tap into our inner potential to alter life?

I first learned precise thinking and visualization to cause a change within me or externally in life, in Malaysia as a young engineer living and working in Indonesia. These skills directly empowered me to improve my job performance significantly. And management started noticing my achievements and performance under those stressful and sometimes dangerous situations.

It truly is nice to be able to choose your desired behavior, task performance or pain release through lining up your thoughts in a precise manner leading to achieving with greater ease, less struggle.

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Find a better path through reality to what you want in life

When we make choices about what we want in life and practice living them within our own trained imagination we are literally programming our brain neurons to be able to recognize and act upon ‘the goal’ when opportunities start coming to us. It also sends out energy from your body’s energetic system to move the matrix of reality creating a path leading towards the desired result.

This may sound fanciful or too science fiction and it happens to be true.

As an affirmed geek I just luv this stuff. And it is practical, repeatable, follows laws and principle of the unseen forces that cause life, and leads us to becoming who we want to become.and to achieving what we are impelled to achieve.

Procedure to bend reality to be a path to achieve your results:

  • Select a relaxed atmosphere inside or outside
  • Find that ‘just right’ position to sit and get relaxed
  • Close your eyes
  • Place you attention on the airflow going in and out of your nostrils and mouth as you breathe in through your mouth
  • Hold it for a few seconds at the top then exhale deeply
  • Continue breathing in and out as your body and mind relax
  • Tell unwanted thoughts to float on like a cloud in the sky
  • Create in your imagination, using your senses, of having the result you are choosing to create in your life
  • Be sure to generate the emotions of having it. This fuels it
  • Enjoy
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Snoopy flying his doghouse. So can you with great ease.

Spend a few minutes in the morning, midday and evening doing this.

Watch what life starts bringing you as new ideas and opportunities.

Click on Snoopy to the right or here to review my upcoming class that teaches these skills. Achieving Greatly, April 29-30 in Austin, Texas.

This is a one-of-a-kind class that synthesizes 3 independently effective methods to bring forth that inner power you hear about but don’t understand until you experience it.

Lamar Irwin    #amomentswisdom

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Physically I’m on Earth, Mentally I’m in the Galaxies and Spiritually I’m in a Whole Other Dimension

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An expansive state of being

Physically I’m on Earth, Mentally I’m in the Galaxies and Spiritually I’m in a whole other Dimension

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Leverage Your Perceptive Filter on Life to Your Benefit

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Believe In Good and in You

Some beliefs I have learned and developed to support my journey include:

I am free and open to new experiences                                                  I am willing to change

I am designed from the inside out for success and…

…I live in a supportive universe that proactively supports my best life

Miracles happen daily. Why not in my life? I anticipate them.

Develop your own that supports your uniqueness and unique way you do life

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Perception is the human ability to justify whatever reality a person already believes to be…

Human perception is clouded by the human design.

Beliefs in what is possible, values in how life should be, moral judgements, conclusions made in unhealed past experiences, gossip you heard about someone, peer’s beliefs, family conditioning for life, and on and on… each is a filter to the lens that is between the raw reality of one’s physical reality and the cut, edited and deleted input your conscious thought perceives and you experience.

Think of it this way. When you put on a pair of glasses with a colored lens everything has that color tint to it. And there are colors and areas of life that cannot be seen with these glasses.

When we stay within our own life boundaries and beliefs that is all we can perceive in life as possible. Anything outside our self-defined life boundaries is sometimes not heard or recognized because of a person’s perspective filter. And the perspective filter is different for every single person on the planet. It is a wonder we can ever find agreement.

We are designed to see beyond our current perspective filters

Our physical eyes can only see until there is a wall, fog or physical obstruction. Our physical olfactory sense works as long as the fragrance makes it to the nasal passage in the face. Our ears can hear a sound as long as that vibration makes it to our ears. Touch works as long as it is within arms reach. And taste can only taste things that are on the tongue; of course smell has a lot to do with taste.

Thankfully we are born with a Spiritual Layer to us that has broader perceptive abilities beyond what the human senses can detect. There is a spiritual (energetic) sense for every human sense. We can hear, see, touch, taste, feel and know beyond the limits of the physical senses using these spiritual senses.

The third eye is the spiritual eye that can see beyond obstacles, around corners and through darkness in life thus guiding us beyond what we can physically see. The spiritual sense is without limitations like walls, dark periods in life, length limits of arms for touch, location of nostrils for smell, distance between ears and sound, etc, obstacles, difficulties, pains and more. They help guide us even when life has disturbances, disruptions, and the like.

We are designed so well for self-determination. We have free will to choose what we think, feel and do. No one can control that except us. And what we think is the beginning to what is experienced in life. We can learn methods to lift up our eyes from the human condition and the physical senses when life is not to our liking. This opens us up to a spiritual perspective, the intuitive mind and much inner guidance that will provide new ideas and a sense of direction.

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                                  The 3rd rock from the sun. Get a new perspective on life.

Change your perspective.

Take a weekend trip.

Disconnect from reality for a day.

Imagine being in space.

Work with someone trained to coach you out of your accumulated life muck into a fresh perspective on life where your forgotten dreams, too-good and to-do ideas are still possible. This is a beautiful process to catalyze within someone.

Intellectual Freedom, Carpe Diem and Be True to Yourself – Post about a great movie to watch.

Come have your inner energies cleansed, altered and aligned in a refreshing energy massage…

P.E.A.C.E. Personal Energy Alignment, Clearing and Expansion Session

When I do a P.E.A.C.E. Personal Energy Alignment, Clearing and Expansion Session for someone…almost every time they have a big change in life. Their perspective changes totally aligns more towards their true nature which is good, abundant, skilled, focused, etc.

One lady called me the next day and told me that when she got home after our session her dogs were not barking and her 2 children were getting along. The dogs have never not barked when she got home and her early adulthood children, one with special needs, did not get along together. She called to tell me that THEY had changed. I offered the truth is that SHE had changed.

One thirty-something man was walking down South Lamar Blvd the day after wondering to himself what kind of man he wanted to grow into. At that moment there was a book on the sidewalk right next to his foot that was titled What Kind of Man Are You?

What little miracle would serve you?

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Empowerment & Its Accompanying Skills, Qualities and Results

I posted a new page under Services (the top header of this page) with my unique topics for empowering oneself, business, networking or groups of any kind. What makes these skills stand out are they work with your inner self as you are designed. Using applied sciences you will have skills to cause stillness, creativity, achievement and focus within your self and your life.

Everything is changeable and improvable with the right inner focus. That is my skill and honor for giving people a lift to make that change. 

Learn during your lunchtime, a group meeting or a keynote function. You will receive clear messages, expansive concepts, tie them into personal and business benefits and provide ways for new empowerment skills to be used right away.

From Empower Hours to short class to custom presentation to teams to full experiential classes.

Topics include:

Full description is on the Services -> Innovative Topics to Empower Individuals, Employees & Volunteers

Empowering Engineer to Engineer Series:
I am an engineer and can present empowerment skills in that manner to the unique mind of an engineer.

  • Speaking About Using Your Own Design for Better Performance
  • Applied Brain Science for Achievement
  • Tune Your Performance Based on Your Design for Success
  • From A New Idea through Consciousness into Life
  • Custom focused topics for using Inner Skills for work

How These Empowerment Training, Skills & Services Work and Surprise Benefits for the Business that Uses Them

Physiological Stress Management, On Cue

Patient Empowerment in the Modern Treatment

Results through Left-Right Brain Hemisphere Integration

Focus Your Group’s Intent & Unleash Collective Power

Activating Your Genius Mind

Manage Pain into Elimination

Empowering Groups to Attract the Right Employment

Hack and Tame Your Brain for Exponentially Increasing Benefits

Aligning Your Inner Rhythms of Your Life’s Music

Activate Your Thoughts for Manifestation

Top 10 List for Crafting Empowering Goals

Shift into Your Empowered Feeling State

Customized Topics are available. 

From one hour presentations to short classes and to longer trainings this material continuously trains even after the classes.

NOTE: The training portion of this material is done using both the logical and intuitive thoughts. A particular technique that specifically trains and ‘implants’ the material within the person causes changes real time. You are then empowered to practice and utilize this new skill immediately.

Full description is on the Services -> Innovative Topics to Empower Individuals, Employees & Volunteers

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What is the Balance of Your Majority Thoughts? Lean Positive or Lean Negative?

“If you want to know what you have been thinking then take stock of what, who, etc is around you in your life.”
         One of Frank Natale’s to-the-point sayings.

Deliberate ThinkingThought Creates Your Reality

   Great thoughts yield a great life

      Clear thoughts produce clear life results. Confusion does otherwise.

         Deliberate thoughts yield a life of one’s choosing and loving

Reality is the Result of a process begun by the thoughts a person is choosing to imagine, feel and focus on in their mind and heart. It gestates in the Creative Mind where the unseen Creative Forces begin arranging for it. It is nurtured through one’s regular relaxed imaginative focus upon their life as they see it, as if it is already done.

If you are new to these empowering concepts or if you are an old hat at it… Study this previous paragraph and implement it. Practice it regularly and watch how new opportunities and ideas show up, how you synchronistically run into the right person or overhear the right conversation and other opportunities come to you. You simply begin to magnetize what is needed to accomplish what you are imagining into your sphere of life. Many other events occur in your life and in your mind and heart that are different signs. This is simply working with the Creative Mind as it is always providing you what your life choices have brought you to. Each of those choices made in your mind hopefully with great input from the heart-mind.

What are your thoughts when it comes to:

  • Self care
  • Are you in charge of your life or is it in charge of you?
    • Take charge and learn how to refocus it deliberately
  • Love of and for friends and family
  • Romantic Love
  • Play
  • Travel
  • Career success and happiness
  • Material world: house, car, other desires
  • Finances, Investments
  • Heart Care as in forgiving, healing and expanding your inner sacred heart
  • Mind care as in learning, challenging yourself
  • Spiritual growth and care as in learning, practicing 
  • Emotional care is different from Heart Care although they are connected. More…

Consider a different perspective on emotions. They can be seen as e-motions = energies in motion. The e-motions you feel are your programmed inner interpretation of how the energies feel that are running throughout your body system and all around you. You can sense that in your head, your chest or other locations by quieting yourself and focusing your attention in the different areas within. 

If anything, take some personal care time, grab a pen and pad, find a comfy place, play some music that brings you peace and focus. Then lose yourself in an hour of daydreaming, contemplating and expanding the thought box in which your life is being lived.

Contemplate what you desire in life from today to next month to the end of the year and bigger longer-term goals. Write them down. Play with them until they feel good; i.e. they are stirring up good energies within you that you interpret as feeling good.

Yes, it is a tedious process in what was just written. To parse and discern one’s thoughts, emotions and inner workings is to gain more and more dominion over your inner self…thus your experiences of life.

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Doubt Your Limits instead of Your Self

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I enjoy helping people expand beyond what they ever conceived of doing. Or for the person who has held in a quiet dream or desire. Or for the professional seeking the next level up.

The resulting combination of the diversity of systems I have learned, practiced, licensed, etc to unleash the human potential studies assist through focusing on the thoughts, emotions, energies, sensations, life circumstances.

In this process the beginning steps will become clear. This is your journey so all of my focus is how to fine tune you like tuning an instrument. And to bring answers from within your own self to your life questions.

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10 Pieces of Wisdom for a Higher Level of Living

Higher Level of Living Life

I find that when I am following these my life goes smoother, opportunities are more abundant and I am happier. Yet the normality of life sometimes settles in and I may start believing those old limitations, small self concepts and self-defeating thinking.

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This haze of normality that descends upon us when we get caught up in the stories of our life can hypnotize us into forgetting that ultimately we have free will and choice in life.

  1. That is why it is great to develop a morning practice that focuses on at least reading uplifting material to stir the beginning of your day with good thoughts and concepts
  2. Choose/create an expansive question about life upon which you can consider throughout your day. (*)

These 2 actions will change your day. You have set your thoughts on an uplifting pattern that will lead your day. Plus your mind will expand contemplating an expansive idea.

(*) Ideas to contemplate:
  What will my life be like when I tune into the natural state of abundance?
  How much love can I embrace and emanate today?
  If it applies: How can I achieve my job goals with greater ease?
  I wonder what i can change to decrease the stress and struggle in (an area of life).
       How can I   increase the ease in grace?

There are magazines and books available that have expansive ideas in them.

Some I use: Primarily I read the Science of Mind magazine, www.scienceofmind.com. It has daily guides. I have a different digital magazine emailed to me. Or I choose from books like the Science of Mind or Living the Science of Mind, Ernest Holmes. Another favorite is The Complete Works of Florence Scovel Shinn.

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Set your intent & Choose your life deliberately to stay focused…

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Take the first step into that scary idea.

Someone who has come to some events shared with me that his intention is to HAVE intention. He shared more that he wants to improve his approach to life to do other things that will help him to deliberately focus his life.

First off, I can relate. We all can relate.

We are all born with a resource full of incredible inherent skills that let us choose and focus our life as precisely and deliberately as we dare to and to stretch as far as we are willing to stretch in this life.

Plus we all feel that internal universal nudge within to make a change here and there…until we successfully squelch it.

To have the desire to set your intent and live more deliberately is a transition step for the people who choose to live life at a different level, authentically and deliberately. You use a different set of inner empowerment skills (intent, choice, clarity, focus, listen, ease, to name a few) to drive life from within rather than the external modus operandi such as stress, over-pushing, force, make it happen, etc. Using the inner skills stirs things up and opportunities will begin to appear while clarity is received. That is when you take external action. Be prepared and ready for the right opportunity.

Second, thank you for trusting me. I appreciate when someone shares with me. I believe what we hold within us is more valuable than anything external to us. Thus when someone shares from within I value their truth.

I will know for him his higher truth while he is finding his inner inspiration (Spirit Within) to embrace this next step towards personal freedom and expression.

I find that I feel best about my life and move forward when I do this:

  1. Read my written list of life results and imagine them to be already true, daily or more often.
  2. I take my personal time: Several minutes to do inner focusing, finding calm within me, pose questions, get in sync, and imagine my day.
  3. Deep breathe hourly to flush out the stale energies and bring in refreshing energies.

So, let’s take a cue from this man and set an intent for the week or month or maybe for your life or for this phase of it. It does not have to be elaborate. Make it a clear focus that resonates within you. Write it down next to your list of goals.

Take some time, right now, and write out an intent for your life. What comes to you? Craft some results you desire to have in life written as if you already have them. Write what you would like to experience in life.

And in case this seems too much consider: Why not try something different? One small inner change results in noticeable changes in life.

Thanks Friend

Lamar Irwin

Life Empowerment Engineer

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Certain things catch your eye…pursue only those that capture the heart

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Words of Wisdom
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Withholds, Those little things that remain unsaid or unasked between you and someone cause…

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You have a friendship, a working relationship, a bromance or a romance with someone and suddenly you feel a little less heart from him or her. Slowly or quickly that person closes off to you. You do not understand or know what happened. And most people do not ask difficult questions to clarify things and many people will not tell the truth in difficult conversations. That seems to be the societal norm.

What happens between people in all kinds of relationships that slowly separates them? Of course there could be other specific reasons for that. I want to cover a phenomenon that some people may not be aware of yet. An impact on relationships that stems from the societal norm of being nice or the fear of being authentic. Maybe it is the lack of trained skills to develop and deepen relationships.

Foundation for this approach to communication

Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. More details on this at this blogpost

We create these blocks that can be called ‘withholds’ between people and we do not realize the impact on our closeness.

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Every time you judge someone for something you lay a brick between you and them.

Each time you do not clarify a misunderstanding with someone you lay more bricks between you and them.

When you hear something contrary about someone and spread that to others you lay more bricks in a wall of separation.

When you say something about them behind their back you continue building a wall of separation.

You are putting up a brick in an eventual wall of separation if you keep judging that person without communicating with them.

This wall within you then distorts any perspective on that person. It affects your ability to see him or her accurately. The wall begins to fully separate as all past clarity gets obfuscated and covered up.

Then consider the fact that inter-human communication is at least 90% nonverbal and we realize that person has nonverbally picked up on our thoughts that separate us, also.

And we wonder why we have a hard time connecting with people in general. Our perspectives, walls and other foibles distort the clarity of who they are within our mind and who we are in their mind.

Walls that separate. Walls of our own doing.
Walls that separate

Any brick we do not reexamine to see if it can be dissolved will maintain separation.

Do yourself a favor – seek clarity – because there is an additional truth about these thoughts of separation. They exist within your mind and each of them is a block holding you from your own good. Even if the person is to move out of your life it is best done clean. Heal then do conscious separation.

Why am I writing more about interrelation communication?

It is easy to say you want to be more spiritual or be a better person. In the beginning good and new things are happening as your heart and mind open up. As you deepen that way of being in life you will have some periods where things are rocky, the shadow journey that brings such great rewards for those courageous enough to proceed through it. Find those people who will be empowered and empowering throughout life or the lifetime of a project.

Ideas for practicing this

Take a breath and relax. Hold the desire to be clear with this person in your heart. Ask the person if you could talk privately.

When you do meet: Preferably sit across from each other knees to knees almost touching. No barriers. If it’s true for you, then say how difficult it is to ask this or say this. Then ask it in a non-accusatory way; be curious with it.

And listen with your ears, brain and heart. Respond from clear thinking not defenses.

When you hear something derogatory about someone, do you and them a favor. Do this especially if this information conflicts with your previous experiences with that person. Take a breath and say something like hey, I heard something about you that I wanted to tell you (or to ask you about).

Some of us have so many breaks within us including me. This was a big relief and I am grateful that I learned authentic life skills like these in my twenties. I have been practicing as much as I could as I find people or rarely groups who resonate with this level of authenticity and are willing to do it. This authentic approach sometimes does not work for some people.

My training with The Natale Institute has kept me away from gossip which means ultimately you become the subject of gossip. Some people have to throw shade at others. Watch this truth: If you are listening to someone gossip then you can rest assured that the person who was talking gossip about someone else to you will now turn and gossip about you to that someone else. It is not up to you. It is that person’s behavior. Make a choice as to what you want to be around.

[Watch for a future post about the intent and impact of gossiping.]

©2016 by Lamar Irwin, Mind Technology

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Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication

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What is Effective Communication and How is it Done?

As Frank Natale, The Natale Institute, defined it: Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. This can be expanded to include ‘all the people’ involved.

Qualities of Environment and People

Safe environment with some absolute rules:

  • All hats, positions of power, are removed and we are all one
  • Communicate at an authentic level to get clear

Benefits to teams and groups of people and individuals

Create an avenue for self expression.

Create an atmosphere of trust.

Then foster deep inner creativity which I also train enhancing it and accessing creativity on cue.

You can potentially create an environment that fosters an effective team or group of people or a humanity project. Teams who want to be a self expressive collective force to reckon with would benefit.

Commitment

A commitment to Unity with another person. They have let go of the intent to separate.

Effective Speaking and Listening

The person speaking uses ‘I’ statements owning the impact with him or her of what was said or some event happened to the other person

The person listening is fully present feeling and hearing what is being communicated verbally and nonverbally.

[I will add to this post with more detail as I write other topics from this concept.]

This is sort of a post to define Effective Communication. I will refer to this post as I introduce some guidelines and methods to practice this.

I offer these empowering classes that deal directly with this including in an experiential learning manner. I was well-trained by them and I apprenticed with Wilbert Alex. I now comprehend broader applied sciences to human consciousness, spiritual empowering approaches and the matrix of energies in which we exist and can thrive as much as we seek.

Who would benefit from this sort of training?

Teams that want to be tight with each other, trusting in and empowering each other. Could be emergency crews, boardrooms, business teams, nonprofit, spiritual, medical teams, educational teams and others.

It is deeply empowering for those spiritual communities who seek to build a tight bond and trust amongst members.

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