Some beliefs I have learned and developed to support my journey include:
I am free and open to new experiences I am willing to change
I am designed from the inside out for success and…
…I live in a supportive universe that proactively supports my best life
Miracles happen daily. Why not in my life? I anticipate them.
Develop your own that supports your uniqueness and unique way you do life
Human perception is clouded by the human design.
Beliefs in what is possible, values in how life should be, moral judgements, conclusions made in unhealed past experiences, gossip you heard about someone, peer’s beliefs, family conditioning for life, and on and on… each is a filter to the lens that is between the raw reality of one’s physical reality and the cut, edited and deleted input your conscious thought perceives and you experience.
Think of it this way. When you put on a pair of glasses with a colored lens everything has that color tint to it. And there are colors and areas of life that cannot be seen with these glasses.
When we stay within our own life boundaries and beliefs that is all we can perceive in life as possible. Anything outside our self-defined life boundaries is sometimes not heard or recognized because of a person’s perspective filter. And the perspective filter is different for every single person on the planet. It is a wonder we can ever find agreement.
We are designed to see beyond our current perspective filters
Our physical eyes can only see until there is a wall, fog or physical obstruction. Our physical olfactory sense works as long as the fragrance makes it to the nasal passage in the face. Our ears can hear a sound as long as that vibration makes it to our ears. Touch works as long as it is within arms reach. And taste can only taste things that are on the tongue; of course smell has a lot to do with taste.
Thankfully we are born with a Spiritual Layer to us that has broader perceptive abilities beyond what the human senses can detect. There is a spiritual (energetic) sense for every human sense. We can hear, see, touch, taste, feel and know beyond the limits of the physical senses using these spiritual senses.
The third eye is the spiritual eye that can see beyond obstacles, around corners and through darkness in life thus guiding us beyond what we can physically see. The spiritual sense is without limitations like walls, dark periods in life, length limits of arms for touch, location of nostrils for smell, distance between ears and sound, etc, obstacles, difficulties, pains and more. They help guide us even when life has disturbances, disruptions, and the like.
We are designed so well for self-determination. We have free will to choose what we think, feel and do. No one can control that except us. And what we think is the beginning to what is experienced in life. We can learn methods to lift up our eyes from the human condition and the physical senses when life is not to our liking. This opens us up to a spiritual perspective, the intuitive mind and much inner guidance that will provide new ideas and a sense of direction.
Change your perspective.
Take a weekend trip.
Disconnect from reality for a day.
Imagine being in space.
Work with someone trained to coach you out of your accumulated life muck into a fresh perspective on life where your forgotten dreams, too-good and to-do ideas are still possible. This is a beautiful process to catalyze within someone.
Intellectual Freedom, Carpe Diem and Be True to Yourself – Post about a great movie to watch.
Come have your inner energies cleansed, altered and aligned in a refreshing energy massage…
When I do a P.E.A.C.E. Personal Energy Alignment, Clearing and Expansion Session for someone…almost every time they have a big change in life. Their perspective changes totally aligns more towards their true nature which is good, abundant, skilled, focused, etc.
One lady called me the next day and told me that when she got home after our session her dogs were not barking and her 2 children were getting along. The dogs have never not barked when she got home and her early adulthood children, one with special needs, did not get along together. She called to tell me that THEY had changed. I offered the truth is that SHE had changed.
One thirty-something man was walking down South Lamar Blvd the day after wondering to himself what kind of man he wanted to grow into. At that moment there was a book on the sidewalk right next to his foot that was titled What Kind of Man Are You?
What little miracle would serve you?
THIS is at the root cause of so many misinterpretations we make of other people. Then we talk about it to others. That magnifies it. We think we know someone’s intent, agenda or whatever actions against us that we think we are accurately seeing in them. Truth is it exists in our feeling-thought-feeling-thought personal bubble and we are seeing our own reflection; an Infinite Do Loop…that sometimes is keeping us stuck.
Your Perspective Filters on Life
Whenever we have been thinking badly of our self in some way, the way we see the world and others changes. Our perspective changes based on our mood, expectations of/from others known/unknown desired/undesired, beliefs, walls, values and more. We see life through all of these and more filters that distort the true reality. Then we may be easily swayed by others which means we take on their life filters. Soon our perception of reality may resemble looking through a kaleidoscope; a fragmented representation of the true reality.
The Comfort Zone
One of three guiding poems available for download. Scroll down on the left-hand column.
Each of us has/had some inner feelings we do not like that keeps reoccurring
At times in life we are driven by an inner wound that contains certain bad feelings from an unhealed moment in the past. Those same familiar feelings keep happening appearing to be stimulated by external circumstances and people around us. When we look at our life patterns we can find those familiar feelings occurred at other times in life with different faces and different situations. We will see how it keeps happening no matter where we live and no matter who is involved. It is the same script being played out with different people, different faces.
For a purpose though…
Let us be real with ourselves and acknowledge that we are the common denominator in all these situations. Maybe it is happening because we are doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. A different outcome is impossible and this is the definition of insanity. It is time to look in life’s proverbial feedback mirror (*purpose). An external circumstance is what it is; something that happfeelingened in life. The way we choose to perceive it, judge it, witness it on the spot is our choice, consciously or unconsciously. Often it is a highly reactive choice from the unconscious, reactive mind. It is the knee jerk reaction. And a reactive action by definition is repeating the same old behavior without conscious thought thus experiencing the same old feelings in life.
…that are doing their job attempting to point out a soft spot in your underbelly that if healed, life would be better. That’s the purpose of these repeating lessons in life.
When you have a moment of feeling bad about yourself, take a pause. Become aware of what you are feeling. How does it feel and where is it? What else can you sense about it? Is this in any way familiar to a repeating childhood feeling? And what have you been thinking about yourself prior to feeling badly about yourself. Thoughts lead our life and stir e-motions = energies in motion within you. This leads to our experiences in life.
Want a change?
Write those self-defeating thoughts down. Use pen and paper. It works more neurons in your brain to facilitate a change than typing it out. First relax into your inner self and reflect on wondering what is it about this situation that is wanting my attention? You may search your memories for familiar times in life when you felt the same feelings; who was involved and more details. Ask: What is the message for me to hear? Then pause your thinking and listen from within yourself.
Now become deliberate in your thinking. As Abraham, Esther Hicks, says: Contrast in this world helps you sharpen your rocket of desire. Create, choose and craft your thoughts deliberately. Adopt thoughts from others who have what you want. What is the opposite? What is it that you truly want and how do you want to feel?
These are the thoughts you are choosing to think to deliberately cause a change in life? Write these down. Polish them until they feel succinct and powerful when you read them and consider them. Put them on index cards and carry them with you reading them often and practice thinking them as if they are your regular thoughts. Life begins to change accordingly.
The ego drives this repeating the same thing over and over act while we think that we are moving forward. The ego has its place and benefits in the way we mix and manage our own choice of thoughts from multiple thought channels AND we have to tell it who is boss. You are in charge of your thoughts. You pick and choose your thoughts. Pull the self-defeating thoughts you imagine pulling out of your Mind Garden like you pull weeds from a garden. Plant the chosen thoughts like seeds and every time you read them and contemplate them you are nurturing those thought seeds to grow.
How important is your happiness, success and fulfillment? Is it important enough to sit down and take time for your well-being?
Choose your thoughts for a deliberate future
“Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy” done either with deliberate intent or unconscious indifference
Practice. Make a change
What could you do for 3 to 5 minutes today that would benefit you, your life and your well-being? Pick a vision, a dream, a goal, a desire, your index card of new thoughts… Sit, close your eyes and choose your thoughts deliberately. Then imagine it is already in your life…as you desire it to be. You have just caused your life to change. Rinse and repeat. And enjoy an unfolding beauty in your life.
Do the world a favor. Empower yourself to live your best life.
In-Joy, Enliven & In-Spire,
Published in Austin’s Natural Awakenings Magazine January 2017 Issue
View it online http://austinawakenings.com/past-issues/ – Click Jan 2017 > Page 10
A companion article was published in June 2016 issue:
Holistic wellness leads to an empowered life and a real sense of well-being inside and out. It occurs when the matrix that makes up a person’s life causes he or she to feel fulfilled by living a desired life. A person subjectively measures well-being in many aspects – career, friends, partner/spouse, money, love, play, emotional/mental, spiritual and other aspects that are important.
There are those that recognize room for improvement and are ready to make some adjustments to increase a sense of well-being. The greatest wellness develops by deliberately choosing one’s desired results in life while deepening the understanding of working with life. People are designed with all the inner skills necessary to maintain, establish and increase holistic wellness. With the right knowledge these inner unseen skills are utilized to change life externally and internally.
Permanent change for the better in a person’s life begins from within. The grand design for people is that everyone is born with skills to make the life they desire. It is simply a matter of the right education. The good news is it works for every person.
“Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy.”
by 20th-century sociologist Robert K. Merton
Meditation is the most well known tool for making life changes, and is continuously being confirmed by new scientific technologies. Meditation is when a person is focusing thought, and heart, on a single thought, or feeling. Sometimes it is staring at a single point or flame. For the advanced meditator it is to be without thought. A meditative state focuses one’s whole being in a single direction. This is what causes deliberate life changes.
A meditative state occurs when the brain’s operating frequency range is about 7 to 14 hertz (cycles per second). In daily life, people’s brains are operating above 14 hertz. This is when eyes are open and the physical senses are engaged. Every person has a built-in switch to change the brain from outer reality activity mode to inner reality creative mode.
The switch involves mental focus, intent and controlled breathing. To go within begins with an intent to disconnect from the stimuli of the physical world. Relax and do some deep breathing focusing on the air movement and how it feels. Deep breathing is enough to get the process started. In a short while the brain frequency adjusts to the right frequency range, and one feels relaxed. From this point there are a multitude of activities that will benefit in different ways.
Once a person is at this level of peace and relaxation the intelligence expands to include the intuitive and creative mind. At this point there are a multitude of options.
Some of the known uses of being in a meditative state
Find and Establish Peace Within = Most people are introduced to meditation where the goal is to relax and clear the mind. This is new to people living a busy life in a busy world.
Dynamic Meditation = Cause deliberate changes in life. Visualization is a much validated and scientifically measured skill that directly alters our being. Proper visualization techniques are known to alter the neural programming in the brain and heart real time. Brain difficulties have been overcome using these techniques. There are other trained uses of the imagination that will cause change at different levels in a person’s life.
Oneness Meditation = Allow the release of attachment to what the eyes see as separation between people, things and other so the person establishes a strong sense of connectedness to all things.
Visioning = Ask questions of a higher knowing, universal love or other name. Receive direct answers in some form. Establish a strong sense of love within one self fully connected to the Universal Love
Sports Performance and Task Improvement = Some studies show that when a person effectively imagine their sports performance beforehand, it can significantly improve his or her performance. This has been also applied to desktop or other work tasks to improve the quality and performance.
Open One’s Heart Center and Fill Up with Healing Unconditional Love = To those who have had their hearts awakened they know this energy can be drawn in, received, magnified and sent. This is a good heart healing process. The more a person opens their heart, the more their heart will heal and stay open for more love.
[Author: I would have included the following had there been more space for the article]
Change stress level = Integrate a simple countdown method, based on brain science, into your life that instantly relaxes your mind and body, on cue. This is also the key to health and health.
Eliminate headache/pain through Precise Thinking = Every person who uses this gets off pain medications and one man had a spinal implant; he turned it off after the first session. Precise Thinking is incredibly powerful.
Access Logical & Intuitive/Creative thoughts to Build a Magnificent Project = The brain’s logical thoughts are accessed always when the eyes are open and we are engaged in our physical life. With intent and breathing with eyes closed the mind can be shifted to access intuitive/creative thoughts. Best practice: When you are creating a project: First, write down all that is in your mind with your eyes open. These are the logical thoughts based on what has been learned, experienced and absorbed in this life. When you want a new idea, think of the question that will bring you the answer. Close your eyes, breathe deeply several times and imagine walking down some stairs to go within yourself. Then pose the question in your quieter mind. Pause and listen for new thoughts, ideas, colors, images, smells, sounds. It will come to you however it can reach your awareness.
Develop Your Mind to Focus Thoughts, Logical & Intuitive, for Evolving Personal Benefits = When a person uses this precise process to relax the mind and body there is a wealth of inner skills that begin to unfold in a person’s consciousness. There is a predictable progression for the inspired person who practices it regularly. It begins with the ability to de-stress and relax mind and body on cue making this process shorter and more usable. Intuitive, creative and new thoughts begin to bubble in then they flow more so. Much more…
Basis for Being a Medical Intuitive & Sending Focused Corrective Energies = With a mind that is being mastered and directed by its owner it can be trained to enter different assigned dimensions for a particular purpose. One is the ability to remotely scan an imaginary image of a person – given name, age, gender, location – and detect what is not working correctly and where it is. This is precise and everyone experiences this.
The mind is an incredible place. Mastery is a lifelong pursuit with Life Mastery as a great side effect.
Choose a practice ~ Learn it ~ Practice it ~ And witness life unfolding in much grace and ease.
Lamar Irwin is an electrical engineer, licensed spiritual coach, life empowerment coach and brain trainer. For more information, visit Curious Mind News blog at CuriousMindNews.com.
Published in Austin’s Natural Awakenings Magazine January 2017 Issue
View it online http://austinawakenings.com/magazine/ Page 10
I posted a new page under Services (the top header of this page) with my unique topics for empowering oneself, business, networking or groups of any kind. What makes these skills stand out are they work with your inner self as you are designed. Using applied sciences you will have skills to cause stillness, creativity, achievement and focus within your self and your life.
Everything is changeable and improvable with the right inner focus. That is my skill and honor for giving people a lift to make that change.
Learn during your lunchtime, a group meeting or a keynote function. You will receive clear messages, expansive concepts, tie them into personal and business benefits and provide ways for new empowerment skills to be used right away.
From Empower Hours to short class to custom presentation to teams to full experiential classes.
Full description is on the Services -> Innovative Topics to Empower Individuals, Employees & Volunteers
Empowering Engineer to Engineer Series:
I am an engineer and can present empowerment skills in that manner to the unique mind of an engineer.
How These Empowerment Training, Skills & Services Work and Surprise Benefits for the Business that Uses Them
Physiological Stress Management, On Cue
Patient Empowerment in the Modern Treatment
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Top 10 List for Crafting Empowering Goals
Shift into Your Empowered Feeling State
Customized Topics are available.
From one hour presentations to short classes and to longer trainings this material continuously trains even after the classes.
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An Opportunity to Directly Enhance Your Life through Your Consciousness
And directly change your abundance in any area of life.
I began doing 40 days of 15 minute intuitively-guided abundance meditations on January 17, 2017. The final one will be on February 25, 2017. These occur at 8am CST via teleconference. Then the better quality audio is uploaded to my site for my audio (meditations, talks, podcasts, contemplations) at www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology
Listen to them daily from whenever you start. It is best to hold yourself accountable to be persistent and do day 1 through day 40 in 40 days not missing a single day. If you do then it is best to restart at day 1. This is a gentle lesson to develop an ability to trust yourself that you will do what you say to yourself that you will do. “Be impeccable with your word.” The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.
The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price ~ an excerpt from the beginning of the book
Read it on a Kindle. I like using mine.
“Abundance in this book is defined as an all-sufficiency of supply, a full measure of infinite good. In the invisible, it’s the creative energy of God, also called Substance. In the visible world, it’s that energy made manifest as money and every other good thing required for a free and harmonious life in this third-dimensional world.”
“There are certain principles of abundance, specific fundamentals for Truth, which, when realized, will free an individual from lack and limitation. Since there are spiritual precepts, a program for prosperity based on Truth can’t be implemented by those with greed, avarice, or selfishness in consciousness.”
“… You must think of money and any other material desire or possession simply as an outer symbol of the inner supply. [sic] The Idea is an all-sufficiency of supply to meet every need with a Divine surplus in your individual life. [sic] But the money isn’t the supply. Rather, it’s your consciousness of God as your abundance that constitutes your supply.”
Contact me for the Companion Prosperity Journal.
Donations for these meditations are welcome. I want to get this to more people. And I’m considering doing another series when this one is done. Donations will help. Thanks
Today, I began day 1 of 40 days of 15 minute meditations based on this classic abundance program. This is a way to find freedom and abundance from completely different concepts about where abundance comes from. Abundance in all areas of life, love, relationships. success, dollars, material possessions and more.
This is part of a 6-week empowerment class that a team of 4, including me, began January 16, 2017: Say YES To Your Heart’s Desire in 2017 – Facebook Page. This class will break into 3 Groups to help people focus on their goal area outside of class: Career/Business Action Team, Calling In The One Relationships, and Health and Well-Being. If you are in the Austin area contact me to join us.
If you want to simply listen to each day’s meditations they will be posted on www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. If you want the dial-in information to listen by phone contact me through this page.
There is a companion Prosperity Journal. If you want to participate at that level contact me through this page and indicate so.
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“Live long and prosper.” Spock
“If you want to know what you have been thinking then take stock of what, who, etc is around you in your life.”
One of Frank Natale’s to-the-point sayings.
Great thoughts yield a great life
Clear thoughts produce clear life results. Confusion does otherwise.
Deliberate thoughts yield a life of one’s choosing and loving
Reality is the Result of a process begun by the thoughts a person is choosing to imagine, feel and focus on in their mind and heart. It gestates in the Creative Mind where the unseen Creative Forces begin arranging for it. It is nurtured through one’s regular relaxed imaginative focus upon their life as they see it, as if it is already done.
If you are new to these empowering concepts or if you are an old hat at it… Study this previous paragraph and implement it. Practice it regularly and watch how new opportunities and ideas show up, how you synchronistically run into the right person or overhear the right conversation and other opportunities come to you. You simply begin to magnetize what is needed to accomplish what you are imagining into your sphere of life. Many other events occur in your life and in your mind and heart that are different signs. This is simply working with the Creative Mind as it is always providing you what your life choices have brought you to. Each of those choices made in your mind hopefully with great input from the heart-mind.
What are your thoughts when it comes to:
Consider a different perspective on emotions. They can be seen as e-motions = energies in motion. The e-motions you feel are your programmed inner interpretation of how the energies feel that are running throughout your body system and all around you. You can sense that in your head, your chest or other locations by quieting yourself and focusing your attention in the different areas within.
If anything, take some personal care time, grab a pen and pad, find a comfy place, play some music that brings you peace and focus. Then lose yourself in an hour of daydreaming, contemplating and expanding the thought box in which your life is being lived.
Contemplate what you desire in life from today to next month to the end of the year and bigger longer-term goals. Write them down. Play with them until they feel good; i.e. they are stirring up good energies within you that you interpret as feeling good.
Yes, it is a tedious process in what was just written. To parse and discern one’s thoughts, emotions and inner workings is to gain more and more dominion over your inner self…thus your experiences of life.
Ready to Integrate Some Change?
I enjoy helping people expand beyond what they ever conceived of doing. Or for the person who has held in a quiet dream or desire. Or for the professional seeking the next level up.
The resulting combination of the diversity of systems I have learned, practiced, licensed, etc to unleash the human potential studies assist through focusing on the thoughts, emotions, energies, sensations, life circumstances.
In this process the beginning steps will become clear. This is your journey so all of my focus is how to fine tune you like tuning an instrument. And to bring answers from within your own self to your life questions.
Always and Proactively on my side beginning in every cell, chromosone, thought, feeling and inner guidance.
I find that when I am following these my life goes smoother, opportunities are more abundant and I am happier. Yet the normality of life sometimes settles in and I may start believing those old limitations, small self concepts and self-defeating thinking.
2 EZ Action Steps to Amp Up Your Game in Life
This haze of normality that descends upon us when we get caught up in the stories of our life can hypnotize us into forgetting that ultimately we have free will and choice in life.
These 2 actions will change your day. You have set your thoughts on an uplifting pattern that will lead your day. Plus your mind will expand contemplating an expansive idea.
(*) Ideas to contemplate:
What will my life be like when I tune into the natural state of abundance?
How much love can I embrace and emanate today?
If it applies: How can I achieve my job goals with greater ease?
I wonder what i can change to decrease the stress and struggle in (an area of life).
How can I increase the ease in grace?
There are magazines and books available that have expansive ideas in them.
Some I use: Primarily I read the Science of Mind magazine, www.scienceofmind.com. It has daily guides. I have a different digital magazine emailed to me. Or I choose from books like the Science of Mind or Living the Science of Mind, Ernest Holmes. Another favorite is The Complete Works of Florence Scovel Shinn.
Part 2 of blogpost: Synchronicity Makes Life Happen with Ease and Grace
I board the plane to continue my journey back to Austin. I am happy that I have extended legroom for my tall frame and that no one is in the middle seat between me and another man. This man is engaged in either his phone or his Unix book, alternating between the two.
I have a little bit of the sniffles (I think it is just sinus adjustments to the elevation and to the cold and hot I experienced while in Colorado). And I have lots of energy and do not want to sleep on the plane. Thus I decide to write the blogpost: Synchronicity Makes Life Happen with Ease and Grace using my phone.
After we take off I did some deep breathing and leaned forward stretching then moving into a straight up position where I exhaled…right on the back of the lady’s head in front of me. Oops. I apologized then…
I struck up a conversation with Brittany, as I later learned her name. She has lived her whole life in Colorado and moved to Austin three years ago when her husband got a good job here. She sincerely misses family, all of whom live in Colorado. As we talk we realize we have similar situations in life such as our moms struggled with an illness for around two decades before passing on. She is wrestling with understanding what happened to her mom. There was detectable grief within her. I was able to share some of the gifts I received in that difficult childhood-into-adulthood situation, as I experienced it. This got her thinking a tad differently.
She mentioned she had been contemplating what mindfulness means.
We eventually talked about using visualization to change life and doing things to heal our self from within concerning the pains and losses of life. She has never heard any of these concepts. We talk while she contorts her body to turn around sideways to face me from the seat directly in front me. I realize there is an empty seat across the aisle from her. Her body can be more relaxed now as I move into that seat to talk.
We share a lot and she asks me questions; all of which I am happy to answer.
As we are talking I notice the lady sitting in the seat directly in front of Brittany keeps shaking her head affirming what she was hearing us discuss. I am discussing the idea that we can go within, into our Inner Power Center, to heal our life when this other lady turned around to confirm that she, too, does healing work. Go figure! Really? Two of us on the plane do this sort of work (in different ways) that is not so understood by normal society?
Synchronicities are piling up 🙂
Janet ‘happens’ to be sitting in that seat when her assigned seat is in the back of the plane; had to have happened for us to meet. Do you begin to see how the Universe operates?
She is in Giddings, Texas, of all places, doing healing work in a smaller conservative Texas town. Cool! She is returning from a conference learning the association between emotions and hormones and how to facilitate someone’s healing at that level. This is a subject I am interested in also. She and I exchange info, of course.
While I am talking to Brittany and Janet I notice that the man who is by the window where my assigned seat is on the aisle begins to look at me and starts smiling. I do not know if he is hearing me or if something else triggered his opening to me. It could be the incredible openness, strong and clear energy within me and things I am exhibiting because of the conference which was enlightening, empowering, healing…and I got to see one friend from more than 25 years ago and another friend who had moved from Austin to Boulder. i.e. I am feeling great and incredibly aligned with my inner self, my mission and vision I am bringing forth.
Or maybe there’s a fly on my nose he is smiling at 🙂
I finished my conversations with Brittany and Janet as we flew closer to Austin. I moved back to my assigned seat sensing the energies of our communications was waning; it had been an hour+. As I sat down Pedram starts talking with me.
Now, this is a totally different interaction. My inner electrical engineer gets to come out to play with him…and my creative mind gets sparked.
He has a doctorate and is a senior principal of something I have never heard of. He tells me about two projects he is working on. This man is highly intelligent. One project is the IOT, the new “Internet of Things”; wow, we have some HUGE innovations coming forth into our lives. And he is on a project between two High Tech Titans (corporations) working with software and customized chips that will bring healing directly to the cells that require healing.
Way too awesome and my creative mind gets sparked and brings me new ideas to share with him which makes him look at me strangely lol. I am used to it by now.
I shared these spontaneous new ideas that came to me while he was talking. He looked at me strangely until I said I am an electrical engineer and have traveled the world living and working. And we continued a great conversation.
I shared that we have another intelligence center, the intuitive/creative mind, from which we can deliberately receive new and genius ideas. I mention how we can send healing energy to others that is unseen. As he contorts his mind wondering whether or not I am sane I continue. I mention that there must be a way to send the software program as an atom through the custom processor into the person who needs healing without a physical interface. I am going way beyond what he is used to hearing.
I continue sharing that just like the Law of Gravity and other laws that Sir Isaac Newton is credited with discovering how the physical aspect of life works…there are laws and principles of the unseen creative force that we can access to shape our life and to receive intuitive thoughts and ideas on cue; includes the Law of Attraction, Law of Mental Equivalents, Principle of ONEness, Principle of Reciprocity and much more. They are repeatable and usable just like the laws and principles that govern the physical realm of life.
I get his business card as we agree we want to go out and meet. I just texted him to meet.
Life Proactively Supports Us
How is it that I am ‘accidentally’ sitting next to 3 people on a plane, that is not full in the front of the cabin, who have common interests?
Or is this a synchronous event where we are sitting together because there are unanswered questions, desires and/or curiosities within the four of us that are getting answered by us meeting and talking?
Makes me go hmm and want to learn more. I will post more about the conference and synchronicities.
In-joy, Enliven and Inspire,
Lake Evergreen in the mountain town of Evergreen, Colorado where I lived many many moons ago.
I’m returning from a fantastically renewing trip to Boulder and Denver, Colorado. At Union Station in Denver I get on the train to Denver International Airport.
Sitting across from me was a young woman who asked if the train went further after it got to the airport. I said I don’t know since this is my first time, too. Another passenger answered her: no.
So, being the type of person who likes to meet new people I asked her where she was flying to? She answered Austin. To which,I said oh, me too. Same flight.
I asked her what she did and she shared she had quit her job and had been traveling for two months to visit different brothers and attend two of their weddings. She studied Sales and Marketing at University of Texas. I joked that I got my engineering degree from Texas A&M University. We laughed at the fun school rivalry.
[Flight just took off as I’m writing this blogpost. WordPress on my phone in airplane mode. Cool :-)]
I asked her if she did consulting work as I NEED someone to help focus my marketing efforts. I continued that as a degreed electrical engineer I give people too much detail when I am offering my services instead of doing it as a marketer that would work much better.
She asked what I do. I am an advanced visualization instructor, pain management specialist, mental focus and stress management trainer and more. I said that I plan to crack the corporate market and teach them how to achieve and work using all of their brain skills instead of just typical logical left-brain approaches. And train them on the most powerful stress management technique that millions are using around the world. And more.
She laughed and said her and her brother had just talked this last weekend about visualization and how to use the brain and mind to create the life we want. They were wondering how that works.
And now she and I meet. We’ve exchanged info and we’ll meet in a few days.
When you are in a good place, heart centered and in joy… synchronicities happen naturally. This is the modus operandi of doing life from within yourself thus tapping into that place where Life supports you with ease and grace and you are drawn to the right people.
Oh, and this is just the synchronicity that happened on that train. I’m working on the blogpost for the miraculous synchronicities that then happened on the plane… let’s fly in life. It’s possible.
In-joy, Enliven and Inspire,
You have a friendship, a working relationship, a bromance or a romance with someone and suddenly you feel a little less heart from him or her. Slowly or quickly that person closes off to you. You do not understand or know what happened. And most people do not ask difficult questions to clarify things and many people will not tell the truth in difficult conversations. That seems to be the societal norm.
What happens between people in all kinds of relationships that slowly separates them? Of course there could be other specific reasons for that. I want to cover a phenomenon that some people may not be aware of yet. An impact on relationships that stems from the societal norm of being nice or the fear of being authentic. Maybe it is the lack of trained skills to develop and deepen relationships.
Foundation for this approach to communication
Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. More details on this at this blogpost
We create these blocks that can be called ‘withholds’ between people and we do not realize the impact on our closeness.
Every time you judge someone for something you lay a brick between you and them.
Each time you do not clarify a misunderstanding with someone you lay more bricks between you and them.
When you hear something contrary about someone and spread that to others you lay more bricks in a wall of separation.
When you say something about them behind their back you continue building a wall of separation.
You are putting up a brick in an eventual wall of separation if you keep judging that person without communicating with them.
This wall within you then distorts any perspective on that person. It affects your ability to see him or her accurately. The wall begins to fully separate as all past clarity gets obfuscated and covered up.
Then consider the fact that inter-human communication is at least 90% nonverbal and we realize that person has nonverbally picked up on our thoughts that separate us, also.
And we wonder why we have a hard time connecting with people in general. Our perspectives, walls and other foibles distort the clarity of who they are within our mind and who we are in their mind.
Any brick we do not reexamine to see if it can be dissolved will maintain separation.
Do yourself a favor – seek clarity – because there is an additional truth about these thoughts of separation. They exist within your mind and each of them is a block holding you from your own good. Even if the person is to move out of your life it is best done clean. Heal then do conscious separation.
Why am I writing more about interrelation communication?
It is easy to say you want to be more spiritual or be a better person. In the beginning good and new things are happening as your heart and mind open up. As you deepen that way of being in life you will have some periods where things are rocky, the shadow journey that brings such great rewards for those courageous enough to proceed through it. Find those people who will be empowered and empowering throughout life or the lifetime of a project.
Ideas for practicing this
Take a breath and relax. Hold the desire to be clear with this person in your heart. Ask the person if you could talk privately.
When you do meet: Preferably sit across from each other knees to knees almost touching. No barriers. If it’s true for you, then say how difficult it is to ask this or say this. Then ask it in a non-accusatory way; be curious with it.
And listen with your ears, brain and heart. Respond from clear thinking not defenses.
When you hear something derogatory about someone, do you and them a favor. Do this especially if this information conflicts with your previous experiences with that person. Take a breath and say something like hey, I heard something about you that I wanted to tell you (or to ask you about).
Some of us have so many breaks within us including me. This was a big relief and I am grateful that I learned authentic life skills like these in my twenties. I have been practicing as much as I could as I find people or rarely groups who resonate with this level of authenticity and are willing to do it. This authentic approach sometimes does not work for some people.
My training with The Natale Institute has kept me away from gossip which means ultimately you become the subject of gossip. Some people have to throw shade at others. Watch this truth: If you are listening to someone gossip then you can rest assured that the person who was talking gossip about someone else to you will now turn and gossip about you to that someone else. It is not up to you. It is that person’s behavior. Make a choice as to what you want to be around.
[Watch for a future post about the intent and impact of gossiping.]
©2016 by Lamar Irwin, Mind Technology
As Frank Natale, The Natale Institute, defined it: Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. This can be expanded to include ‘all the people’ involved.
Qualities of Environment and People
Safe environment with some absolute rules:
Benefits to teams and groups of people and individuals
Create an avenue for self expression.
Create an atmosphere of trust.
Then foster deep inner creativity which I also train enhancing it and accessing creativity on cue.
You can potentially create an environment that fosters an effective team or group of people or a humanity project. Teams who want to be a self expressive collective force to reckon with would benefit.
A commitment to Unity with another person. They have let go of the intent to separate.
Effective Speaking and Listening
The person speaking uses ‘I’ statements owning the impact with him or her of what was said or some event happened to the other person
The person listening is fully present feeling and hearing what is being communicated verbally and nonverbally.
[I will add to this post with more detail as I write other topics from this concept.]
This is sort of a post to define Effective Communication. I will refer to this post as I introduce some guidelines and methods to practice this.
I offer these empowering classes that deal directly with this including in an experiential learning manner. I was well-trained by them and I apprenticed with Wilbert Alex. I now comprehend broader applied sciences to human consciousness, spiritual empowering approaches and the matrix of energies in which we exist and can thrive as much as we seek.
Who would benefit from this sort of training?
Teams that want to be tight with each other, trusting in and empowering each other. Could be emergency crews, boardrooms, business teams, nonprofit, spiritual, medical teams, educational teams and others.
It is deeply empowering for those spiritual communities who seek to build a tight bond and trust amongst members.
Normally I say Copyright ©2016 by Lamar Irwin, Mind Technology which applies to this blog and contents. If this is legally Frank Natale’s © then let’s make it so. (he is deceased so I don’t know)