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Idea: What do you do when something in life is not to your liking?

Life works well sometimes and sometimes…well, it doesn’t seem that way.joy-snoopy

As humans we are living and breathing the experiences of life. In one moment we can feel so joyful and one event, or even one wrong thought, later we can feel misery. It can be neutral or our feelings can cycle some in the day from happy to rejecting yourself to sadness to feeling successful to joy… It is not that every person has any kind of emotional disorder. It is life especially at times when we are pushing our limits.

One teacher said if you live life in neutral and seek life to always be peace and calm without moments of life being disruptive then you have flatlined.

Michael Beckwith talked about going out of this life in pristine condition or a little bruised, cuts, pains, scratches from having stretched your limits. I am in the latter category with periods of sedentary personal movement.

Life can be seen as a journey of bringing more of our Inner Light into our external life. This involves some journeys of healing through our shadow journey. Oftentimes people stop here because it looks frightening. I am fortunate to have been pushed and guided to do this work. I still resist yet I know the other side will be much more expansive and freeing. So I end up taking a deep breath in while taking the first step to a new me and an expanded life.

a-inner-lightAnd remember that is where you are along your life’s journey. Don’t let yourself get stuck in this phase. Respect it. Hire a guide like me 🙂 Learn from it and reveal more Light into your life.

Once we learn to direct our inner self and utilize and manage our inner reactions, feelings and thoughts then we can become less reactive to all the different stimuli and events in life. With practice we begin to direct our inner resources to cause deliberate changes in life externally and within ourselves.

Life became more fun once I began to find out how to use the inner tools that are inherent within everyone. We can design, create and empower a chosen inner reality that develops into our external experiences we call life.

Whatever is not going the way you want in life, take a few moments and relax your body, your mind, your energy. Are you ready to let this ‘problem’ go? When you feel and hear ‘YES’ then take that full cleansing breath of life in deeply. Hold it at the top and internally choose to Let this go – all thoughts, energies, concerns, judgments and whatever else about it that darkens your Light.

Pause and feel the new air and space to create something new. Immerse yourself for a few moments into your favorite vacation spot ever. This helps to relax.

Create your life. Now imagine what you want it to be instead. Imagine, visualize, sense, hear, taste, touch, smell and feel it changing. Play in this new reality feeling it as if it is true. Do this regularly and make it feel familiar. Your life will start taking you there to follow your true reality which is

Breathe peace into it. Keep your focus on this chosen reality instead of the way it appears. And allow it to change gently and gracefully.

And do what you can to remain in a state of joy and gratitude.

This is a simple way to begin to receive what you want in life with ease and grace instead of stress and uncertainty.

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Our ego keeps us stuck & kills countless expansive experiences in life…

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Accept a hand up to the next level.

Expansive ideas and opportunities are placed in front of you

Something that rouses an inner spark that has been quiet for too long

You feel a Pull from within yourself

What happens next within you?

Which person do you see yourself as?
   Which person do you see yourself as?

Do you summon the Faith Of Life to Jump into an expansive self?

or

Do you begin to question and analyze it?

    Find reasons not to?

        Slowly pick the life right out of it?

There is this great little book that helps you start the flow of abundance in life, The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price. It is a pocketbook full of punch. There are 10 days of mind-expanding concepts and life expanding daily affirmations that you do 4 times over to grow into and embrace the change.

Day 8: “My consciousness of the Spirit within me as my unlimited Source is the Divine Power to restore the years the locusts have eaten {continued}”

Your ego sometimes acts like a swarm of locusts that creates, imagines and makes up whatever fears are needed to prevent you from considering any kind of change. This analyzing and fear feed off the new energy that comes with this new idea until it is devoid of life-giving energy.

The untamed ego’s job is to stop you from making a change or from taking any step forward. It likes life exactly as it is. This includes the highs, lows and in between; the pains, problems, limited pleasures, long-forgotten dreams and more. Until you tame the ego its job is to shut down change. The older you get the more this likely applies.

Slowly letting thoughts turn into concrete in the mind while wondering why the gusto of life is gone.

The ego knows how to respond and manage status quo in each area of life whether effective or not. People tend to like thinking they know what they are doing in all situations because the unknown is one of the greatest fears for most people. People will do anything to avoid feeling as if they do not immediately have the answer. The ego’s life-breath is the familiarity of what is; what a person has, his pains and her limits are just the way life is; never to be challenged.

The logical mind is like a massive life library of all experiences, lessons, changes, events in life, learned behaviors, etc. You learned the software to run your mind, heart, body and life from the significant adults in your youth. It only knows how to do something it has already done or do it from reading or YouTubing how someone else does it. It does not have new thoughts. It receives, learns and stores other people’s thoughts and ways to live life.

The logical mind has never heard a new thought that it does not at first seek to reject
Until it is tamed.

The creative mind is like a full-on connection to the vast and infinite creativity that makes life, sustains life and constantly expands this universe. Your consciousness is designed to expand as far as your inner vision and drive offer for you to stretch in this lifetime. These are the new thoughts that are caught by your brain like a radio tuner receives the matching station. This is accessible and can be accessed on cue with practice of some guided internal focus methods.

We are all designed to access the creative/intuitive/expansive mind equally as we all currently access the logical, repeating functions, physically oriented mind. The ego is the awareness the emanates from this logical mind.

But what about that inner pull to go for an expansive experience?

This is likely your intuitive guidance for you to take a single step or to jump right in. We are designed with multiple streams of thoughts available. These include logical, intuitive, heart, soul and more; each with its own perspective on the situation. This inner pull derives from your inner knowing, the heart’s attraction to that stream of energy of life force that will be flowing through the veins, so to speak. The thrill of feeling exhilarating energy; it may have been a while.

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Logical Mind repeats life. Intuitive Mind exhilarates life.

You are at a life choice point

Will you stay with the familiar or maybe it is time to step outside the lines of life, as they are.

[Note: Read future posts – You can consider the benefits of the ego and logical mind. There is always benefit. We are designed this way for a reason.]

Motivation: Read this poem The Comfort Zone

When was the last time you walked outside the lines of life to summon those great-feeling life-giving forces that stimulate new ideas and fresh opportunities.

Sometimes it is prudent to hold back and stay where you are.

You learn about yourself from practice…as long as you push to take a chance once in a while to be more expansive and experience more dimensions within yourself. However, as I have been fortunate enough to have had a couple of teachers I consider Masters, Native American Chiefs, Shamans, powerful catalysts for strong change I’ve achieved in my life. And I have made bad choices; each one stings. Through that contrast in life you get better; sharpen the focus of what brings you joy instead of talking about the pains; passion instead of being low; forward movement instead of fear; expansion over limited status quo.

Feeling more expansive within yourself is such a magnificently rewarding sensation.

Achievement trumps failure though a failures always contain gems as learning lessons about life and yourself. Oprah’s Master Class on OWN channel has successful people talk about the journey from who they used to be to who they are now. Each one says they learned the greatest lessons from their mistakes. Abraham, a current day guide and teacher, says the contrast in life is what helps us to sharpen our rocket of desire for what we do want. I add: And it brings the energy for motivation and inspiration.

Usually that initial excitement is the one to follow. It was detected before our status quo defense system gets engaged.

Read this about the truth of your inner Light that seeks expression

Remind yourself:

“Keep doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results is to be insane.”

Nearly every person who has “made it”, as we judge it, has stood right in that doorway to a higher sense of self-expression. What to do? You are facing your fears and choosing to engage other more connected thoughts from the heart. Take that first frightening step. Then you have pushed through the invisible wall that limits life.

What is it that calls from within you for an expansive experience?

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Take the first step into that scary idea.

One of my first steps into the unknown

With my electrical engineering degree I was fortunate enough to graduate in a great economy and had twenty+ job offers. I embraced what I understand to be a major trait of us Sagittarius folks. I went for the adventure that had been squashed inside of me my entire life in a family that didn’t travel more than a few hundred miles by car. This deep impulse moved me to accept the offer to work for a French company anywhere in the world except North America. My soul purred; perfect. I lived in the Far East. Loved it, loved it, loved almost every single aspect of it. From a hometown of 150 people to traveling, working in and living in other countries.

My adventurous nature can be strong. It broadened my horizons in the most expansive way beyond anything I ever could have imagined having grown up in a small Texas farm town; went to school in the big town of 1500.

There is such expansiveness, great, fabulous, life-giving, heart embracing, character building, storytelling fodder and so much more to do something that is so far beyond your fears and limits. The further outside of your life’s current box the most benefit.

I had my fears and now I have the strength from having pushed through many of them plus the countless rewards of real moments with people from many cultures.

May we all attract to us the opportunities for self expansion to live as who we are designed to be. And then push through. Then live in a much expanded life box… until it is time to do it again.

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Become Your Egg-sellent Self. Break open the shell limiting your good…

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Build Your Strength for an Expansive Life

Be a Supportive Environment

You don’t crack open a shell of an egg that you want to become a chick. The developing chick has to build its strength by standing and pecking its way out of its current life box. The nest and hen keep it warm, at the perfect temperature for Life to grow and emerge.

Breathe Life into Your Inner Strength

We know what happens if you crack it open way too soon. Breakfast. And if you crack it open just before its ready it may not have the strength it needs to thrive as a unique expression of Life.

Break Open Your Own Shell in Life

For Yourself,,,

All of us go through growth phases, transformative experiences and growing pains. What matters is we keep stoking our Inner Light to be at the right temperate to grow and be the fuel for it. Foster the right environment to flourish from the passion of the vision within you.

Affirm: I am enough to grow into my best life

And for others

Keep your friends and family warm in their times of growing and support them in developing that inner strength to become the potential that resides within them. See that for them and hold the conscious space that encourages Life to grow and emerge.

Affirm: I spread open the wings of my heart to support others

And nurture friends who do that for you. Imagine having a nest of friends supporting each other to grow and emerge into their best lives sharing the fun and aggravation of growing into who they came to be in this life and the purpose they came to do.

Hmm… Maybe life is just a continuous growing phase and we have the throttle.

Craft Your Statement of BEing

Personal Energy, Alignment, Clearing and Expansion

In-Joy, En-Lighten, In-Spire

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Austin-Meetup Series: From Deliberate Thought into Your Life

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Each class is good on its own but of course all 4 weave together more skills to use your personal power.

Week 1 - Lay the Foundation for specific and chosen change Week 2 - Advanced visualization skills for achieving Week 3 - A Spiritual approach of weaving a tapestry of life together Week 4 - Set Yourself Up for Success, Q&A
Week 1 – Lay the Foundation for specific and chosen change
Week 2 – Advanced visualization skills for achieving
Week 3 – A Spiritual approach of weaving a tapestry of life together
Week 4 – Set Yourself Up for Success, Q&A

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Why put up with it? When you can always change! 4 Steps + a discount

The tragedy of life is...Remember: It is a simple process to make changes in life.

You are designed with everything it takes.

This concept may be new to some people and this mind/heart/life technology for change has been around for eons usually under the radar of normality. It has evolved and become more directly accessible to each person thanks to some powerful and recent scientific validation. It is one of those things that when someone opens themselves deeply to wanting change, that is when life brings to them ways to make change. That is how I found this stuff while in college.

It is unfortunate that most people do not know that there is technology within us that we can directly access to cause change within ourself, in our life and the world. ALL that is required is accessible from within each person’s being.

Why do so many people accept ‘less than’ in life when nearly anything is solvable, heal-able, doable, overcome-able? Actually anything in life is changeable depends on what is changed. Quite often the best answers are found from a different perspective . I think the answer is mostly that it is not well known in society.

Napoleon Hill is a well-known twentieth century student of the men who built great industries in the first part of the 1900’s. He wrote one the alltime must reads for anyone who wants to improve themselves. This is so much more than money. Think and Grow Rich every time you . He says that 98% of people know what they need to do yet do not do it.

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People just need to find the right person who knows how to guide them. What I’m happy about that my life has been led in becoming a Resource for Human Potential is the breadth and depth that I offer; science-based, spiritual, energies, emotional, behavioral. I am fortunate to have had this inner passion of my soul having been in this field as a side to working as an engineer. I first started learning inner empowerment as a freshman at Lamar University; been some years 🙂

Many people are happy where they are in life. That is important to reach that point where we are at ease with our life, good and imperfect. It’s just that when I hear people complain about something in life I often will intuitively hear how to help or something about it. It is my field at this point in life but I do not interject and tell people, usually.

Everyone can always be better, do better and have better in life. For a few minutes we can alter our experiences of life and become adept at doing so. Finding peace is usually the go to place when someone begins. Peace is a place to just be, to rejuvenate, relax, enjoy. Yoda might say: Just BE, no DO.

4 steps to change from within; the permanent type of change. Use deliberate thinking to achieve deliberate results in life.

#1

 

Identify where you want to do in life. Who do you desire to be? What do desire to have? Consider different areas of life like financial, spiritual, social, physical, career, emotional, mental, relationships.

 

#2

 

Ask yourself: What thoughts will I be having when I have this in life?

And what thoughts does someone who already is this person have?

Identify your self-defeating thoughts and beliefs.

 

#3

 

Pull the self-defeating thoughts as you pull weeds out of a flowerbed. Adopt the thoughts that match what you desire in life and who you desire to become. Plant them as seeds.

Write them on index cards. Read them frequently. Imagine being this person daily.

 

#4

 

Remind yourself that you choose how you feel.

Do your best to gently and continually shift yourself from an off-center state of mind and feeling into a state of being joyful and happy = the state to receive what you have told the Universe you

My expertise is the inner workings of the human mind, body, system. I can find the source of the inner resistance in a way that tells me how to guide you out of that dysfunction into your chosen function. We help you get clear on these 4 steps.

For those who want to go for it, we can then identify the energies, feelings, true desires and empower it by learning and using inner empowerment skills.

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I record a custom audio that focuses your mind, your e-motions (inner energies in motion), your energies all in the same direction of what you desire in life and who you desire to be in life. This is known through brain science, neuroscience and using some quantum physics to guide you regularly to reprogram your brain and neurons, real time. The neurons, their connections and neural densities hold the software operating system for our brains and are unique for the unique things we have, things we do, things we think, etc.

Lamar Irwin
Life Empowerment Engineer

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Align to God/Good: Let It Be ~ Beatles song

Sunday, August 5, 2016   1-2:30pm
Center for Spiritual Living, Central Texas

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Align to Your Good/God: Let IT Be Talk

Beatles Let It Be

“When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.”

Let It Be is your soul’s portal beyond the woes of yesteryears and the fears of future years. It is your place of peace, of solace, of causation and of being in and receiving unconditional love and guidance. There’s no defense to push against. There’s no judgement to condemn. There’s no stance except God’s stance as I AM a unique Living Presence of God standing forth on this planet known as (my name).

From there, Let IT Be.

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Note: This and next Sunday I am speaking at this Spiritual Center. I usually host a Spiritual Empowerment Circle on Sundays 1-2:30pm

Blogpost: Curious Mind News: Spiritually Awaken

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Meetup has my calendar for now: https://www.meetup.com/Align-to-Your-Good-thru-Spiritual-Science-Meditation/


Post Note: It was so fun to do. Singing Beatles songs and learning from the lyrics. I gave techniques on how to use it in life then we did a healing spiritual treatment.

Next Sunday – Come join us. Talk is ‘An Inner Revolution’ from Beatles ‘Revolution’.

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Client Found her Fountain of Youth from diagnoses, pains, meds and more

Your Fountain of Youth lies within... waiting to be discovered
Your Fountain of Youth lies within undiscovered…so far

Kay came to see me last April. She is someone I knew years ago and she found herself with multiple dire medical diagnoses, multiple pharmaceutical prescriptions, pain, stiffening, loss of her creativity she’s always had and more. The thing about Kay is she came willing to learn, willing to do something different and a strong desire to have her life back. Ingredients for success.

In the first session I do what I do, listening for what is going on within her. I also am sensing for the thoughts, feelings, energies that are underlying her, at this time in life. I am listening and sensing for those components within her that have taken her wellbeing offtrack from its natural state And am receiving ideas of how best to approach it. Some of these must be out of sync within her causing these problems because her natural state is health and wellbeing. That is true for all of us. If we do not have wellbeing then there is an internal blockage of some kind; all blockages can be removed and overcome.

Much more happened in that session and I recorded live a customized audio of a healing modality specific for her in the session. These will alter the thoughts, feelings and energies in her body continuously aligning them to wellbeing. I emailed it and she listens to this daily.

In later sessions she received two other customized audio MP3 files that approach healing from different perspectives.

These custom recordings work within her, in the inner workings and systems that operate a human being. It is altering these inner energies that run her life from within her. It is reprogramming the neurons in the brain and heart to have what she wants. It also calms and focuses her mind and energies. It continues to foster the healing from within her. And it subtly trains her that she can have a lot of control over her body workings and life. She can use those skills for the rest of her life.

Maybe halfway through the process, she came in for her session and she could not stop giggling. She had released enough old to let the good bubbles of giggles to come up in her life. That is a great sign of progress and continues more than a month later.

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Ponce de Leon’s Fountain of Youth

There is a lot more to the story and here is a list she gave me in June titled “Points of Improvement, Kay Roberts”

  • Clear thinking again
  • Lower back pain is gone
  • Inflammation has retreated/subsided
  • Sleeping better, longer periods, well rested. She’s not tired while driving to work an hour each way
  • Coworkers and friends are noticing the change and asking her what she’s doing
  • Taking 2/3 less medications than before
  • Creativity has returned in various forms: quilting, sewing, guitar playing, non-profit stuff, others
  • Skin is clearing up from Lupus lesions
  • Skin is thickening
  • Can do pilates/yoga without pain or discomfort
  • Can stand long periods of time again
  • Purposeful thinking
  • Losing weight
  • Can see and talk to her guides again
  • Can see auras again
  • Built protection from unwanted ‘visitors’. (She has natural ability to be a medium although it’s not her profession. We designed inner controls so their visits were under her control instead of the bombardment she used to have.)
  • She feels the presence of her dad again, who has passed over
  • Her positive attitude is back and is being felt by others
  • Becoming a better partner to her husband
  • More caring, loving, compassionate

She is in her mid-fifties. She has done this for herself. I am the teacher guide in this.

The reason she is having great success is why I wrote above: The thing about Kay is she came willing to learn, willing to do something different and a strong desire to have her life back. Ingredients for success.

These results and more are possible in my role as the teacher guide since I have studied, practiced, apprenticed for decades in learning how to work with thoughts, e-motions, behaviors, inner senses, visualization for change, healing, energies, and more. Everything in our life begins as some energy within us.

That energy can be directly altered which then starts letting the inherent power of the human body heal itself to be used just for that. My job is to listen for how to align your thoughts, e-motions, behaviors, etc as listed above. Then I provide skills for you to change that for yourself. These skills are usable throughout your life.

As I work with those people who want to get their lives back from the existence level they find themselves in, I always see a glimmer of Light in their eyes and feel a reborn sense of possibility in their heart.

That is an infinite reward from the Presence of Life I get to witness 🙂

Lamar

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Overcome Fear to Live Your Best Life

Managing Fear

Take a Leap of Faith
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Please be clear. This post is a post to myself. When I put things ‘out there’ I tend to hold myself more accountable to living this way than I may be when I keep it to myself. Understood? And, just maybe, this will assist you 😉

In yesterday’s post – Life Difficulties: An Empowering Perspective – I shared realizations, sparked by Michael Beckwith, that have helped in shifting my mind from perceiving difficulties into more forward-positive ways of perceiving events. This is another piece of the puzzle.

Everyone has an inkling inside themselves as to who they are to be in this life. AND everyone has that logical mind that only knows to project its fears into your future. I teach and coach about the two brain modes we are all born with. Each has their duties and, when properly trained, each can be utilized for its greatest benefits. I believe it is always best to find the benefits of things from the perspective that if it exists there must be a positive viewpoint for it.

Simple Overview of Brain Functions

The left brain hemisphere, mostly,  contains a logical database of everything that has been learned in this life through school, others and direct life experiences. This is the pathway for your Logical Thought Channel and is the connection to this world of form through your five physical senses.

The right brain hemisphere, mostly, is the creative connection to life. It is the state of mind where you dream, sleep, meditate, vision and other endeavors that are not limited to this current physical experience of life. It is a place where time and space have no meaning. This is the pathway for your Intuitive Thought Channel.

The Logical Thought Channel only knows what it already knows. The  Intuitive Thought Channel has access to anything and everything that is possible to know. It is connected to the Source, the God, the Quantum Intelligence, whatever label you prefer.

Your logic has never heard a creative thought that it, at first, did not resist. It always has to be trained to accept new thoughts and ideas. This is just the nature of the beast.

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When you hear that steady quiet voice of knowing from your intuitive thought channel telling you ‘it’s time for a change’, you are supposed to act on it. It continues by whispering ‘You’re here to do more. You are to _____’.

You will inevitably hear thoughts from your logical mind (also known as your ego) that will likely be all about fear, lack and limitation.

The more you have validated your fear thoughts the more you will hear the ego’s fears. They have been trained to be relevant to you.

Here is a suggestion:

You will feel afraid. Say to yourself ‘I’m doing it anyway’.
You will hear ‘I’m afraid to try something new’. Say to yourself ‘I’m doing it anyway’.
You hear ‘I’m afraid to fail’. Say with authority ‘I’m doing it anyway’.
The ego says ‘I’m afraid of what people may say about me’.  Tell it ‘shh, I’m doing it anyway’.

Then you may have friends and family share their opinions that represent what your ego is saying. They are doing you a favor. It is like your ego is giving you a chance to stand up for yourself by validating your intuition. Tell them tactfully: I hear what you’re saying. I have had those thoughts. And this is something that I am compelled to do. I could use your support as I challenge myself to grow. This works to say to your ego, also.

F-E-A-R = False Evidence Appearing Real

All of this fear is the logical brain projecting its uncertainty into your future. You are in charge. Listen to it. Say ‘thank you but I’m doing it anyway. It is time to make a life change and I am committed to doing it. Ego, get on board’.

I first heard this through Dr. Wayne Dyer: E-G-O is Edging God Out. How accurate. The ego cannot handle the idea of someone knowing more than it knows and no matter what your definition of God is… It definitively knows more than the ego since It is limitless and the ego is only based on past knowledge.

What would you do if you had no fear?Summary

Cultivate your Inner Knowing so that you hear its guidance. Practice trusting your Intuition by acting on it and learning whether it is accurate or not. Remember, your Intuition is the thought process through which your Inner Knowing communicates to you. It is not concerned with the way things have always been. It is not encumbered by fears and limitations.

Gain Mastery over your Mind. Train it that you are in charge and you will select which thoughts you are going to pay attention to. Then keep your word with yourself. Tell your ego that you hear it and your are choosing to do it anyway.

Change your inner self, listen to your guidance and move your feet. Do what you came to this planet to do.

Consider this

In the complete timeline of humanity there will only be one you. Like snowflakes there are not two alike. You are a unique expression of the Divine with your own mission, your own talents and gifts and your own personality. How could you ever doubt that you are here to do your greatness, no matter how big or small you may judge it to be. This is why you came here. Learn how to work with your inner faculties. It makes accomplishing your purpose so much easier.

Living, Learning and Growing,

Lamar

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Life Catalyst | Coaching & Guidance Into Your Good

Expand Your Self to BE Who You Are
Expand Your Self to BE Who You Are

Coaching is the art of skillfully guiding someone into obtaining what he/she desires to have in life while activating the different human systems that allow his/her greatness and goodness to manifest through his/her life.

Being a Life Catalyst comes from having obtained substantial depths in life so that I can guide you into new horizons within yourself. I am fortunate to have trained, learned, apprenticed and licensed in four major personal growth systems plus many minor ones. This allows me to perceive you and your desires from the multiple layers of life that make up your personal matrix system leading you into a more expansive and permanent change for the better.

This means I perceive multiple layers of what makes up a human including mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and energetics. Working on five and more layers simultaneously provides for a much deeper experience of who you are and who you want to be.

People hire me to work with them on any aspect of life, tangible and intangible, whether it be:

  • a goal to achieve
  • learning mental focus
  • achieving stress management real time
  • taming your mind
  • reducing certain medications
  • effectively apply different silva method techniques
  • learn deep meditation in just 3 hours
  • enhance and deepen inner awareness
  • spiritual mind treatment
  • spiritual coaching
  • gain control of your inner conscious states
  • time regression
  • healing
  • adjust your personal energetics
  • show you how to open and cleanse your personal energy centers
  • more… what do you want?
I have a Core Principle -> Life Skill Framework for what I offer:

In all that I do with my clients I will take you as deep within yourself as you need and/or willing to go in order to achieve a long-lasting change in life. I am so blessed to have been guided to learn many systems for 28+ years so that I can be a Holistic Presence to assist others in Activating their Potential into their life.

If you have an interest, contact me and we will schedule a free 20 minute session to get you started and to have a power-packed sample. Then, if you choose to, we will continue the session for just $50, an extreme discount.
Sessions are available in person, on the phone and via skype (with or without a webcam)
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Even the Dalai Lama says ‘Sometimes I get angry, too’

This story by ABC News Nightline, Dan Harris, has so much information and value.

 

Brain changes while Tibetan Monks meditate
Brain changes while Tibetan Monks meditate

Finally: Science is Thawing the Resistance to Mainstream Meditation

I understand that most people need science to justify new things that have been serving humanity for thousands of years. Believe me. I am a degreed electrical engineer who relies on logic for much of life and had to do a lot of training to balance out my thought processes to include more intuitive and creative thoughts. But that logical mind runs amok at times and prevents us from doing things that are good for us, especially practices that have proven to help some communities for hundreds of years.

AND the good news is that the re-burgeoning field of neuroscience, now that they have the equipment to do so, is measuring the immediate and noticeable impact on human’s brains while meditating. I caught part of the story on ABC’s Nightline last night and it was great!

Click the link below to see several very interesting short stories about meditation

Each segment has a different person and focus. Very well done!

Link: Meditation finds more acceptance in the mainstream

(I am looking for a way to embed this video on this page since ABC News doesn’t make it easy like other streaming sites do. Until then you will be rewarded by clicking the link.)

There are four segments from 1 to 8 minutes each. Each one is great

 

meditation in business
Meditation is making its way into Business

Segment 1: Benefits of meditation

It is estimated that 20 million Americans are regular meditators.

Look at the graphs of brain activity while meditating which shows a marked increase in activity. Soon after someone starts meditating the parts of the brain associated with compassion and awareness grow while the parts associated with stress shrink. Plus researchers found that these new meditators were less mean to each other and began to use ‘we’ instead of ‘I’, a sign of letting go of our controlling egos. Great solution to emotional self management, a skill that is needed by all.

They also mention how meditation has made it into some of mainstream America; in Fortune 500 Corporations, elementary schools, musicians, etc.

 

Tibetan Monk hooked up for meditation study
Tibetan Monk hooked up for meditation study

Segment 2:  An interview with the Dalai Lama

Even the Dalai Lama says that he loses his temper once in a while. He continues: if someone does not ever lose their temper then he doesn’t believe them. And if that’s true then they must come from some other space (indicating that they are aliens).

YIPPEE! I SO AGREE. We are not designed to be completely positive. This is a misconception about the impact of meditation. This validates my concept in this blog post Gossip & Effective Communication under ‘Positive Facades’. We are not designed to never have difficulty. We are designed to be authentic. Life is designed as a place where we continue to learn how to be greater. And at times there are ‘downs’.

Segment 3: Overview of meditation

A 1 minute introduction to meditation

 

Real Happiness by Sharon Salzberg
Real Happiness by Sharon Salzberg

Segment 4 – Book: Real Happiness

This is a discussion with Sharon Salzberg, author of Real Happiness. She is one of the US’s foremest meditation teachers. Dan Harris asks her about her childhood and how she overcame that through meditation. Interesting.

Summary

To my students and coaching clients: please listen to this as motivation to do your daily practice. Remember how it felt in class and make a choice to better your lives for your sake and for your family.

To anyone else: Check this out. Consider it. We have to do something different in life when we want a different outcome.

Trust the science over your internal resistance. Once you begin to do just a few minutes daily in a few weeks you will start noticing a difference to how you view yourself, view life and have more self control and direction. I have taught meditation in Spiritual Centers and through a scientific method that just takes minutes to practice and I still find value and an increasing inner strength plus a stronger sense of self. However you learn it, use it.

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Gossip & Effective Communication

gossip
Gossiping

 

Be Impeccable With Your Word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.        ~  Miguel Angel Ruiz, a great book ‘The Four Agreements’

(Some of you may read between the lines.)

I was extremely fortunate that once I had moved back from living in other countries being an engineer that I was referred to an incredible teacher, Frank Natale, who shattered my reality as I knew it; in good ways. He took people into the depths of their being and experiences beyond anything anyone could have imagined and beyond any teacher I have met to date… for those who were willing. It was all about being authentic to oneself, going into the depths of your own inner matrix and discovering who you are from the inside out. At times I consider it was boot camp for my soul… and just as tough with the best rewards ever.

One of the greatest lessons I learned from Frank was about gossip and effective communication. His trainings were experiential so he would set up exercises for you to learn lessons directly with the other participants. We learned the truth about the intent, behavior and content of gossip. And we learned what it says about the nature of the gossiper. These struck me deeply and altered the way I communicate with people, permanently. Thankfully this was when I was in my twenties.

Gossip is not the Truth

A cruel story runs on wheels, and every hand oils the wheels as they run.       ~  Ouida

The first thing to learn is that once one person tells a story to someone then that person says it to a second person then it goes to a third person and by now the content is different from what was first said. It begins to barely resemble the original story and will soon become a pack of lies. For the most part gossip is built on lies by the time you hear it. I have done this when I taught Effective Communication classes in business and spiritual centers and it always occurs.

gossip hurtsGossip operates with peoples’ unclean energies

Good gossip is just what’s going on. Bad gossip is stuff that is salacious, mean, and bitchy; the kind most people really enjoy.        ~  Liz Smith

The biggest lessons involved the ones learned by the heart and mind through those experiences. The personal energies involved in gossip are not clean. Think about the intent of someone who says bad things about someone else, especially if they never intend to resolve it to their face. Could there be anything positive that comes from talking about someone rather than talking directly to them? I know many people who walk away from gossip including myself. A person who gossips likes to work with negative energies. Like attracts like.

Gossiper’s intent

Fire and swords are slow engines of destruction, compared to the tongue of a Gossip.        ~  Richard Steele

If someone desires resolution then they do what is necessary to resolve things. When someone desires to harm someone else they do what is necessary to do so. Therefore the intent of the person who gossips is clear… it is a negative intent that comes from one’s own malice in her own heart.

Gossip is a Behavior

He gossips habitually; he lacks the common wisdom to keep still that deadly enemy of man, his own tongue.        ~  Mark Twain

The other thing to know about gossip is that if you listen to a person gossip about someone then you can bet your bottom dollar that when you walk away that same person will be gossiping about you to someone else. Gossip is a learned behavior. If a person gossips it is the way they have learned to do so. The good news is that we can always change our behavior once we become aware of it and desire to be better and better human beings.

Positive Facades are a dead giveawayGossip hurts

A real Christian is a person who can give his pet parrot to the town gossip.        ~  Billy Graham

Another truth is that those who you meet who claim to function effectively in a positive bubble are quite often the ones who have the most malicious intent in their hearts. These are the rosey optimists who have a nice façade but you do not dare want to go deeper and find the energy underneath. This is only natural. Life is about highs and lows and our control is in perceiving them and adapting appropriately. Those who think that their lives should be just positive do not handle criticism or feedback… therefore it builds up and becomes malice. This can be a result of some kind of substance abuse that is not fully healed.

Requirements for resolution

To resolve something with another person there are 3 basic requirements:

  1. Both people must be willing which means adjusting one’s personal frequency to the frequency of resolution
  2. Both people must talk to each other not about each other
  3. Both people must be willing to own their own truth in the matter and to listen to the other person’s truth in order to learn from it

Gossip does not solve anything since it is never addressed to the person for whom it would make a difference. It can never ever lead to resolution. Never! It exists at the frequency of ill intent towards others.

The Golden RuleGreat Rule

There is a great rule to follow:  Do not say anything about someone else that you have not or will not discuss with them. This takes the negative intent out of your communication.

I know that for me, having worked in global corporations and other companies after having this training I was not someone to hang out at the water cooler, so to speak. I adopted a habit of finding ways to excuse myself when someone would start to gossip. That is when I developed my internal points of reference where I could detect the energy of someone’s communication and tell if it was gossip as they began to talk. I have been known to just walk away. I do not choose to be in that energy and to facilitate malicious intent. It is under my conscious choice and control.

I know that through the years I have slipped at times and corrected myself. And I know that I have picked up the phone at times to speak directly with someone who was important to me to understand what I was hearing. Sometimes these became a great clearing leading to a closer connection with someone. This is an adopted behavior that has helped me to find authentic people to play with in life. It has made for less quantity of friends but much better quality of friends; people who are willing to be real with each other with minimal facades and use clear, honest and effective communication.

The Truth is always revealed about the Gossiper    Truth wins out

What I do know is that when there is gossip, give it enough time and quite often you will hear the truth about the originator of the gossip and witness how their malicious intent will come to the surface. Keep watching. The truth always surfaces. That is a law of life.

Note: I never have claimed nor will I ever claim to be perfect in everyone’s eyes. I do not desire to be that perfect presenter who claims no problems in life. My goal is to be authentic and to do my best to help others grow from my multidisciplinary trainings as a teacher. Therefore, as a teacher my life is transparent to those who desire to grow with me. Contact me if you hear something and desire clarity.

Very sincerely,

Lamar

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Amazing Grace in Action

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I just watched both parts of the Oprah Farewell Spectacular shows. Yes, they have been on my DVR since May 23 and 24. I didn’t want to see the end. Give me a break; have you ever visited the state of denial?

Intertwined with my love, my awe and my tears I feel such a deep and soul-felt gratitude for the multitude of gifts I have received from watching a lot of Oprah Winfrey shows over the years. I have received emotional, physical, mental and spiritual gifts in the forms of insights, ah ahs and self recognitions directly because of who she is. Her own recognition of who she is and her willingness to do what she is born to do while operating in the energy of an amazing grace is what is truly transmitted across the airwaves. It is who she is that people detect without realizing it.

I first found her show while living in Houston after having done the most profound and life-façade-shattering work with a man named Frank Natale, The Natale Institute. It is as if he helped me to excavate the path through the debris that was my upbringing to show me the depths that lay within me then Oprah joined in to show and teach me many steps along the way for the next 25 years.

Oprah is a human being who, it sounds like, never lost touch with her spiritual self. Watching Oprah being herself and getting better somehow made me want to be myself and get better. Thank you. Namaste

It makes me wonder…

What am I to do with the rest of my life?

What is Source’s vision for me that requires relying on a healthy partner?

How deeply will I go within myself to find the path to do so?

What about you?

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Maintaining Emotional Agility in Life | Who We Are, part 1

Bridge at Zilker Botanical Gardens in Austin, Texas
Bridge at Zilker Botanical Gardens in Austin (click to go to their site)

Life is a journey. Believing this helps in a person’s ability to 1) persist through the inevitable storms of life and 2) have a larger perspective on current life detail which helps to lessen stress.

Life is never going to remain absolutely awful as it will never always be continuously rosy. We live in a world of contrast where we have the opportunity to do what we want and be who we are. Sometimes difficult things happen in life and it hurts. Depending on the event and our current strength of self it will have an affect on different levels of who we are: emotional, energetics, mental, physical and/or spiritual.

I do not intend to make light of anyone’s circumstances, pains or difficulties. It is truly tough at times and sometimes we need a shoulder to lean on. I am also a spiritual counselor; if you are having a tough time and you want a positive affirmative spiritual prayer (non-denominational) then please contact me. [These are designed to effectively help you enhance your awareness, increase your connection to your Source and begin the healing process at its root foundation.]

Most hard knocks come with some kind of emotional pain since that is one of our senses that helps us to detect that it is difficult. Emotions have a strong energetic vibration kind of like sound does. Sound causes a movement of energy that is detected by the ears. Emotions cause a more visceral movement of energy within the body. It is the major energetic component of the event  This energy, when blocked, will store itself in the body. This ends up being that place in your body that always tells you when you are experiencing stress. You know, that shoulder that always hurts or that spot below the shoulder blade that is painful when there is a stressor in life. It tightens up or does more…

In other words when you stop your emotions from being expressed you stop the movement of this energy that is arising from within you so that it can be released. This energy was initiated by some life experience which then became a memory that is associated with this emotion/feeling.

This becomes an unresolved wound. Even if it was 1, 10 or more years ago it is still a wound. It is still affecting your life. You have just forgotten it. Just because you have pushed it aside means that it is affecting your perception of life. You are making decisions that avoid that wound. Your awareness of life is clouded in that area of life. If someone does anything that is remotely close to that original wounding event you will likely have some kind of re-action. The deeper the wound the stronger the re-action. The wound is forgotten but its effects remain.

Even when you have forgotten the event you have not released yourself from it; a part of you is stuck there. This is when people typically will say that it is not important to deal with it. It’s in the past, I can’t do anything about it now. What good would it do? It’s water under the bridge. Just suck it up and go on with life. Real men don’t cry.

All of those common sentiments are okay and life is a choice.

But consider this example: Someone who had taken my classes came to me for personal coaching. As we delved into what she thought was the issue it became obvious that there was a major pain in her past that was unresolved. I worked with her about forgiveness and recorded an audio guided mind cycle for her to use after the session. Within days she contacted me and said that she had not been able to move her head to the side without moving her shoulders with it for 15++ years. She had been to doctors and chiropractors and had found no relief. Then that morning on the way to work when she went to check behind her she easily and naturally rotated her head for the first time in all these years without even thinking about it. That emotional charge was gone. She was freed from that painful part of her past AND she had freed up that energy that was stuck in the past to be used in her present life.

Simply by doing the forgiveness process she released that original emotional pain and now her body had the mobility it is supposed to have.

Forgiveness is not done to let the other person(s) off the hook. Forgiveness is done to let yourself off the hook of that event so that you can move on in life. Once forgiveness is complete you will be able to recall the memory but the emotional charge will be gone…

And the process is not ever as frightening as one might imagine. It is NOT important nor valuable to relive the experience; that is an old school way of doing this process. With the skills I use of approaching it from your emotional/mental/energetic/spiritual levels you will touch upon it just enough to open those emotions so that they drain out of your body. And it is just old energy draining out of you so it is not as painful as your mind may perceive it will be initially. It may seem like a mountain to climb but it always ends up being a molehill.

Plus you will find that you have new energy for your life once this is done. You have freed up that old energy that sucks your current energy because a part of you has had to keep suppressing it.

Many people believe that if you hold onto emotional pains then they become dis-ease within your consciousness which then hardens to became a disease in your body. I tend to agree with this since it is now well known that 90% of all illnesses and headaches are caused by stress. And emotional energy causes stress within the body.

You are an emotional being along with spiritual, physical, mental and other layers. It is important to keep your emotional body fairly clear of old debris so that you can accurately detect what is in your life now using your clear emotional senses.

This is a part of who we are. Check back for other parts including Mental, Spiritual, Intuitive, etc…

I, as always, invite your comments, questions and other concepts.

In-Joy your Journey,

Lamar