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Synchronicities Continue on the Plane | Part 2 of Synchronicity Makes Life Happen with Ease and Grace

Part 2 of blogpost: Synchronicity Makes Life Happen with Ease and Grace

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Denver Union Station for $9 train to airport
Denver Union Station
Denver Union Station- Austin, Consider this

I board the plane to continue my journey back to Austin. I am happy that I have extended legroom for my tall frame and that no one is in the middle seat between me and another man. This man is engaged in either his phone or his Unix book, alternating between the two.

I have a little bit of the sniffles (I think it is just sinus adjustments to the elevation and to the cold and hot I experienced while in Colorado). And I have lots of energy and do not want to sleep on the plane. Thus I decide to write the blogpost: Synchronicity Makes Life Happen with Ease and Grace using my phone.

Brittany

After we take off I did some deep breathing and leaned forward stretching then moving into a straight up position where I exhaled…right on the back of the lady’s head in front of me. Oops. I apologized then…

I struck up a conversation with Brittany, as I later learned her name. She has lived her whole life in Colorado and moved to Austin three years ago when her husband got a good job here. She sincerely misses family, all of whom live in Colorado. As we talk we realize we have similar situations in life such as our moms struggled with an illness for around two decades before passing on. She is wrestling with understanding what happened to her mom. There was detectable grief within her. I was able to share some of the gifts I received in that difficult childhood-into-adulthood situation, as I experienced it. This got her thinking a tad differently.

She mentioned she had been contemplating what mindfulness means.

We eventually talked about using visualization to change life and doing things to heal our self from within concerning the pains and losses of life. She has never heard any of these concepts. We talk while she contorts her body to turn around sideways to face me from the seat directly in front me. I realize there is an empty seat across the aisle from her. Her body can be more relaxed now as I move into that seat to talk.

We share a lot and she asks me questions; all of which I am happy to answer.

Janet

As we are talking I notice the lady sitting in the seat directly in front of Brittany keeps shaking her head affirming what she was hearing us discuss. I am discussing the idea that we can go within, into our Inner Power Center, to heal our life when this other lady turned around to confirm that she, too, does healing work. Go figure! Really? Two of us on the plane do this sort of work (in different ways) that is not so understood by normal society?

Synchronicities are piling up 🙂

Janet ‘happens’ to be sitting in that seat when her assigned seat is in the back of the plane; had to have happened for us to meet. Do you begin to see how the Universe operates?

She is in Giddings, Texas, of all places, doing healing work in a smaller conservative Texas town. Cool! She is returning from a conference learning the association between emotions and hormones and how to facilitate someone’s healing at that level. This is a subject I am interested in also. She and I exchange info, of course.

Pedram R.

While I am talking to Brittany and Janet I notice that the man who is by the window where my assigned seat is on the aisle begins to look at me and starts smiling. I do not know if he is hearing me or if something else triggered his opening to me. It could be the incredible openness, strong and clear energy within me and things I am exhibiting because of the conference which was enlightening, empowering, healing…and I got to see one friend from more than 25 years ago and another friend who had moved from Austin to Boulder. i.e. I am feeling great and incredibly aligned with my inner self, my mission and vision I am bringing forth.

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Denver Statue

Glowing!

Or maybe there’s a fly on my nose he is smiling at 🙂

I finished my conversations with Brittany and Janet as we flew closer to Austin. I moved back to my assigned seat sensing the energies of our communications was waning; it had been an hour+. As I sat down Pedram starts talking with me.

Now, this is a totally different interaction. My inner electrical engineer gets to come out to play with him…and my creative mind gets sparked.

He has a doctorate and is a senior principal of something I have never heard of. He tells me about two projects he is working on. This man is highly intelligent. One project is the IOT, the new “Internet of Things”; wow, we have some HUGE innovations coming forth into our lives. And he is on a project between two High Tech Titans (corporations) working with software and customized chips that will bring healing directly to the cells that require healing.

Way too awesome and my creative mind gets sparked and brings me new ideas to share with him which makes him look at me strangely lol. I am used to it by now.

I shared these spontaneous new ideas that came to me while he was talking. He looked at me strangely until I said I am an electrical engineer and have traveled the world living and working. And we continued a great conversation.

I shared that we have another intelligence center, the intuitive/creative mind, from which we can deliberately receive new and genius ideas. I mention how we can send healing energy to others that is unseen. As he contorts his mind wondering whether or not I am sane I continue. I mention that there must be a way to send the software program as an atom through the custom processor into the person who needs healing without a physical interface. I am going way beyond what he is used to hearing.

I continue sharing that just like the Law of Gravity and other laws that Sir Isaac Newton is credited with discovering how the physical aspect of life works…there are laws and principles of the unseen creative force that we can access to shape our life and to receive intuitive thoughts and ideas on cue; includes the Law of Attraction, Law of Mental Equivalents, Principle of ONEness, Principle of Reciprocity and much more. They are repeatable and usable just like the laws and principles that govern the physical realm of life.

I get his business card as we agree we want to go out and meet. I just texted him to meet.

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Fall Colors in a Denver Neighborhood, Capitol Hill

Life Proactively Supports Us

How is it that I am ‘accidentally’ sitting next to 3 people on a plane, that is not full in the front of the cabin, who have common interests?

Or is this a synchronous event where we are sitting together because there are unanswered questions, desires and/or curiosities within the four of us that are getting answered by us meeting and talking?

Makes me go hmm and want to learn more. I will post more about the conference and synchronicities.

In-joy, Enliven and Inspire,

Lamar

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Life Catalyst | Coaching & Guidance Into Your Good

Expand Your Self to BE Who You Are
Expand Your Self to BE Who You Are

Coaching is the art of skillfully guiding someone into obtaining what he/she desires to have in life while activating the different human systems that allow his/her greatness and goodness to manifest through his/her life.

Being a Life Catalyst comes from having obtained substantial depths in life so that I can guide you into new horizons within yourself. I am fortunate to have trained, learned, apprenticed and licensed in four major personal growth systems plus many minor ones. This allows me to perceive you and your desires from the multiple layers of life that make up your personal matrix system leading you into a more expansive and permanent change for the better.

This means I perceive multiple layers of what makes up a human including mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and energetics. Working on five and more layers simultaneously provides for a much deeper experience of who you are and who you want to be.

People hire me to work with them on any aspect of life, tangible and intangible, whether it be:

  • a goal to achieve
  • learning mental focus
  • achieving stress management real time
  • taming your mind
  • reducing certain medications
  • effectively apply different silva method techniques
  • learn deep meditation in just 3 hours
  • enhance and deepen inner awareness
  • spiritual mind treatment
  • spiritual coaching
  • gain control of your inner conscious states
  • time regression
  • healing
  • adjust your personal energetics
  • show you how to open and cleanse your personal energy centers
  • more… what do you want?
I have a Core Principle -> Life Skill Framework for what I offer:

In all that I do with my clients I will take you as deep within yourself as you need and/or willing to go in order to achieve a long-lasting change in life. I am so blessed to have been guided to learn many systems for 28+ years so that I can be a Holistic Presence to assist others in Activating their Potential into their life.

If you have an interest, contact me and we will schedule a free 20 minute session to get you started and to have a power-packed sample. Then, if you choose to, we will continue the session for just $50, an extreme discount.
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Gossip & Effective Communication

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Gossiping

 

Be Impeccable With Your Word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.        ~  Miguel Angel Ruiz, a great book ‘The Four Agreements’

(Some of you may read between the lines.)

I was extremely fortunate that once I had moved back from living in other countries being an engineer that I was referred to an incredible teacher, Frank Natale, who shattered my reality as I knew it; in good ways. He took people into the depths of their being and experiences beyond anything anyone could have imagined and beyond any teacher I have met to date… for those who were willing. It was all about being authentic to oneself, going into the depths of your own inner matrix and discovering who you are from the inside out. At times I consider it was boot camp for my soul… and just as tough with the best rewards ever.

One of the greatest lessons I learned from Frank was about gossip and effective communication. His trainings were experiential so he would set up exercises for you to learn lessons directly with the other participants. We learned the truth about the intent, behavior and content of gossip. And we learned what it says about the nature of the gossiper. These struck me deeply and altered the way I communicate with people, permanently. Thankfully this was when I was in my twenties.

Gossip is not the Truth

A cruel story runs on wheels, and every hand oils the wheels as they run.       ~  Ouida

The first thing to learn is that once one person tells a story to someone then that person says it to a second person then it goes to a third person and by now the content is different from what was first said. It begins to barely resemble the original story and will soon become a pack of lies. For the most part gossip is built on lies by the time you hear it. I have done this when I taught Effective Communication classes in business and spiritual centers and it always occurs.

gossip hurtsGossip operates with peoples’ unclean energies

Good gossip is just what’s going on. Bad gossip is stuff that is salacious, mean, and bitchy; the kind most people really enjoy.        ~  Liz Smith

The biggest lessons involved the ones learned by the heart and mind through those experiences. The personal energies involved in gossip are not clean. Think about the intent of someone who says bad things about someone else, especially if they never intend to resolve it to their face. Could there be anything positive that comes from talking about someone rather than talking directly to them? I know many people who walk away from gossip including myself. A person who gossips likes to work with negative energies. Like attracts like.

Gossiper’s intent

Fire and swords are slow engines of destruction, compared to the tongue of a Gossip.        ~  Richard Steele

If someone desires resolution then they do what is necessary to resolve things. When someone desires to harm someone else they do what is necessary to do so. Therefore the intent of the person who gossips is clear… it is a negative intent that comes from one’s own malice in her own heart.

Gossip is a Behavior

He gossips habitually; he lacks the common wisdom to keep still that deadly enemy of man, his own tongue.        ~  Mark Twain

The other thing to know about gossip is that if you listen to a person gossip about someone then you can bet your bottom dollar that when you walk away that same person will be gossiping about you to someone else. Gossip is a learned behavior. If a person gossips it is the way they have learned to do so. The good news is that we can always change our behavior once we become aware of it and desire to be better and better human beings.

Positive Facades are a dead giveawayGossip hurts

A real Christian is a person who can give his pet parrot to the town gossip.        ~  Billy Graham

Another truth is that those who you meet who claim to function effectively in a positive bubble are quite often the ones who have the most malicious intent in their hearts. These are the rosey optimists who have a nice façade but you do not dare want to go deeper and find the energy underneath. This is only natural. Life is about highs and lows and our control is in perceiving them and adapting appropriately. Those who think that their lives should be just positive do not handle criticism or feedback… therefore it builds up and becomes malice. This can be a result of some kind of substance abuse that is not fully healed.

Requirements for resolution

To resolve something with another person there are 3 basic requirements:

  1. Both people must be willing which means adjusting one’s personal frequency to the frequency of resolution
  2. Both people must talk to each other not about each other
  3. Both people must be willing to own their own truth in the matter and to listen to the other person’s truth in order to learn from it

Gossip does not solve anything since it is never addressed to the person for whom it would make a difference. It can never ever lead to resolution. Never! It exists at the frequency of ill intent towards others.

The Golden RuleGreat Rule

There is a great rule to follow:  Do not say anything about someone else that you have not or will not discuss with them. This takes the negative intent out of your communication.

I know that for me, having worked in global corporations and other companies after having this training I was not someone to hang out at the water cooler, so to speak. I adopted a habit of finding ways to excuse myself when someone would start to gossip. That is when I developed my internal points of reference where I could detect the energy of someone’s communication and tell if it was gossip as they began to talk. I have been known to just walk away. I do not choose to be in that energy and to facilitate malicious intent. It is under my conscious choice and control.

I know that through the years I have slipped at times and corrected myself. And I know that I have picked up the phone at times to speak directly with someone who was important to me to understand what I was hearing. Sometimes these became a great clearing leading to a closer connection with someone. This is an adopted behavior that has helped me to find authentic people to play with in life. It has made for less quantity of friends but much better quality of friends; people who are willing to be real with each other with minimal facades and use clear, honest and effective communication.

The Truth is always revealed about the Gossiper    Truth wins out

What I do know is that when there is gossip, give it enough time and quite often you will hear the truth about the originator of the gossip and witness how their malicious intent will come to the surface. Keep watching. The truth always surfaces. That is a law of life.

Note: I never have claimed nor will I ever claim to be perfect in everyone’s eyes. I do not desire to be that perfect presenter who claims no problems in life. My goal is to be authentic and to do my best to help others grow from my multidisciplinary trainings as a teacher. Therefore, as a teacher my life is transparent to those who desire to grow with me. Contact me if you hear something and desire clarity.

Very sincerely,

Lamar

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Maintaining Emotional Agility in Life | Who We Are, part 1

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Bridge at Zilker Botanical Gardens in Austin (click to go to their site)

Life is a journey. Believing this helps in a person’s ability to 1) persist through the inevitable storms of life and 2) have a larger perspective on current life detail which helps to lessen stress.

Life is never going to remain absolutely awful as it will never always be continuously rosy. We live in a world of contrast where we have the opportunity to do what we want and be who we are. Sometimes difficult things happen in life and it hurts. Depending on the event and our current strength of self it will have an affect on different levels of who we are: emotional, energetics, mental, physical and/or spiritual.

I do not intend to make light of anyone’s circumstances, pains or difficulties. It is truly tough at times and sometimes we need a shoulder to lean on. I am also a spiritual counselor; if you are having a tough time and you want a positive affirmative spiritual prayer (non-denominational) then please contact me. [These are designed to effectively help you enhance your awareness, increase your connection to your Source and begin the healing process at its root foundation.]

Most hard knocks come with some kind of emotional pain since that is one of our senses that helps us to detect that it is difficult. Emotions have a strong energetic vibration kind of like sound does. Sound causes a movement of energy that is detected by the ears. Emotions cause a more visceral movement of energy within the body. It is the major energetic component of the event  This energy, when blocked, will store itself in the body. This ends up being that place in your body that always tells you when you are experiencing stress. You know, that shoulder that always hurts or that spot below the shoulder blade that is painful when there is a stressor in life. It tightens up or does more…

In other words when you stop your emotions from being expressed you stop the movement of this energy that is arising from within you so that it can be released. This energy was initiated by some life experience which then became a memory that is associated with this emotion/feeling.

This becomes an unresolved wound. Even if it was 1, 10 or more years ago it is still a wound. It is still affecting your life. You have just forgotten it. Just because you have pushed it aside means that it is affecting your perception of life. You are making decisions that avoid that wound. Your awareness of life is clouded in that area of life. If someone does anything that is remotely close to that original wounding event you will likely have some kind of re-action. The deeper the wound the stronger the re-action. The wound is forgotten but its effects remain.

Even when you have forgotten the event you have not released yourself from it; a part of you is stuck there. This is when people typically will say that it is not important to deal with it. It’s in the past, I can’t do anything about it now. What good would it do? It’s water under the bridge. Just suck it up and go on with life. Real men don’t cry.

All of those common sentiments are okay and life is a choice.

But consider this example: Someone who had taken my classes came to me for personal coaching. As we delved into what she thought was the issue it became obvious that there was a major pain in her past that was unresolved. I worked with her about forgiveness and recorded an audio guided mind cycle for her to use after the session. Within days she contacted me and said that she had not been able to move her head to the side without moving her shoulders with it for 15++ years. She had been to doctors and chiropractors and had found no relief. Then that morning on the way to work when she went to check behind her she easily and naturally rotated her head for the first time in all these years without even thinking about it. That emotional charge was gone. She was freed from that painful part of her past AND she had freed up that energy that was stuck in the past to be used in her present life.

Simply by doing the forgiveness process she released that original emotional pain and now her body had the mobility it is supposed to have.

Forgiveness is not done to let the other person(s) off the hook. Forgiveness is done to let yourself off the hook of that event so that you can move on in life. Once forgiveness is complete you will be able to recall the memory but the emotional charge will be gone…

And the process is not ever as frightening as one might imagine. It is NOT important nor valuable to relive the experience; that is an old school way of doing this process. With the skills I use of approaching it from your emotional/mental/energetic/spiritual levels you will touch upon it just enough to open those emotions so that they drain out of your body. And it is just old energy draining out of you so it is not as painful as your mind may perceive it will be initially. It may seem like a mountain to climb but it always ends up being a molehill.

Plus you will find that you have new energy for your life once this is done. You have freed up that old energy that sucks your current energy because a part of you has had to keep suppressing it.

Many people believe that if you hold onto emotional pains then they become dis-ease within your consciousness which then hardens to became a disease in your body. I tend to agree with this since it is now well known that 90% of all illnesses and headaches are caused by stress. And emotional energy causes stress within the body.

You are an emotional being along with spiritual, physical, mental and other layers. It is important to keep your emotional body fairly clear of old debris so that you can accurately detect what is in your life now using your clear emotional senses.

This is a part of who we are. Check back for other parts including Mental, Spiritual, Intuitive, etc…

I, as always, invite your comments, questions and other concepts.

In-Joy your Journey,

Lamar

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Ask the Right Question to Receive the Right Answer

Curiosity and Inspiration trump fear
Curiosity leads to Inspiration = trumps fear

 

When we are curious we receive new thoughts.

To Be receiving new thoughts is the prelude to receiving new things!

Now, you are on your way!


We are constantly tuning our personal frequencies (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual) by what we think about and how we feel. The great news is that we have the free will and the response-ability to choose our thoughts and our feelings.

When you want to expand your life experience you have to expand your imagination, since this is the template for your life’s possibilities. When you desire better then imagine it better, first. Next, you start having new thoughts and ideas which you pick from amongst them to choose the selection of thoughts and ideas that you are now going to construct your ever-evolving template for pieces of your life.

A great and easy way to open up that mental channel for generating the new thoughts and ideas is to focus your mind simply by asking life-expansive, curiosity-laden questions.

When you ask the right question you get the right answer!

Compose some questions who’s answer(s) would move you forward on your goal(s) and contemplate them during idle mental time throughout your day. This is great to do while driving. Turn the radio off and play with your imagination. While exercising…

Examples of questions:

How can I flow with the stream of life to effortlessly receive my good?

What can I do today to feel joy?

How do I move aside?

What is my next inspired action to take?

I wonder how I can get my foot in the door at ____?

What one thing can I do differently today?

I am curious to see how this plan is going to unfold?

I wonder what someone thinks and feels throughout their day who has lavish abundance…
…Can I adapt their thoughts and feelings then rehearse them for me?

What doorway is about to open for me to ___?

What new thought will I have that leads me to this goal?

What will I really feel when I achieve this?

Show me how to do this!

What does someone who has the career of their dreams think about themself?

What’s the biggest, in the sense of best for me and others, dream I can conceive of?