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A+ Student Brain Skills for Studying & Test Taking

There is an intelligence to the way we are designed. We have a brain that has multiple modes that, when we use it as such, allows us to live a better and better, creative and powerful life.

We just were never given the Brain Functioning Handbook.

Luckily through mystics, through empirical evidence and now through the wonderful studies in neuroscience we can understand how to more effectively use our brain.

Brain Modes

Briefly, we have at least two brain modes that we access through our mental direction and conscious breath. The Outer Action Mode is for this world of form, using our five physical senses and taking action. This is generally a left brain hemisphere function. The Inner Creative Mode is where you can more easily direct your thoughts, emotions and thus your life. This is generally a right brain hemisphere function.

Many of my blog posts give different perspective on our Brain Modes including:

Supercharge Changes in Life

Improve Your Life – Update Your Mind’s Software

Best Practices for Students

Imagine having superior concentration, comprehension, understanding, and recall when studying and test taking. This is for anyone in life, not just students (see at the end of this post).

In the A+ Student Brain Skills class students of all ages learn mental direction, intent, and self-commands to make studying and test taking much easier. Index the information learned in your brain.

This results in learning how to study less while increasing your grade. For non-students this helps with regaining mental functioning such as focus, self-direction and goal achievement.

An ex of mine went from academic probation to graduating with honors unexpectedly. This testimonial is in ‘What Clients Say’. He played games more than study once he used this new skill

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Empower Yourself to Stand out from the Norm

What it takes to Stand out from the crowd

In a bad economy you have to get noticed to be hired, to be promoted and to get a raise. In big classes you have to find a way to excel above all the other students who want to achieve. To live a life that is true to your purpose and to move past your fears these are the skills required.

Stand out or Become the norm

Most people on the planet just do things the way everyone else does them. This is what sets the norm. Why try to fit into someone else’s norms and expectations of you? As we know from the definition of insanity – doing the same thing over and over while expecting different results – you will keep getting what you are getting if you keep doing what you are doing. The same applies as to how to move beyond the societal and expected ‘norms’.

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Gain an edge – Use your whole brain

Empower a student – Improve our future

Consider a minor investment in your future… one that will keep giving the rest of your life.

If you know of any groups of students or school systems that want to empower their students then we can arrange separate classes. If someone wants to do a new study on the effectiveness of this system then contact me.

Be more effective in life.

Most people think this after taking a test…

Test taking
Thinking you’ll do bad is a self-fulfilling prophecy

Instead, you can walk out knowing that you used the 3 pass test taking method to access the answers…

Not just for students

As a baby boomer I am so glad to have learned these skills at age 24. I notice that my mind works extremely close to my younger mind. Sharp, focusable, trainable, and creative, to list a few nice qualities.

The saying goes “Use It or Lose It”. These skills exercise your brain, yes. AND it goes much further than that. When you learn that you can choose your thoughts to affect change within you, it becomes another dimension of what is possible in your life.

This is for any person, educator, company, training organization, school, senior group or other who wants to exercise their brain with superior concentration, comprehension, understanding, and recall.

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Thought Experiments Live

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A Progression of Personal Development that seems unbelievable, if it was not reported so often

We are so much more powerful than we ever give ourselves credit for. There is a way to use our brain, as it is designed, to make changes within ourselves and in our experiences of life.

Cognitive therapists talk about how our brain is designed to use both cognitive and intuitive functioning. The approaches I have learned activate the mostly unknown truth that we can also use our intuitive functioning just as easily as we use our logic. It provides immeasurable benefits.

It just takes your willingness and the right training.

I first learned how to use Left/Right Brain Integration Skills at age 23. It has empowered me in ways that my students now experience; below. The fantastic news is that once we use these skills our life opens up and we can continue to expand out of any small life box in which we find ourselves.

Here is a progression of personal development reported to me by a student.

  • My dreams for my future have expanded.
  • I am more grounded now
  • Doesn’t get pulled off center as easily as before
  • Manage my emotions better
  • Has set better boundaries with others
  • Picks up on other people’s feelings, sometimes thoughts
  • Energy does not get drained by others
  • Someone close to me is changing in good ways

Some from other students:

  • After the first class, my husband told me I was much calmer and more relaxed. I used to fidget, always be busy, and talk a lot.
  • I have decreased my worrying and fears
  • Before I send a business email, I close my eyes and imagine the reception I want. It works. Thank you.
  • Had a bad accident. Immediately I used the instant relaxation technique. Once they cut me out of my truck, I was able to step out and walk normally. EMT was surprised I was not hurting.
  • I have started having new thoughts from intuition popping in
  • I have noticed more creative ideas come in for work and personal
  • Energy does not get drained by others
  • Am weeding out thoughts that don’t belong to me and replacing them with ‘who I want to be’ thoughts.
  • I am more in touch with what I am thinking and feeling when I am interacting in life

From some who took an advanced class that includes healing. Working in partners one person, the medical intuitive, is told the name, age, gender, and location of someone with an illness. He or she scans the person and detects medical problems. Then they use healing energies to help that person heal.

  • I detected a family member’s medical condition and told her to go to the doctor. It was confirmed and now she is getting treatment.
  • When scanning the person, I actually saw her face and hair color. Describing it to the person who knows, it was confirmed.
  • I detected that someone had no use of their legs
  • I shrunk metastasized tumors from all over my body. It was confirmed at Houston’s MD Anderson hospital. In a session with Lamar my pain level was over a 10. He guided me to lower it to 4. Then I used the technique to lower it and manage it
  • I was able to have skin tags shrink and go away
  • I detected a deep hip injury and the underlying emotion. Imagining I was rubbing his hip bone and placing a healing salve on it, his pain and limp went away quickly

From me, blog owner, Lamar: I used healing energies for a woman in person. From a hospital stay she contracted MRSA in her bladder. Three rounds of antibiotics did not help. I did this imagining my hands are holding her bladder and spreading a healing salve. During it she started saying ‘Oh. Oh. Oh…’ Afterwards she told me she felt my hands holding her bladder. The next day in a pre-scheduled doctor visit, they tested her and the infection was gone.

From my own experience and reports from others, these are natural progressions which occur for everyone who learns and uses it.

These skills can be learned in class and in private sessions. The private sessions allow you to learn the ones that apply to your immediate life needs.

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Achieving Greatly through Mind Integration

Welcome to a new way to do life.

A Syntheses of 3 Uniquely Powerful Approaches to Empowerment

Most people do their lives using the logical mind. This operates often through stress, struggle, will power, etc. When you begin to use the other half of your brain’s design you begin to have life operate more with ease, focus and synchronicities in life. The more you use it the more your mind develops to be able to operate in different and very beneficial ways.

Imagine having the following sort of skill set for you to do life in a more focused way with greater ease, choice and direction, where you achieve what you focus upon with results coming to you sometimes in surprisingly effortless ways.

Introducing the Wisdom Method
Stress Management, Relax Mind, Body and Energy… on Cue
You have news that stresses you out and would normally divert your attention for days with your thoughts spinning over and over. But in this case you have a way to release the stress, choose your thoughts and directly reverse that negative tailspin.

Some study results of effectiveness of these Precision Inner Thinking Skills
World Health Organization: at least 90% of all illness is from stress
“The ability to enter levels of deep relaxation is critical to the reduction of potentially damaging physical tension and psychological stress.”
~ Correlates of Attention in Humans, Drs. Frederick J. Bremner, V. Benignus, and F. Moritz from Trinity University, San Antonio, Texas
Don’t carry around a bad start to the day. Shift it to be uplifting.
You wake up in the morning feeling completely out of sorts and down. You don’t want to do anything but it’s a full day you have to do. Imagine a simple thought process you do that shifts all those out-of-sorts feelings into becoming how you choose you want to feel. Shift your down and out of sync feelings into joy, happy and gratitude. The day will go so much better from that platform.

Be more effective
You look at your to-do list and feel this overwhelm and fear you cannot get everything done. Imagine a simple thought process to shift yourself into being effective at handling it all, one by one. You align your inner thoughts and sensations to the alignment of what you are about to do. Then things flow with effectiveness and ease.

Claiming Your Good in a seeming negative occurrence in life
Declare a life event to be Good so that it leads to something better. Gain the skills and awareness of how to do this. We have to do things differently if we want life to be different.

Headache Relief and Pain Management
Suddenly, you have a headache. Find somewhere to sit and close your eyes for just a few minutes. Do this focused thought process to eliminate it by the time you open your eyes again. You are in charge.

Introducing Sensualization Model for bettering life
Sensualize Your Life into Being
Advanced Visualization – Presenting a much needed upgrade to visualization, what I coined as Sensualization. This is an expansive approach working with the quantum laws of life to cause and direct your life. Sensualizing your life is using all of your senses and your heart energy laser focused on the same desires in life.

Your inner senses are how you steer your life. And you have equivalent inner senses to each of your physical senses. Sensualization is used to achieve a particular result in life; internal and external. This one-of-a-kind process of using these inner senses to reprogram your brain and heart’s neurons, to line up the path ahead, to direct your inner thoughts, feelings, energies, behaviors to your life’s desires.

Performance/Task Improvement through Precision Inner Thinking

Studies show that precision mental focus improves any performance in life, sports, job task or any area. Learn how to do this. Coaching helps. And this will teach you how to do a lot of it on your own.

Mind’s Eye for Change Manifestation Method
An innovative technique bringing all you learned in class in to a laser focus of your mind, heart and energy towards what you desire in life. Sensualizing your life reprograms the brain and heart, leverages the creative quantum forces that cause life and sends out a clear and concise order to Life in way that Life rises up to meet you supporting you in achieving what you desire in life as you become the person you desire to be in life.

Introducing Whole Mind Results Achievement Model for Goals
All goal setting techniques I learned in business are designed to work with the logical mind’s modus operandi. There’s a different thought and feeling process to achieve your goals that utilizes the advantages of your intuitive mind. Synthesize the benefits of the logical and intuitive minds results in a way to energize your desired results that helps them come easier and sometimes quicker while causing Life to bring you opportunities and open doors.

Additional skills learned include Making Wise Decisions, Developing more Holistic Projects and Goals, Energize yourself, Shift yourself…

Learn some of the Quantum Laws of Life, meaning ways to focus your thoughts that works with the awareness of how to leverage and focus those creative quantum forces for your desired results.

Improve life, Increase self-esteem and boost your personal power
Using these methods develops a greater sense to be able to handle life, have new ideas and access to your incredible personal power. Studies show: 83% increased creativity and intuition, out of 1000 people 49% report improved health, increased self-image, compassion and cheerfulness.

Nothing is as life-affirming and exhilarating as discovering what your personal power feels like coursing through you, and having a sense that Life supports you and your success. Invest in yourself that will bring increasing dividends in making the rest of your life the best of your life.

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Achieve using your brain’s design. Increase focus and ease. Decrease struggle and stress.

Achieving Greatly through Mind Integration

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In this world, we are educated and socialized to use our left brain, which has to do with the logical thinking. However, the ability to alter something in our life exists in accessing the right brain as well, the intuitive mind.

In this class, we will learn to access whole brain thinking, based on applied brain science. This trains us that we can maximize the use of our right, intuitive brain as much as our left, logical brain, becoming more deliberate about our lives, directing our thoughts for internal and external change, and achieving our goals, whether they be career, health, wellness, mental or physical.

When you manage your mind while you discover powerful inner skills you can write your life’s script.

There are multiple perspectives to someone changing from being reactive to life to being able to generate their life.

From an applied science perspective, this is simply a way for you to use your brain as it is designed to cause your life through deliberate choice. This is using left/right brain integration skills.

A quantum perspective enables us to work with the unseen creative forces that cause life so that we direct our own life and achievements.

From an energetic perspective, we learn to directly alter our energies thus directly changing our life and internal state.


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Thoughts are energy. They are real, have power and you are in charge…

Thoughts are energy. They are real and they have power. Your thoughts lead to your unfolding life.

And you are in charge of what you think.

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Your thoughts lead to the process of Your life unfolding. Gain Control over them.

Class coming up to train you on this: Achieving Greatly in Austin.

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Whatever you do, train yourself to manage your thoughts. This begins life mastery.

Lamar Irwin                  #amomentswisdom

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What if you could bend the matrix of reality to have the life of your dreams?

We do live in a multidimensional reality

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Bend the Fabric/Matrix of Life

+ We have free will and choice of what we think

+ Our thoughts lead to our life

+ We have within us the skills, once learned, that lighten up life while improving it and allowing for a more fulfilling life of achievement, self-direction and self-management.

To the question at hand… Bending the matrix of reality 

Yes, you can bend reality and you are doing this yet are simply unaware  that your thoughts cause the results in life.

Thus my favorite topic… How do we tap into our inner potential to alter life?

I first learned precise thinking and visualization to cause a change within me or externally in life, in Malaysia as a young engineer living and working in Indonesia. These skills directly empowered me to improve my job performance significantly. And management started noticing my achievements and performance under those stressful and sometimes dangerous situations.

It truly is nice to be able to choose your desired behavior, task performance or pain release through lining up your thoughts in a precise manner leading to achieving with greater ease, less struggle.

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Find a better path through reality to what you want in life

When we make choices about what we want in life and practice living them within our own trained imagination we are literally programming our brain neurons to be able to recognize and act upon ‘the goal’ when opportunities start coming to us. It also sends out energy from your body’s energetic system to move the matrix of reality creating a path leading towards the desired result.

This may sound fanciful or too science fiction and it happens to be true.

As an affirmed geek I just luv this stuff. And it is practical, repeatable, follows laws and principle of the unseen forces that cause life, and leads us to becoming who we want to become.and to achieving what we are impelled to achieve.

Procedure to bend reality to be a path to achieve your results:

  • Select a relaxed atmosphere inside or outside
  • Find that ‘just right’ position to sit and get relaxed
  • Close your eyes
  • Place you attention on the airflow going in and out of your nostrils and mouth as you breathe in through your mouth
  • Hold it for a few seconds at the top then exhale deeply
  • Continue breathing in and out as your body and mind relax
  • Tell unwanted thoughts to float on like a cloud in the sky
  • Create in your imagination, using your senses, of having the result you are choosing to create in your life
  • Be sure to generate the emotions of having it. This fuels it
  • Enjoy

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Snoopy flying his doghouse. So can you with great ease.

Spend a few minutes in the morning, midday and evening doing this.

Watch what life starts bringing you as new ideas and opportunities.

Click on Snoopy to the right or here to review my upcoming class that teaches these skills. Achieving Greatly, April 29-30 in Austin, Texas.

This is a one-of-a-kind class that synthesizes 3 independently effective methods to bring forth that inner power you hear about but don’t understand until you experience it.

Lamar Irwin    #amomentswisdom

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As Easily As I Breathe I Receive Abundance…in All Forms

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You Are Born AS Abundance

The link in the picture Facebook.com/SpirituallyAwaken is my Spiritually Awaken Circle.

Click the picture to go to a series of 40 days of intuitively guided meditations based on The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price. These are at my SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. Click Playlist: The Abundance Program – Daily Meditations. Listen daily for 40 days and your consciousness will evolve into the Truths about Abundance and where it comes from.

Let me know the results 🙂

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40 Days of Intuitively-Guided Abundance Meditations… Directly Increase Abundance thru Consciousness

Abundance in All Areas of Life
To Align your Consciousness to the True Source that is Inherently Abundant is to have any level of abundance you want, desire and dream of. Do you believe that is possible? Why not give it a shot?

An Opportunity to Directly Enhance Your Life through Your Consciousness

             And directly change your abundance in any area of life.

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I began doing 40 days of 15 minute intuitively-guided abundance meditations on January 17, 2017. The final one will be on February 25, 2017. These occur at 8am CST via teleconference. Then the better quality audio is uploaded to my site for my audio (meditations, talks, podcasts, contemplations) at www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology

Listen to them daily from whenever you start. It is best to hold yourself accountable to be persistent and do day 1 through day 40 in 40 days not missing a single day. If you do then it is best to restart at day 1. This is a gentle lesson to develop an ability to trust yourself that you will do what you say to yourself that you will do. “Be impeccable with your word.” The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price ~ an excerpt from the beginning of the book

Read it on a Kindle. I like using mine.

Abundance in this book is defined as an all-sufficiency of supply, a full measure of infinite good. In the invisible, it’s the creative energy of God, also called Substance. In the visible world, it’s that energy made manifest as money and every other good thing required for a free and harmonious life in this third-dimensional world.”

“There are certain principles of abundance, specific fundamentals for Truth, which, when realized, will free an individual from lack and limitation. Since there are spiritual precepts, a program for prosperity based on Truth can’t be implemented by those with greed, avarice, or selfishness in consciousness.”

“… You must think of money and any other material desire or possession simply as an outer symbol of the inner supply. [sic] The Idea is an all-sufficiency of supply to meet every need with a Divine surplus in your individual life. [sic] But the money isn’t the supply. Rather, it’s your consciousness of God as your abundance that constitutes your supply.”

Contact me for the Companion Prosperity Journal.

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Today is Day 1 of 40 Days of Abundance Meditations… Create More Abundance in all areas of life

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The Abundance Book by John Randolph Price

Today, I began day 1 of 40 days of 15 minute meditations based on this classic abundance program. This is a way to find freedom and abundance from completely different concepts about where abundance comes from. Abundance in all areas of life, love, relationships. success, dollars, material possessions and more.

This is part of a 6-week empowerment class that a team of 4, including me, began January 16, 2017: Say YES To Your Heart’s Desire in 2017 – Facebook Page. This class will break into 3 Groups to help people focus on their goal area outside of class: Career/Business Action Team, Calling In The One Relationships, and Health and Well-Being. If you are in the Austin area contact me to join us. 

If you want to simply listen to each day’s meditations they will be posted on www.SoundCloud.com/MindTechnology. If you want the dial-in information to listen by phone contact me through this page.

There is a companion Prosperity Journal. If you want to participate at that level contact me through this page and indicate so.

Share results, insights and questions to comprehend this even better.

“Live long and prosper.” Spock

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Withholds, Those little things that remain unsaid or unasked between you and someone cause…

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You have a friendship, a working relationship, a bromance or a romance with someone and suddenly you feel a little less heart from him or her. Slowly or quickly that person closes off to you. You do not understand or know what happened. And most people do not ask difficult questions to clarify things and many people will not tell the truth in difficult conversations. That seems to be the societal norm.

What happens between people in all kinds of relationships that slowly separates them? Of course there could be other specific reasons for that. I want to cover a phenomenon that some people may not be aware of yet. An impact on relationships that stems from the societal norm of being nice or the fear of being authentic. Maybe it is the lack of trained skills to develop and deepen relationships.

Foundation for this approach to communication

Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. More details on this at this blogpost

We create these blocks that can be called ‘withholds’ between people and we do not realize the impact on our closeness.

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Every time you judge someone for something you lay a brick between you and them.

Each time you do not clarify a misunderstanding with someone you lay more bricks between you and them.

When you hear something contrary about someone and spread that to others you lay more bricks in a wall of separation.

When you say something about them behind their back you continue building a wall of separation.

You are putting up a brick in an eventual wall of separation if you keep judging that person without communicating with them.

This wall within you then distorts any perspective on that person. It affects your ability to see him or her accurately. The wall begins to fully separate as all past clarity gets obfuscated and covered up.

Then consider the fact that inter-human communication is at least 90% nonverbal and we realize that person has nonverbally picked up on our thoughts that separate us, also.

And we wonder why we have a hard time connecting with people in general. Our perspectives, walls and other foibles distort the clarity of who they are within our mind and who we are in their mind.

Walls that separate. Walls of our own doing.
Walls that separate

Any brick we do not reexamine to see if it can be dissolved will maintain separation.

Do yourself a favor – seek clarity – because there is an additional truth about these thoughts of separation. They exist within your mind and each of them is a block holding you from your own good. Even if the person is to move out of your life it is best done clean. Heal then do conscious separation.

Why am I writing more about interrelation communication?

It is easy to say you want to be more spiritual or be a better person. In the beginning good and new things are happening as your heart and mind open up. As you deepen that way of being in life you will have some periods where things are rocky, the shadow journey that brings such great rewards for those courageous enough to proceed through it. Find those people who will be empowered and empowering throughout life or the lifetime of a project.

Ideas for practicing this

Take a breath and relax. Hold the desire to be clear with this person in your heart. Ask the person if you could talk privately.

When you do meet: Preferably sit across from each other knees to knees almost touching. No barriers. If it’s true for you, then say how difficult it is to ask this or say this. Then ask it in a non-accusatory way; be curious with it.

And listen with your ears, brain and heart. Respond from clear thinking not defenses.

When you hear something derogatory about someone, do you and them a favor. Do this especially if this information conflicts with your previous experiences with that person. Take a breath and say something like hey, I heard something about you that I wanted to tell you (or to ask you about).

Some of us have so many breaks within us including me. This was a big relief and I am grateful that I learned authentic life skills like these in my twenties. I have been practicing as much as I could as I find people or rarely groups who resonate with this level of authenticity and are willing to do it. This authentic approach sometimes does not work for some people.

My training with The Natale Institute has kept me away from gossip which means ultimately you become the subject of gossip. Some people have to throw shade at others. Watch this truth: If you are listening to someone gossip then you can rest assured that the person who was talking gossip about someone else to you will now turn and gossip about you to that someone else. It is not up to you. It is that person’s behavior. Make a choice as to what you want to be around.

[Watch for a future post about the intent and impact of gossiping.]

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Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication

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What is Effective Communication and How is it Done?

As Frank Natale, The Natale Institute, defined it: Effective Communication is when both people involved are willing to change as a result of this communication. This can be expanded to include ‘all the people’ involved.

Qualities of Environment and People

Safe environment with some absolute rules:

  • All hats, positions of power, are removed and we are all one
  • Communicate at an authentic level to get clear

Benefits to teams and groups of people and individuals

Create an avenue for self expression.

Create an atmosphere of trust.

Then foster deep inner creativity which I also train enhancing it and accessing creativity on cue.

You can potentially create an environment that fosters an effective team or group of people or a humanity project. Teams who want to be a self expressive collective force to reckon with would benefit.

Commitment

A commitment to Unity with another person. They have let go of the intent to separate.

Effective Speaking and Listening

The person speaking uses ‘I’ statements owning the impact with him or her of what was said or some event happened to the other person

The person listening is fully present feeling and hearing what is being communicated verbally and nonverbally.

[I will add to this post with more detail as I write other topics from this concept.]

This is sort of a post to define Effective Communication. I will refer to this post as I introduce some guidelines and methods to practice this.

I offer these empowering classes that deal directly with this including in an experiential learning manner. I was well-trained by them and I apprenticed with Wilbert Alex. I now comprehend broader applied sciences to human consciousness, spiritual empowering approaches and the matrix of energies in which we exist and can thrive as much as we seek.

Who would benefit from this sort of training?

Teams that want to be tight with each other, trusting in and empowering each other. Could be emergency crews, boardrooms, business teams, nonprofit, spiritual, medical teams, educational teams and others.

It is deeply empowering for those spiritual communities who seek to build a tight bond and trust amongst members.

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‘The Miraculous Power of Letting Go’ Talk, Discussion & Spiritual Mind Treatment, Sunday Sept 4

The Miraculous Power of Letting Go

We live within a Law of Mind that reacts to our thinking.

“We are all immersed in an aura of our own thinking. This aura is the direct result of all that we have ever said, thought or done; it decides what is to take place in our life; it attracts what is like itself and repels what is unlike itself. [sic]

We have this law in our hands to do with as we will. We can draw what we want only as we let go of the old order and take up the new; and this we must do to the exclusion of all else. This is no weak man’s job but an undertaking for a strong, self-reliant soul; and the end is worth the effort. The person who can hold his thought one-pointed is the one who will obtain the best results.”

~ Creative Mind and Success by Dr. Ernest Holmes      [p 18]

I recently had a direct experience of choosing to walk through this process for my own life. Thanks to a friend I had 3 days at a lake house where I let go like dumping the contents of a household into the trash. I dumped the trash and debris of life from within my inner household. The changes in my life are still happening two weeks later. A change into a better sleep pattern. There’s now room for new ideas and they are abundant. There’s now room for good feelings within me and they are abundant. There’s now room for greater results to occur in my life and they are becoming abundant. There is a noticeable increase in clarity and focus in my life endeavors. And weight is starting to fall off with my natural appetite at about one-third of what it was.

Affirmation: I am grateful that I have the free will and courage to let go of life’s debris thus open to life’s gifts, guidance and miracles.

Come join us this Sunday for a talk, discussion and meditation concerning this.

Meetup: Align to Your Good thru Spiritual, Science, Meditation Location is at this site once you join.

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